It is the key to use both soft and hard wrists freely.

Wrist is soft and hard, and easy to use is the key.

When we enter the workplace, when we slowly grow from an inexperienced novice to an independent elite, we have experienced many battles, and now we have to start practicing another higher-level martial arts, that is, how to become an excellent manager. Management is a profound knowledge, and modern enterprises are developing rapidly. How to adapt to the development of modern enterprises and use management skills freely is a compulsory course for every employee who wants to enter the elite decision-making level.

Sun Tzu's Art of War in March said: Therefore, we should make it written and work together. This sentence means to educate soldiers by means of literature, that is, by means of political morality; By force, that is, by unifying the pace of military discipline, such an army will surely win as soon as it starts fighting. This idea and principle also apply to workplace management. Sun Tzu's civil and military skills mean that we have different soft and hard skills in the workplace. However, whether in management theory or in management practice, how to deal with the differences between soft skills and hard skills is everywhere. We often hear such a saying, both hard and soft, which can also be the best annotation of workplace management. Wrist can be soft or hard, the key is to use it freely.

Among the management skills in the workplace, soft management refers to humanized and personalized flexible management with people as the center, with the purpose of stimulating and mobilizing employees' subjective initiative, based on employees' thoughts and characteristics, and with the common values, cultural concepts and spiritual atmosphere of the organization as the link. Flexible management is a kind of management thought and mode put forward for knowledge economy and globalization, which pays attention to management softening. This management model is based on employees' cognition, understanding and internalization of organizational behavior norms and rules and regulations, and it depends on the common values and psychological and cultural atmosphere of the organization. The role of managers is mainly to motivate, guide and support.

The workplace is a complex political field, so it is particularly important to choose the right management skills at the right time. In terms of management skills, soft management has obvious innate advantages and people's hearts are full of meat. Even the managed people hope to get more flexible management, which can not only convince them, but also stimulate the subjective initiative of employees to meet the needs of rigid competition in knowledge economy. Soft and high-level psychological needs can deeply stimulate employees' work motivation and enhance their sense of ownership, so that they not only consciously improve their work level, but also are willing to tap their potential, give play to their talents and make extraordinary work achievements. In addition, soft management skills are conducive to the formation of collectivism and mutual cooperation within the organization and to the formation of a preventive mechanism against various anomie phenomena.

How much water a barrel can hold depends not only on the length of each board, but also on whether the boards are closely combined. Without enough tightness, the board is useless no matter how long it is. And how to enhance the sealing of the barrel is exactly what every manager must master.

There is a saying that people with the same desire win, which means that only the upper and lower sides can win. This requires managers to unify the thoughts and behaviors of all employees and form strong competitiveness. Soft management plays an increasingly prominent role in winning the hearts of subordinates and maximizing collective value. Soft management has obvious humanization, emphasizing jumping and changing, speed and response, sensitivity and flexibility. It pays attention to equality and respect, creativity and intuition, initiative and entrepreneurship, foresight and value control. It realizes the transformation of knowledge from recessive to dominant through information sharing, virtual integration, competition and cooperation, complementary differences and virtual communities of practice, and finally creates the competitive advantage of enterprises.

Managers who are good at dancing with long sleeves must understand the essence of soft management if they want to make a splash in the workplace. The softness of management skills emphasizes that internal is more important than external, psychology is more important than physics, example is more important than teaching, affirmation is more important than negation, encouragement is more important than control, and pragmatism is more important than retreat. Obviously, after the flexible management of knowledge-based enterprises, managers pay more attention to the enthusiasm and creativity of employees, and pay more attention to the initiative and self-discipline of employees.

In the management of modern enterprises, countless operators and managers are learning and advocating wolf culture. Jiangsu Liyuan Group, a well-known solar energy enterprise in China, pursues flexible management culture and model innovation in the face of fierce competition. They used the Taiji principle and the core concept of Liyuan enterprise to build a real rigid team through flexible management. They are invincible in the national market, dare to face the enemy, dare to climb the clouds and win the lottery, and their achievements cannot be underestimated.

Mr. Li Ping, president of Liyuan Group and chairman of Liyuan Solar Energy Co., Ltd., is quite unique in soft management: Tai Chi is invisible and tangible, flexibility does not mean weakness, and weakness is also a kind of strength. The development of things lies not in the process, but in the result. So be good at using flexible methods to make rigid results. Of course, in management, it is obviously not enough to be soft blindly, and it must be hard when it is hard. For example, on some major issues of principle, managers must harden their hearts. Sometimes in order to achieve good management results, all management systems and means should be formulated in the direction of encouraging or even forcing employees to work hard. China sonorous rose can achieve such good results in various international competitions, which is inseparable from the hard work of the top leaders.

People who have seen the women's football training in China are very moved. Coach Shang Ruihua adopts the training method of British professional men's team. The commonly used 5 ~ 25m fast turn-back runs for 40 times in a class; Sometimes I also use variable speed running, and the time is limited, and a class is 8000 meters. Shang Ruihua said with emotion: I have been a coach of the men's team, and many male players can't stand it. Some lie down, some pant and vomit, and some swear: Is this training people or animals? But this group of girls is not like this. They vomited and fainted, and their reaction was stronger than that of male players. They are often too tired to go on holiday. They cry, they grind their teeth, but they don't swear, they don't flinch, and some girls even finish training with tears in their eyes.

To put it bluntly, whether it is soft or hard, it is a management model. Although soft management and hard management have their own advantages and disadvantages, it is meaningless to evaluate which is better or worse. In practical work, the two influence and penetrate each other. There must be rigidity in softness, and both rigidity and softness are combined, so this is the winning way of enterprise management. A leader who can't use these two management methods freely will certainly not achieve good management results.

In the Jiafu enterprise in A Dream of Red Mansions, Xifeng, a vice general manager who thinks highly of herself, is in charge of administrative power. Although Feng is full of talents, the most powerful role in Jia's enterprise is not Feng, but Jia, the chairman of Jia's enterprise who calls himself an old waste. She knows the best way to be a leader, not showing mountains and not showing dew, and firmly controlling the situation between talking and laughing.

Jia knows that Jia's enterprise needs a smart and intelligent person like Xifeng to regulate its operation, and she also knows that this arrogant person is difficult to control. However, the manager is just a piece of cake for this tried and tested veteran. It can be said that the magic is one foot high and the road is ten feet high. She knows that if she simply ignores this subordinate, or ignores her existence, or even suppresses and attacks her, then there may be a waste of talents, and perhaps it will bring endless future troubles to herself. Therefore, in order to control this high-profile genius jie feng, Chairman Jia adopted a personalized soft management mode, which is the key point to control jie feng. She first recognized Xifeng's ability, and then arranged some special jobs to see if Xifeng really had outstanding performance, because she knew that Xifeng urgently needed job satisfaction to show off her ability to others. The so-called personalized soft management method is spoil. Grandma's love for Xifeng won her heart, controlled Xifeng, directly helped her share the management pressure and made a career for her.

Between failure and success, mediocrity and glory, humility and greatness, there has never been a towering mountain, a surging river, and sometimes it is just a step away. However, this step is far away, and the difference of one degree is always a leap of difficulty and wisdom, and it is a watershed for management.

How soft your heart is, how hard your shell is.

1, I just found that emotional people think a lot. Just like when I send you a message, you will reply to me occasionally, and then simply don't reply and float away. We both know that none of us will be the last. I think if I spend a few more seconds with you, you will miss me more. I think if I talk to you desperately, you will feel how much I love you. I thought I did something, and you'll understand. However, I was wrong.

Frankly speaking, if you don't do stupid things for love, you don't deserve love.

One day that person comes into your life, you will understand that true love is always worth waiting for.

The man who really belongs to you will know how to chase you, because he has the desire to chase you. So, before that person appears, you can have your own life without making changes for others. Happiness is the most important thing.

Don't cheat others, because the people you can cheat are those who believe in you.

6. How many secrets does a person need to hide in order to spend his life skillfully? This Buddha-like plateau is a paradise in three steps and two steps, but there are still so many people who are preoccupied and unable to walk.

7. Mom said that as long as I admit my mistake, I will hold hands again; You said that sometimes admitting mistakes can make us hold hands again. Relatives will always forgive because you are their child; Lovers are always unforgivable because we are all children.

8. A person who has never been lovelorn in his life is happy, just like walking on a road full of thorns without being stabbed once; People who have been lovelorn many times in their lives are also happy, just like after being scarred in the thorn forest, they finally found the way to the outside of the forest. Everyone can be happy, have a good attitude, and see a turn for the better in bad things.

9, some things, we know is wrong, but also insist, because unwilling; Some people, we know that we love, but have to give up because there is no ending; Sometimes, we know there is no road, but we are still moving forward because we are used to it. Life is like a book. If you accidentally turn it over, you will miss the fairy tale. Look at it too carefully to sort it out. The grievances that can be said are not grievances; A lover who can be taken away is not a lover.

10, remember a little happiness, forget the sorrow's pain; Remember the unforgettable love and forget the helplessness of parting; Remember the sweetness of life and forget the bitterness of running around; Remember precious friendship and forget conflict; Remember the kindness of warm heart and forget humiliation; Remember to laugh, forget to cry; Remember to hold hands and forget to look at others; Remember enrichment, forget loneliness ... stand firm and pave a smooth road to heaven.

1 1. Values are a great treasure in our hearts, and no one can take it away. Doing the right thing may not guarantee that you will always get what you want, but in the long run, it can make you feel good about yourself. Attractive single women, you must learn to keep a balance, including eating habits. Understand scientific diet, reconcile yourself and give good advice to others.

12, time, let the deep things sink deeper and deeper, let the shallow things sink deeper and deeper. If you look down, you will get less hurt. Time has changed, love will fade and break up. Don't wait for someone who shouldn't wait, and don't be heartbroken. It was really a long time before I realized what kind of people and things I really missed. ...

13, how soft your heart is, how hard your shell is, otherwise how can you go on on the long road of life? Now there are several people who haven't been in love since adolescence. But how many don't end at the beginning. There is no deep love. The best thing is to run a love marathon.

14, I gradually realized that as time goes by, fewer and fewer people will be kind to themselves, and I gradually realized that one should be kind to oneself, because few people really care about you, and if something goes wrong, they may not be around. So take care of yourself. How to give more back to the world while asking for it, and remain calm and tolerant when in doubt.

15. If you are in a bad mood, you might as well go to a movie, listen to a piece of music, sing a song, make a phone call and enjoy the sunshine. To hell with your troubles, have fun first. Xu is deliberately pursuing the so-called happiness. Some people get it, but the price is huge. Many philosophers say that happiness is a feeling.

16, life goes forward and backward, and you can't lose your mood without losing anything. In this world, sometimes you laugh at others, sometimes you laugh at yourself, relax, give yourself happiness and give others happiness. At sunrise, the East China Sea sets in the West Mountain, and one day it is rich and one day it is poor; Worry is also a year, and joy is also a year; Pain is also a day, and happiness is also a day. Why not have a happy day? Life is not a dead end, people are comfortable and their hearts are comfortable.

17, life is more and more like a black humor. When you don't understand, you want to understand, and when you understand, you want to know nothing; You should enjoy the time before you grow up. You desperately want to grow up, and when you grow up, you can't wait to go back. The teenager in my memory has gone away. My dream was like a train that missed the station. I didn't know which station I went to for a long time.

18, the most beautiful feeling is love, and good love is resilient and can be pulled away, but it can't stop. Lovers are not bound to each other, which is a sign of their confidence in love. No one restricts anyone, and in the end, no one can live without anyone. This is true love.

19, tea is brewed, but life is tasted; Life is like a one-way ticket without a return trip. Memories of life, tears when you are sad, and drunkenness when you are happy are all precious because of pursuit. I see myself in the mirror, a little more beautiful than my real self. The reason is that when you consciously examine yourself, you will show a more pleasing expression in order to please yourself.

20, life, happiness depends on mood, happiness depends on mentality. Many people live hard enough, hard enough and hard enough, but they just feel unhappy, unhappy and unsuccessful because they can't see themselves clearly, don't know what they really need, don't know what to stick to and give up. No matter what the ultimate ideal of life is, it is hard to work hard.

Antique and poetic space talk about waiting and watching, so the dust rises and disappears.

1. See and see, what the heart sees. Reading or not reading, the mirror is full of flowers. Eating color is also true, virtual Wang Hongchen.

If you wait and see, the dust will start to die. Get together in an instant and scatter the world in one thought.

3. Wash away the lead, and your fingertips will flow away with a lifetime of embarrassment. You can live a long life and forget the beauty.

4. Take advantage of the autumn wind, put on an elegant plain clothes, drink a cup of tea before the rain, and walk under a pear tree. White flowers are falling, gentle and elegant, and pure jade is flawless.

5. If you have a flashy dream all your life, there will always be someone who regards you as life.

6. Ask if you want to go home, holding your sleeve, and the clouds in the sky are calm with the wind.

7. Flying flowers and floating sheep, dancing in dresses, a lot of feelings are flying.

8. Wide sleeves are flowing, the fingers of the piano are condensed, and the clear water is far away.

9. The smoke is vast, and you are a peerless beauty standing in the water, wearing plain clothes, eyebrows like distant mountains, eyes like a pool of blue waves, charming eyes, elegant and compelling, skin solidified, muscles like jade bones, and no makeup.

10. In a trance, wandering. I think of the flood in Fengtian, the rainy season and the slightly cold early autumn.

1 1. The moon is still silent, and the years have turned several times in the world. It's hard not to talk when you look at the world of mortals and misty rain river! I don't know how to correct my mistakes, just like a frozen picture. Feelings are long, and those pains and feelings again and again are just an empty dream in retrospect.

12. I taught the person I like how to love, but it's a pity that the person he loves is not me.

13. You said you were alone and paired with the mirror; Then there were three people on the road, and the years were long.

14. Even if I beat my rival in love by 3,000, I am not in your heart.

15. Self-deception, self-pity, delusion of meeting you again, wind trace, wind breath, how sad.

16. The fate of dust has always been like water, and it is rare to cry. Why do you do your best? Don't be sentimental, love to hurt yourself. Don't love worldly glitz, don't write about the world of mortals, don't lament that the world is cold, and don't make people sad. Look at the flowers, wait for the flowers to fall, be warm and cold, and be as clean as ever.

17. Night is full, the moon is purple, and the ink is full of red makeup; Peach blossom face, bodhi, Bai Rui has become a streamer. The husband of heaven and earth, the inverse of everything; Time flies, and a hundred generations fly by. And the floating life is like a dream, for the joy of geometry.

18. Finally, the whole world was shrouded in misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River. After the glory of China, it was just a scene, and the mountains and rivers were silent forever. The heart is not polluted, and the peace of mind is natural and clear.

19. The heart is slightly moving, but it is far away. Things are wrong, people are wrong, things are wrong, and the past cannot be traced.

20. The landscape is picturesque, the beauty is poetic, and the world is full of lotus.

2 1. listen to the string and break 3 thousand infatuation. Falling flowers, forgetting, once the wind rippled. If the flower is pitiful, it will fall on whose fingertips.

22. Luo Yi is fluttering and drifting away with the wind. Her look back left a charming light, and the smell of her whistle was like the smell of orchids.

23. Who wears Bai Mei makeup and dyes sandalwood by mistake, the Buddha can't cross the world.

24. The world of mortals is always red.

25. Laugh at the spring breeze, laugh at the spring breeze, and laugh at how much trouble there is.

26. I want to know you, and I will live long. There is no mausoleum in the mountains, the river is exhausted, there is Lei Zhen in winter, and there is rain and snow in summer. Only when heaven and earth become one can we break with you. If I can't get it and protect it in my life, I'd rather be alone for a hundred years.

27. It's hard not to get old. The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it. A paper fan, a jade crown, a feather and a dress.

28. There are peerless and independent beauties in the north. Take care of the city first, then the country. I'd rather not know the whole city and country, and it's hard to get another beautiful woman. Ten thousand ideas, many solutions, can only rely on loneliness and disgust. This is my life, and I have shed a thousand tears for you.

29. If you win someone's heart, you will never leave them. Remember, the rosewood hasn't come out yet, and I didn't go either. Life is like a dream. Wrong, wrong, right, bitter. In the end, the sun and the moon are silent, and the water passes without a trace. When a player enters a painting, he lives all his life.

30. In that year, in the prime of life, whoever promised to die. Cochineal tears make people drunk, grow up naturally when they are heavy, and hate water.

3 1. Xiaosonggang, the moon is like frost, and people are like floating flowers; Decades, three thousand years, I hope we don't forget each other. Things are like lotus, pure and elegant, not dirty and dirty, and look down on glitz.

32. The world of mortals is a stranger, searching for thousands of Baidu, looking back on the Millennium, feeling Iraqi.

33. A cloud freshened up. On the shore of the breeze, it is as blue as a hairpin. Black tiles and white walls, a paper of red dust is light.

34. Running water is far away, thinking of dreaming of Jiangnan.

35. A boat with a hat and an inch of silk hook; Sing a song, drink a bottle of wine, and catch a river alone.

36. Whether it covers the whole world or not, it will always be a craze.

37. In my dream, I dreamed of you. How can I send a letter without reply? I am a good doctor, and the only good medicine is you.

38. Vaguely, it is the old season. The first quarter moon is on the gate, and the night is as clear as water. Lend me a moment to really see you, the flowers behind me will turn into snow, and the river map "Wind and Sky" will not fade in the moonlight.

39. There used to be a tall building that sang at night and had dancing sleeves on it.

40. When you enter my lovesick door, you will know that I have been lovesick for a long time, but my lovesick is short.

And, _ and meaning, make sentences.

This is also a fact.

Explanation: Answer: Again, again. This is also the case.

Said by Liu Yiqing in the Southern Song Dynasty, "Talking about new things, especially regretting": Liu Kunshan can delay, but he is not good at comforting the royal family. Although thousands of people came back to vote in one day, they still ran away, and so on. So there's nothing to make of chess pieces.

Also after this sentence:

1, and so do ordinary people.

2. The same is true of people in the world.

Like a fool, one son died and the other son was killed. This monk is the same today.

4. The same is true between master and apprentice.

5. My ears hear sweet sounds, that's all. So is the harsh noise.

6. The same is true of the bodhisattvas in his palace.

7. The same is true for planting good roots.

8. You can't know by counting, and neither can a bodhisattva.

9, the process of national life, its experience is the same.

1 1 and other typical semantic paradoxes are also true.

12, the theme of this book is the same.

13, the progress of national life, and so is its course.

14, so do ordinary fools.

15, Buddhist apprentice, and so on.

16, it seems that it takes ten, twenty or thirty years to learn and practice.

17, Manjushri. The same is true of Tathagata.

18, the result of the world is the same.

19, forbearance is a classic. This is also the case. It is also the first of all beings.