What is the Japanese view of love? It seems to be heard that they will have mistresses besides their families or something. Who knows? Let's stop here.

Japanese concept of love "the meeting of lunch and fate"

What is the charm of the key "lunch box" decided by Japanese men?

In Japan, in fact, like us, it is troublesome and time-consuming to cook lunch by hand on busy days.

Things, but I can receive a lunch made by my girlfriend. I wonder how many men are young when they are in love.

Happiness and dreams, you can actually feel a lot from your girlfriend's own lunch, and whether it's delicious or not is the second.

What matters is a state of mind. Handmade bento is also the most commonly associated keyword: happiness, wisdom,

I remember watching a program that my wife made specially that day to celebrate my husband's retirement.

Lunch came, and two people went to the place where they were dating for lunch. This photo was taken by the old couple at dinner.

The figure of a lunch box makes people feel that it should be the best lunch box in the world.

Introduce two Japanese bento masters named "JunkoS of Temple Island" and "The Truth of Gong Ze". Their names are as follows.

The name is not because the box lunch is particularly delicious, but because they took it to another level.

Then I want to tell a story about a Japanese friend getting married. One of their hometown is in Hokkaido and the other is in Kyushu. How did they meet and communicate in Tokyo?

Asked how they met and decided to get married, the man said "lunch", but the woman said an answer that interested me very much.

Case "Fate meets Fate"! What exactly is "fate meets fate"? 」

In fact, Destiny is a mixture of Destiny and Meeting (not quite the same as love at first sight).

Just like the plot in the cartoon, crayon Xiao Xin's parents, Hao Shi and Mei Jing are together because of the wonderful "fate".

Europe (see comics for details). What is the situation or symptom that makes people feel destined? What is destiny takes a hand to see?

Will there be wonderful magic that makes people want to fall in love?

In a survey of Japanese boys and girls in 2008, "What makes you want to meet fate most?" ? 」,

We can see the statistical results are as follows:

Men's Desire for "Fate Beyond Meeting";

Top 3

1. Purple どものにっしてぃったたのととと

(The first lover who moved away after hours, met again by chance)

2. Say goodbye to those places that completely violate the rules.

People you met in the place where you traveled, but you met again in a different place.

3. I met people in the plane seat, and they used to be good people.

The person sitting next to you on the plane is the person you once liked.

Ranked 4~ 10

4. The rain stayed in the pavilion, and people who met by chance were once good.

(Waiting for the rain to stop under the eaves, I met someone I used to like)

5. Rain gear, umbrella, umbrella, etc.

When it rains, borrow an umbrella. )

6. Be a doctor (nurse) on admission.

(Doctor (nurse) who was in the hospital when he was injured)

7. Put things down, pick them up and touch them.

(Touching the other person's hand when something falls to pick it up)

8. An eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye,

I found a person who fell in love at first sight and joined the same company and department as myself.

9. Libraries, libraries, libraries, libraries, libraries, libraries, libraries.

(I met the other person's hand when I was about to borrow the same book in the library)

10. Commuting, meeting, thinking, thinking, thinking.

I have a crush on someone when I commute, and I moved next door.

Doctors who take care of themselves when they are injured can also promote "going out". Is this the so-called good side of everything? Others will say,

The person you like is the object of parents' blind date, the collision around the corner and the last one on the shelves at the same time

A commodity "and so on, really like the plot of a Japanese drama, love always happens after an accident.

Women's hope of "going out";

Top 3

1. Say goodbye to the first meeting of the brigade, people and places that are completely against the rules.

People you met in the place where you traveled, but met again in different places.

2. First love, unexpected farewell, and first love.

(The first lover who moved away after hours, met again by chance)

Commuting is a good way to meet people. Think about it and learn from it.

I have a crush on someone when I commute, and I moved next door.

Women's hope of "going out" is quite close to that of men, but for women, the opposite sex they meet in different places is

In another place, "fate" and "mystery" seem to have more attractive imagination space for women.

Ranked 4~ 10

4. I met people in the plane seat, and they used to be good people.

The person sitting next to you on the plane is the person you once liked.

5. Rain gear, umbrella, umbrella, etc.

When it rains, borrow an umbrella. )

6. An eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye, an eye,

I found a person who fell in love at first sight and joined the same company and department as myself.

7. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do.

Help people who are surrounded by terrible people or be helped.

8. The rain stayed in the pavilion, and people who met by chance were once good.

(Waiting for the rain to stop under the eaves, I met someone I used to like)

9. Do you happen to be with me? \ってきた

(I happened to meet someone I like in the elevator to ride with)

10. Road, vehicle, vehicle and repair.

(helping to repair the car that broke down on the road)

Environment affects women's feelings (while men are mostly involved in physical accidents), "travel", "rain" and "collapse".

Perhaps it is in this "lonely", "accidental" and "need help" situation that women are relieved.

He also seems to be "saved from idiots and perverts." Is this influenced by the electric car movie?

Take a trip and cook a lunch by yourself. Maybe you will also have a wonderful "fate meeting".

Meet the people I met on my trip.

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The emerging concept of love reflected in TV dramas

In the 1990s, when the meaning of marriage and family power was gradually weakened and lost, this kind of emotional cobweb was more openly extended to the relationship between husband and wife in various works, such as Paradise Lost, which shocked Japan not long ago. The protagonists, K?ji Yakusho and Hitomi Kuroki, preach the romance of middle-aged people's infidelity and double suicide. In fact, many idol dramas have revealed this information before. For example, Duty and Acting, starring Duan Liyang Asano Nagaakira, explains the relationship between love and sex in modern marriage through the marriage between a powerful woman and another traditional woman, restrained erotic logic and romantic and liberated extramarital affairs. This kind of extramarital affair that brings marriage to the brink of breaking up usually ends in tragedy, just like planting a sage in love (Etsushi Toyokawa).

Working hard, she neglected her wife Shu Mei (Narumi Yasuda), so that when she worked as a housewife, she fell in love with the policeman Biaozuo (Gor? Kishitani) she met, but accidentally killed her children.

But there are also comedy endings. For example, in Two Hearts and Two Hearts, two couples are simply allowed to exchange partners. After Taishi Kitamura () fell in love with Li Tanabe () by chance, at a family gathering, Hiroichi Kitamura () fell in love with Meijia Tanabe (). Finally, the marriage moved, and everyone was happy. This story is similar to "Lover" in Yongze! ",is also two couples, but their relationship is established before marriage, only to find the value of this relationship after marriage. Ryotaro (Saturday Ji) and Ai Yong (Honami Suzuki) moved next door after a year of marriage. But unexpectedly, Ryutaro and his ex-girlfriend Zhuangzi rekindled their old love because of their own daughters, while Uzaki and Aiyong maintained a spiritual love full of cleanliness, which was romantic and aesthetic to the extreme.

Modern marriage is full of victims, and idol drama also gives these marriage losers a second life. Like "Let's Get Married", let the newly divorced Dianshan Keitaro (Eguchi Yosuke)

In order to win custody of his son, he forged his marriage with Miyuki Weichuan (Shi Tianguang), a salesman of health care equipment, and finally made it come true. Although Y?ji Oda, the hero of We Meet. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? He has a girlfriend. He has always been infatuated with his brother's ex-girlfriend Atsuko Asano. Her marriage failed and her daughter lives alone. After many years, they broke through many taboos and came together. Comparatively speaking, fairy tale idol dramas that emphasize happy endings can better satisfy the dreams of young female audiences. Based on the romantic love story of modern Cinderella, The Fairy Tale of Tokyo is an urban fantasy novel about a country girl sparrow turning into a phoenix, which creates a new myth of class relations in capitalist society. Concerto is another new world that female audiences yearn for. Rie Miyazawa, the heroine, enjoys the tenderness of two lovers, Kimura Takuya and Tamura Masakazu, which changes the traditional story that men can only have three wives and four concubines (although some people think that there is actually a taboo homosexual feeling between the two heroines).

Persistence in pure feelings is the eternal truth.

There is also a kind of love that can win the sympathy of the audience, that is, the tragic love with incomplete and unfortunate characters. The most famous example of congenital malformation is, of course, the silent love in Tell me you love me. The dumb painter Banmu Huangji (Etsushi Toyokawa) is usually withdrawn and drowned himself, so he has to get rid of it with the maternal tolerance of troupe actor Hiroko Mizuno (Takako Tokiwa). It's just that inferiority has dragged their relationship on for many years. Fragrant fragrance (Emi Wakui) in Angel's Love is a naive girl with low IQ but artistic talent, and her relationship with journalist Ze Duche (Katsunori Takahashi) has also experienced many setbacks. She has been waiting for him to charter a boat in Rainbow for several years, and men are not forbidden to shed tears of sympathy for her. Although the people in "The Moon in the Day" are normal, the heroine Wu Yong (Takako Tokiwa) was raped before the first date, and since then she has become androgynous, and she is getting farther and farther away from the hero Naoki (Y?ji Oda), which is an acquired misfortune. The relationship between lovers that attracts students' audience in the campus youth idol drama is probably the simplest and purest. It always seems that there is nothing. If you want to talk about it, even a love triangle is always like a gentleman's jealousy and humility. For example, although Shinji Takeda and Sae Isshiki in Hot Seventeen are lovers, they are embarrassed with Yuki Uchida and hesitate between friendship and love; In fact, the previous "Who Stole My Heart" also had such a problem, the same heroine combination, but the hero became Kimura Takuya. This theme and role of taking young students as the market also flaunts the young love of new and new human beings. In the era when mass media dominate people's lives, it is no longer clear whether "drama reflects life" or "life reflects drama". Let's learn how to love each other, shall we? "Inside, Takanori Jinnai, a high school teacher, likes to say to everyone when he is pursuing Xiao Ye and Kyoko:

"Are you in love?"

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Japanese girls' view of love

This story happened in my hometown. Hubei Three Gorges!

25-year-old Kyoko Mimura was born in Osaka, Japan, a famous family, and is a small Japanese painter.

1At the end of 997, at the age of 20, she won the first prize in the All-Japan Art Competition. 1April, 998, as a reward, her father, who deeply loves China culture, paid her to travel to China to collect landscapes and sketches. In Shennongxi, which originated at the southern end of Shennongjia, the son was intoxicated by the original beauty. She doesn't know that there will be a man among the beautiful mountains and rivers that she will never forget.

On that day, Kyoko and other tourists were sitting on a bamboo raft for sightseeing. When they were about to enter the rapids, six or seven naked trackers jumped into the stream and pulled the rope back. The director explained that in order to improve the safety factor of drifting, the tracker tried to pull the raft in the opposite direction, and the "tracker" was also a unique scenery in the drifting of Shennong River. Suddenly, Kyoko's eyes were attracted by a tracker. His figure is well-proportioned, his muscles are strong, his lines are stretched, his expression is melancholy and calm, and especially his eyes convey a unique light. Kyoko Mimura's heart was shocked. After studying painting for 20 years, she has never seen such a realistic sketch "model". She immediately took out the drawing board. ...

Su Chengshu, a 34-year-old tracker, is married and has a 6-year-old son. He is an ordinary farmer in Tujia mountain village. During the slack season, he went to the river to pull fiber to subsidize his family. When Su Chengshu helped her get off the boat, her heart became tense inexplicably. She suddenly found herself in love with this Tujia tracker, which was the emotion she had been waiting for for for 22 years!

Two months passed quickly, and one day, Su Chengshu accidentally received a package from Osaka, Japan. He didn't know who sent it from distant Japan. When he opened it, it was his painting in Shennongxi with a picture of a girl he had seen before. One day not long after, Su Chengshu was on duty on the stream. Suddenly, a small motor yacht went upstream and started at full speed. The people on the boat seem to be calling their names. He immediately ran to the yacht and found that the beautiful girl on the yacht looked familiar. Look carefully, isn't this the Japanese girl who sent pictures and photos? The girl Meicun jumped off the boat, took his hand and said in strange Chinese, "I don't know your name, but I love you." You are the most precious sketch in my life. " Su Chengshu had no idea what was going on. At this time, the translator took Su Chengshu aside and told him that this girl named Keiko fell in love with him in an encounter two months ago, and this time Meicun came to China specially for him. Su Chengshu was shocked and didn't return to absolute being for a long time.

After learning the truth, Su Chengshu shook his head firmly: "This is impossible, because I already have a family." The translator hesitated for a long time before he dared to translate his words to Keiko Meicun. Kyoko Mimura took out a piece of paper and wrote a simple Chinese sentence with a pen: "Cheng Shujun, you go to Japan with me." Su Chengshu still shook his head after reading it.

Miss Meicun went on to say to Su Chengshu, "You don't have to do anything to go to Japan with me. I promise to be good to you and your son. As for your wife, I can give her a lot of money to make her live a good life. You can also use Meicun's money to invest in the development of Shennong River rafting. " Su Chengshu was indifferent. He cares about his wife and children on the hillside. Seeing that Su Chengshu could not be persuaded, Kyoko Mimura decided to leave temporarily.

After leaving Shennongxi, Kyoko Mimura quickly completed the formalities of studying in Luoyang University. She thinks that the reason why Su Chengshu is cold to her is that the distance between them is too big. She decided to take Luoyang as her love "base" and prepared to write letters to Su Cheng while studying Chinese and going to college, waiting for love.

Knowing what Japanese girls had done for him, Su Chengshu remained unmoved. He said to his wife, "I won't be tempted anyway." The couple still live a life of sunrise and sunset, and are integrated with the world.

In the autumn of 200 1, Su Chengshu's wife collected all the grain in the field, sold all the pigs at home and gave Su Chengshu 800 yuan. The husband looked at her doubtfully. "You are quick to go. Japanese girls miss you and have suffered for you. We can't break her heart any more. " Tears welled up in her eyes before her words were finished. Su Chengshu felt it necessary to make it clear to the girl in Meicun, so she agreed to his wife's request.

165438+ 10/2, Su Chengshu set out for Luoyang. Su Chengshu put on a suit and leather shoes for the first time in his life. It was his wife who quietly went to the county to buy it. Although the texture and grade are not high, this is their income of one acre of peanuts a season. Su Chengshu's suit and leather shoes suddenly set off his handsomeness. At this moment, his wife seemed to understand why Japanese girls would cross the ocean for their husbands. She threw herself into her husband's arms: "Can you tell her that we recognize her as our sister?" "ok!" Su Chengshu also choked up at this time.

Finally, Kyoko Mimura met her missing brother. At this time, she was able to speak fluent Chinese and asked Su Chengshu, "Is my love for you fruitful?" Su Chengshu told her categorically: "This is impossible!" Waiting for Su Chengshu's "heartless" reply, Mimura Kyoko's face suddenly turned pale, and crystal tears fell from her face. She told Su Chengshu that after studying in China for several years, she had a basic understanding of China people's emotional life. She knew that what she had done was a selfish act and a crime of conscience in a certain sense. But she prayed for Su Chengshu's forgiveness: she did all this because she loved him too much and didn't want to hurt his family. Say that finish, fell on Su Chengshu shoulder and wept bitterly. Su Chengshu calmed down for a while, pushed away sobbing Meicun, and began to slowly tell the story of being able to come to Luoyang this time, and also conveyed his wife's concern and greetings to her. Kyoko Mimura listened quietly to Su Chengshu's story, and she was in awe of China's sister-in-law. At this time, she clearly realized that her lingering emotional drift would have no result, and the boat of love could only dock.

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Mika Nakashima's concept of love is that he likes men who are cold outside and hot inside.

According to media reports in Taiwan Province Province, Mika Nakashima, who released her new album "Endless Love" in Japan on10.6, will also make a simultaneous appearance in Taiwan Province Province on10.7. The album has 10 songs, all written by Meijia herself. The lyrics of various love emotions are skillfully interpreted, which seems to imply the love adventure that Meijia is eager to experience!

Meijia said that she was in love by intuition, but she would never take the initiative to express her love, just let herself follow her feelings! Her favorite opposite sex is the type of "cold outside and hot inside". She looks cool and energetic on the outside, but after getting along with her, she finds out that she is actually inside.

Gentle and coquetry, this man full of contradictions and gaps won Meijia's best heart!

But if we break up, Meijia will immediately put the past behind her and start looking forward to it. She said that she once regretted it, but her perseverance can make her never look back! And accept the fact and say, "Thank you for loving me!" " "

In this year's five singles, Mika Nakashima, who presents different color themes, likes purple best. If she wants to be an animal, she wants to be a snake, because the mystery and calmness of snakes reflect Mika Nakashima's personality!

As we all know, Mika Nakashima is very interested in divination and fortune telling. 16 years old, she once worked in Kagoshima, her hometown, and let an old woman who knew her name count her life. The old woman surprised her by telling the story of her birth very accurately, and then gave her many really pertinent suggestions. Meijia smiled mysteriously and said that the contents could not be revealed, but she also believed what the old woman said from now on.