The importance of recognizing godmother in Jilin city?

By the way, don't be too superstitious and feudal, as long as they really care about your children. ...

This custom varies from place to place, but there are no more than three situations:

1, friends get along very well, recognize an adoptive parent and often walk around to deepen feelings.

2. There are many friends, and relatives have complementary advantages, so they can help each other in transfer, promotion and employment.

3, with superstitious color. Most of them say in person that children have to find a foster parent to avoid disaster.

Every year we send eggs, because we want parents to treat their children as their own, and there is nothing else to pay attention to.

Listening to the old people, when they were born, parents were afraid that their children would be difficult to raise, so they went to "recognize dopted mother." There is also a ceremony about "recognizing godparents", and I want to prepare a big gift. I don't know how much it will cost. When I was old, it was a red envelope, Xiaomi, which seemed to weigh at least 40 pounds, and clothes. Then there must be pork, a large piece, and Xiaomi should be carrying "recognize the godmother". There should be more behind, and there should be ancestor worship or something.

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In old Jiaozuo, adopting parents is called "recognizing michel platini (Da) and godmother". In the past, people thought that children adopted their parents for good care, especially those with many children or poor families. The reason was that children from families with children, like flocks of small animals, grew up easily. There are generally more children in poor families, who are not effeminate, but will grow up; There are also two parents who recognize each other's children as adopted sons and daughters in order to enhance the feelings of the two families and have more relatives. All parts of the country have the habit of recognizing relatives, but the manners and customs are different. Now let's talk about the etiquette and custom of "recognizing michel platini and godmother" in old Jiaozuo.

The old Jiaozuo people think that recognizing dopted mother and michel platini will be unfavorable to dopted mother and michel platini's own biological children, so they are not close friends and never dare to agree to strangers' demands; Moreover, the two sides should give gifts to each other and hold banquets. Every year, after three festivals and two birthdays, all godsons and goddaughters should give gifts, and Michelle Platini and godmother should return gifts, so they can't afford entertainment.

It is a happy event to recognize the godmother, so it is natural to choose an auspicious day for the ceremony. On that day, the child's biological parents should prepare a banquet and a gift for the child to pay tribute to michel platini and dopted mother. The most important thing about this gift is michel platini's hat, dopted mother's shoes and materials. Michel platini and dopted mother will also send some gifts to their adopted sons and daughters. There must be a rice bowl, chopsticks and a longevity lock, as well as a set of small clothes, shoes and socks, hats, bibs, stomachs and so on. Rich people always order silver bowls and chopsticks in jewelry stores, or they go to temples to buy wooden bowls. Never use porcelain bowls to avoid being broken by children, which is unlucky. The ceremony for ordinary people to recognize their relatives is much simpler because the economy is not well off. As long as the children formally kowtow to michel platini and dopted mother, change their names to michel platini and dopted mother, and exchange symbolic gifts, it will be over. If the child is young and particularly delicate when recognizing the dopted mother, then when recognizing the dopted mother, the dopted mother will put on a particularly fat red trousers and sit on the kang, and others will hold the child out of the crotch, indicating that it is the same as their own children. Then the godmother will bring him a longevity lock and give him a nickname, and then he will eat with the plates and chopsticks given by michel platini's godmother. It means: it is his children who eat his food, not his biological parents. From then on, with the blessing of michel platini and dopted mother, they will be able to live a long and healthy life.

I think people recognize affection, first for children, and second for embellishing their own lives, and then come up with various ways to find excitement and relieve loneliness. So this kind of thing is really caused by superstition, but it also has a strong human touch. In modern society, people's contacts are more frequent than before, and the economy is much richer. The phenomenon of recognizing relatives seems to be more than before, but there is no superstition anymore, just to decorate life, and the procedures are much simpler. For example, my son has recognized three michel platini (all my good friends) and a godmother (my wife's good friends), and my husband and wife have also recognized an adopted son and an adopted daughter, and they only acknowledge each other verbally, so that adults and children can often walk around each other during holidays and holidays, which will add some feelings.

Superstition is also common among Chengdu people.

Children who are ill and difficult to take care of are considered to have committed the "sand-keeping" (encounter difficulties or evil spirits), so we should find a family member (calculated by the five elements) for our children, that is, michel platini, commonly known as "worship", and usually find relatives and friends. At that time, the parents of the children should prepare gifts and take them to worship michel platini and the godmother. Then michel platini will name the children and give them money and things.

There is also a collision with michel platini, commonly known as "insurance", "hitting a bridge" and "shooting the arrow of a general". The fortune teller first selects the place (usually the bridge), and then prepares dining tables, incense sticks, bamboo bows and arrows, etc. When I met the first adult man, I stopped to recognize michel platini, saying that the child was guilty of "shutting down evil spirits" and was not easy to take. He asked to use archery to "drive away evil spirits", and then made a toast to michel platini, and the children bowed down. Michel platini gave the children an auspicious name and money. After the ceremony, they parted ways. Some will be regarded as walking relatives in the future.