How to develop a gold-absorbing physique?

To cultivate a gold-absorbing physique, we must first face up to the attitude towards money.

The poor may think that wealth and greed are the root of all evil.

He also said that "poverty is the root of all evil, which will amplify the evil side of people and erase the good side of people." On the contrary, money will help more people and destroy more evil in the world. "

Which view is correct? I think everyone should make a judgment in their own mind.

You will get what you believe, and you will face what you believe.

What you get is what you want, and you will get what you want in the end.

When I encounter something particularly expensive, I always habitually say, "I can't afford this, so I don't think about it anymore." "or" if I want to buy this thing, how can I make money to afford it? "

These two different ideas determine two different results.

Gold-absorbing physique is to think of a solution to any problem first, rather than making excuses for yourself.

Tell you a story.

The author of this book is very famous. He has written many books about wealth, all of which are bestsellers.

Once, a lady told him at his book signing that I read your book and found it very rewarding. I really want to ask how can I change my life now? My husband and I divorced, and now I have two children by myself. My house will soon be unable to pay the mortgage, and the government will take it back. I can't let my two children sleep in the street with me, can I?

Do you have any suggestions for me?

This lady is a female doctor and a literature lover. She persisted in writing and continued her studies at the university.

Does it sound like a particularly good person?

After listening, the author said, "Doctor of English Literature? Well, now you'd better find a sales job, sell everything, the more grounded the better, and sell cars or houses. "

The lady blew up as soon as she heard it: "What did you say? I am a person with a doctorate and senior attainments in the field of literature. You asked me to be a salesman. Are you out of your mind? Sincerely ask for your advice. Why do you insult me like this? "

Seeing that the situation was wrong, the author quickly explained, "I mean to let you learn how to package yourself and sell yourself from sales." Now you have reached the doctoral level, which has surpassed 99.9% people in the United States. It is meaningless to go deep into this field. You must start selling yourself.

If I were you, I would do sales during the day, insist on writing at night, and finally make money by selling my own works. It won't be long before you become rich. "

The lady still didn't listen at all and flew into a rage. She told Robert that she played literature and didn't want to do any sales work.

The author pointed to his book and said, What do you think is the suffix after my name in this book? The lady said that she was a best-selling author.

Robert said, "Yes, I am a best-selling author. I will never win the Nobel Prize in Literature for what I wrote, but he will also help many people and make a lot of money. I am not as good as you. Now you know what you should do. "

From this example, we can see at least two things. One is that many people have been farming in their own fields. In the words of the internet, they only know how to make products, but they can't market at all.

Another point is that many people despise businessmen and sales in their bones. As soon as they think about making money, they think it is a low-level thing, and they reject and resist money in their hearts.

In fact, the author's suggestion is very pertinent. Sales is something that everyone should know and learn. In fact, we have been selling ourselves all our lives, especially in the modern Internet era. Self-marketing is really important.

The smell of wine is also afraid of the deep alley!

Many people have some pride and conceit in their Excellence, and I used to be. Now I know more and more excellent people and feel that I have nothing to be proud of.

The book also tells a story, an example of a mouse race.

Most people with traditional education, although each person's situation is very different, will show amazing similarities if they look at it as a whole.

For example, when they were young, they were told to study hard before they could find a job, so they found a stable job as they wished, like a mouse running in a cage, and then got married and had children. Their occupation may be doctors and lawyers, and their income is good, but their salary is enough to pay for the room and send their children to school.

Then, in order to improve their lives, they worked harder and just got a promotion and salary increase, but other expenses also went up. They pay more taxes, spend more money, swipe more credit cards and owe more debts, so they work harder.

Just like a little mouse running fast in a round wooden cage, it seems to be working hard, but it is actually spinning in the same place.

I compared myself when I saw this story.

In fact, many of us are in this story.

How did the author break the cage?

First, be immune to fear and immediate interests, and not be blinded by immediate satisfaction. No matter what, keep an eye on your real goal.

For example, a technical specialist, his life goal is to make a product of his own, but in order to survive, he has to work and create wealth with his own labor. Eventually, it was completely disintegrated by trivial life, and there was no original dream and goal.

If he can restrain himself properly in front of his immediate desires and interests, set aside some time for his dreams. Even if you persist in your dream for two hours every day, you are accumulating greater wealth for yourself.

For us ordinary people, learning and growth should be the driving force of our work.

We should choose to do things that can make us progress continuously, so that time will be more valuable and you will be more valuable.

In addition, if you want to become rich, you have to change your consumption pattern and have a sense of investment.

Otherwise, money will come and go quickly.

Some people feel that they are finally rich and go on a spending spree.

There is nothing wrong with spending money. It is necessary to distinguish between investment consumption and debt consumption.

For example, funds, real estate (depending on the region), insurance, stocks (China is special), self-study and so on, all belong to investment consumption.

For example, buying a car is a typical debt consumption.

Investment and consumption are to give money an opportunity to create higher value for themselves.

So you can spend money, but you can't squander it. Not to mention retaliatory consumption.

Never stop managing money just because you think you have less money. This is why you are poor.

Qian Duoduo, spend less and manage less.

Even if you don't have much money, you can study. Even ordinary people can live a comfortable life when they are old if they have good financial habits.

Finally, to sum up briefly, the wrong wealth thinking:

1. It's hard to make money, and it's hard to make money.

2. Rich people are unhappy.

People become bad as soon as they get rich, and only when they get bad can they make money.

Making friends and businessmen are meaningless people.

5. Save money and manage money. I don't know that chickens lay eggs and eggs lay chickens.

6. You will never become rich.

Change wealth thinking:

1. Constantly improve yourself, constantly break the circle, constantly grow, and set aside a fixed proportion of the money earned for cognitive improvement and paid learning.

Enrich our social circle, judge less and learn more, so that we can have a more comprehensive judgment when facing the choice.

2. Earn money from the times and trends. For example, now is the Internet age, and finding your own advantages has become a tool to earn wealth.

Respecting wealth means respecting the fruits of our labor. We don't have to pay attention to money and don't be slaves to it, but we should respect every penny we earn and don't squander it.

If you respect money, money will respect you.

Everything goes well at home, men love their wives, women are filial to their parents and in-laws, and families gather more money.

The growth of cognition must keep up with the growth of wealth, otherwise the wealth is not your wealth, but only through your hands.

Establish correct wealth cognition and thinking;

? 1. Don't take wanting to be rich as a shameful thing, but as your own goal. With money, we can do more meaningful things, have greater social value and help more people.

? 2. Set life goals, long-term goals? Short-term goals.

? 3. Visualize your goals, or write them down and read them every day to make sure that you are motivated every day and will take the initiative to think about how to achieve them better and faster.

Finally, I recommend you some basic wealth books, the road to wealth freedom, the economics of milk cola, poor dad and rich dad, and the rich are different from what you think. You can read any one of them, and it will affect you.

Mothers can watch Qian Qian the Puppy and instill a correct view of wealth in their children from an early age.

I hope everyone will reap more wealth in 2022!