When a boy breaks up with you, let you keep your original self. It means that he knew you when we broke up, didn't he know you from the beginning? His intentions

Man is a strange animal. When a person may like or rely on another person, she will change herself subtly, and this change is also subtle by herself. When this kind of love or dependence is passed on to another person, it may bring some psychological pressure to the other person. You should try to think about what state you were in when you first met, and then think about what state you will be in when you get familiar with it. Are you so dependent on him that everything pesters him to find him? Sometimes being too close and dependent will make the other person uncomfortable. Make friends and leave enough space for each other. Don't let each other lose their distance at once. This will not pay off. You should eat your food bit by bit and get along with your feelings day by day.