How to coax girls?

How to coax girls is a headache for boys. At first, you may want to help girls solve problems, find out the reasons why girls are in a bad mood, reason with girls and find a solution. However, you will find that girls may become more unhappy because of your so-called comfort. The way to coax girls is as follows:

1.？ Put yourself in the girl's shoes.

When a girl expresses something, for example, she is unhappy, she is expressing her emotions, hoping to get emotional comfort. When a girl complains, she may know that she didn't handle things well, but at that time, she didn't want to analyze herself and admit her mistakes at all. She is already in a very negative mood and doesn't want to accept any more criticism and suggestions. Therefore, boys should rationally analyze and solve problems to give themselves extra points.

2.？ Don't reason with girls.

Boys should never try to tell girls logic, let alone try to convince their girlfriends with logic and reason. If you insist on reasoning with them, the end result is that they will not only refuse to listen, but also turn over old scores together. At this time, you should not analyze the cause and process of things with her, but stand on her side unconditionally, comfort her and tell her that you support her, and you will feel distressed if she is angry. In short, when you don't have to be reasonable, try to treat girls' small temper in a more inclusive way, so that they can feel your love more easily.

3.？ No matter how much you say, you'd better do it yourself

Everyone will say something nice, but what about putting it into action? Take a classic example: your girlfriend tells you that she has menstrual pain. What can you do? "Drink more hot water?" ? "Drink some brown sugar water and don't eat cold things." ? Oh, what do you say? Many times, no matter how much you say, you might as well do something for her yourself. When girls see your real efforts, bad emotions will easily disappear.