What does fortune telling mean when you say you are widowed?

What is widowed marriage (ten characteristics of widowed marriage)

There are two familiar lyrics in the theme song of "A Fairy Match":

You plow, I weave, I carry water, and you water the flowers.

This is the common hope and dream of many happily married couples.

But in some marriages, the existence of the other party is dispensable, as if this family has nothing to do with him:

Indifference to each other, to the family, to the family, and lack of family responsibility are widowed marriages.

What are the ten characteristics of widowed marriage?

First, don't talk.

The main reason is that couples don't want to talk to each other.

Although we meet every day under the same roof, we seldom speak, and some hardly speak.

I feel that I have nothing to say with each other.

Second, no discussion.

Mainly refers to the big things and small feelings are their own decisions.

No matter what happens, you have to make your own decision.

At the beginning, there may be some complaints between each other, and over time, it becomes a habit.

For them, such a marriage is an empty shell, just a dispensable form.

Third, I don't care.

Mainly refers to thoughtlessness, indifference.

No matter when you put on clothes in the four seasons, when the wind is cold or the sun is burning, when you feel unwell and have a cold and fever, you always take care of yourself and never care about each other.

I don't want the other party to care about themselves, and the other party won't take the initiative to care about themselves.

Fourth, don't "quarrel"

In general, no quarrel between husband and wife is a sign of family harmony and happiness, but it is based on mutual respect and understanding.

In a widowed marriage, husband and wife don't quarrel, but they are too lazy to quarrel, so indifferent that they have no patience and courage to quarrel.

It seems beneath your dignity to quarrel with each other, as if you have been wronged and insulted.

Five, do not pay

God just doesn't want to pay for each other, and he doesn't want to pay for his family.

Everything is just for myself, never putting each other in the eye, let alone putting each other in the heart.

The existence of the other party is just an object, just a number.

Whether the other person is good or bad has nothing to do with himself.

The existence of home is a place to sleep, and it is unnecessary and unwilling to spend money.

Take good care of yourself, be happy, be happy.

Six, no money.

The most important thing is not to spend money on each other.

Earn your own money and spend it yourself. Living expenses are AA.

The money of the two people is clearly divided, and there is not much difference with strangers.

Seventh, no cooking.

It mainly means that two people don't cook or eat together.

There is little or no cooking or eating together in a widowed marriage.

Later, it gradually developed into two people sharing a kitchen and cooking by themselves.

Eight, don't go home

Mainly because I don't want to go home or stay out at night.

After work or on weekends, either get drunk with so-called friends;

Or just playing games with friends for several nights without saying hello.

He doesn't want to talk if the other party doesn't ask.

Nine, not accompanied

Mainly refers to not spending time with family and children.

When I come home from work, I either play games on my computer or chat on my mobile phone.

Don't talk and chat with your family, and don't go out to play with them.

It seems that this family has nothing to do with him.

X. different beds

It mainly means that the couple's life is almost stagnant.

Because there is no communication for a long time, the feelings between the two people are getting weaker and weaker, and they have no mind or interest in living together.

I am familiar with the ten characteristics of widowed marriage and know the harm of widowed marriage.

In marriage, we should try our best to avoid and eliminate the hidden dangers that may form widowed marriages in the bud.