Teaching methods of happy teaching

With the rapid development of modern society and the intensification of market competition, the requirements of the times for people are getting higher and higher. People are increasingly feeling the great pressure of life and survival. How to deal with these pressures, maintain individual emotional health and face life better?

Survival challenge is an important issue on the road of modern life.

Fast-paced, high-load life pressure also affects students, and problems such as passive learning, extreme thinking and psychological distortion are becoming more and more serious. Many students are afraid of learning, tired of learning, playing truant, and some even panic when they see books and tremble when they pick up pens. They associate study with pain. They can't feel the happiness of life, can't understand the meaning of life, and lose their enthusiasm and creativity in learning.

"You should study hard!" Some parents said, "The social competition is so fierce now. If children don't work hard and make progress, how can they gain a foothold in society in the future? " Pain for a while now, and happiness for a lifetime! "Indeed, the competition in the era of knowledge economy has made parents feel unprecedented pressure and more worried about their children's future. We can understand the thoughts of these parents, and we can also understand their feelings of expecting their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. However, if you hate football, you have to sit in front of the TV every day and watch the World Cup, the European Cup and the Asian Cup, and nothing else can be done. I believe that after half a month, you may go crazy. But children, no matter how much they don't like it or don't want to learn, have to stay in the classroom and study every day. Can they not suffer?

"Pursuing happiness and avoiding pain" is human nature, so only those things that make people feel happy can make people happy to do it; And those things that make people feel painful make people try their best to stay away from it and escape it. We must treat children as "people" and confirm their self-worth with a truly equal attitude. Therefore, for children's education, we should do everything possible to make children happy and treat work, study and life with a positive, optimistic and open-minded attitude.

In fact, as early as the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius, an ancient Chinese thinker and educator, put forward the idea of happy education. He praised disciple Yan Hui for "forgetting to eat in anger, forgetting to worry in joy", and "eating and drinking in moderation, bending one's arms and resting on it, and enjoying it." He emphasized that "isn't it pleasant to study from time to time?" Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? "It means that learning knowledge is often reviewed, and this process is happy; It is a happy thing to have friends from afar who share the same interests and exchange and learn from each other. He also said: "Knowing is not as good as being good, and being good is not as good as being happy. "The' good guy' here can be understood as someone who likes learning and is good at learning;" Happy people can be understood as people who know how to study happily. People who like learning and are good at learning learn better, while those who study happily learn better. /kloc-Montaigne, a great French thinker in the 6th century, also said in the article "On Children's Education" that in order to stimulate students' thirst for knowledge, Mr. Montaigne held a wicker whip with a ferocious face and forced them to bury themselves in their studies. What kind of practice is this? I want to make the classroom full of happiness, full of the joy of the goddess of flowers and graces. The classroom is where they harvest and should also be where they play. Herbert Spencer, a famous British philosopher, sociologist and educational theorist who is called "the second Newton in human history" by many people, took the word "happiness" as the central idea of educational philosophy in the19th century. He proposed that to know how to educate children, we must first know what kind of state is most effective for children's education. After several years of educational practice and a lot of psychological research, it is proved that children are most effective in learning in a happy state. The "Happy Teaching Method" has solved the current educational problems of hard work for teachers and students. From the perspective of pedagogy, the implementation of happy education first requires educators to have positive and healthy happy emotions. Infect people with happy feelings, edify people with happy atmosphere, enlighten people with happy thoughts, enlighten people with happy contents, edify people with happy methods, and let students enjoy themselves moderately and benefit from them. The implementation of happy teaching method must follow the following principles:

1. Take the lead in setting an example.

"Learning to be an excellent official" is a magic weapon to effectively implement happy education. Students all like smiling and happy teachers. A pleasant teaching atmosphere is easy for teachers to give full play to their creativity and leading role, and it is also easier for students to enhance their self-confidence, stimulate their imagination and activate their creativity. Teachers should enlighten students with happy language, influence students with happy actions, and pay attention to words and deeds.

2. Respect for individuals and the principle of undifferentiated teaching.

Confucius put forward the educational thought of "teaching without class" thousands of years ago; Spencer advocates that children should always be regarded as the main body and given full understanding and respect. Education is actually a process of constant induction and discovery. In this process, we should teach students in accordance with their aptitude, respect individual students and acknowledge individual differences, and we cannot measure all students with the same ruler. In the implementation of happy education, we can't stay in shallow jokes and ignore the self-esteem and personality of others. Special attention should be paid to caring about the bright spot and enterprising spirit of every student, showing that love has nothing to do with relatives and education does not divide groups.

3. Understand the principles of tolerance and clever suggestion

"The child is so unusual that he can't take his eyes off something." "You see, how energetic this child is. He always keeps his hands and feet. " "Alas, the child is so strong that he can lift such a heavy thing." ..... so full of emotion, with a hint of tolerance and praise, it is easy for children to accept. Under such a hint, children will certainly perform well. Applying this hint to our students will certainly make them happy. Spencer believes that children's hints are like torches that ignite their life and wisdom from infancy to adolescence, which can light up a dull life and turn aimless roaming into an ideal pursuit. Children can vaguely see the dawn of the future from these hints. Positive hints, especially those from relatives, friends or teachers, will certainly have a good effect on children's psychology and mind.

4. The principle of caring for the heart and moving people with emotion.

Without love, there is no education. Happy education for students also needs to be based on the principles of caring for students, enlightening students with wisdom, understanding students with reason and touching students with emotion. In persuasion, we need to seize the opportunity, take the thoughts of friends as the students' thoughts, take the students' anxieties as their worries, internalize happiness into the driving force for students' progress with true love and wisdom, let happiness brew students' unyielding courage, conduct patient and meticulous psychological counseling, and lead students out of misunderstandings and towards success. If we force them to accept it without talking about methods, there will be a tragic situation that "the mistakes made by adults in the name of love will make children suffer for life." Where does happiness come from? Happiness comes from contentment, persistence, transcendence, philosophical, conscientious, grateful and tolerant. It is a kind of happiness to give roses to others, and it is also a kind of happiness not to do to others what you don't want others to do. It is also a kind of happiness not to be happy with things, not to be sad for yourself, and it is also a kind of happiness to "be lenient with others and set up a seven-level pagoda". You can't change the weather, but you can change your mood; You can't dominate others, but you can control yourself; You can't succeed in everything, but you can devote yourself wholeheartedly. Treat people and things like "water": the landscape turns, the shore turns, and the stone turns. If others don't turn, I will turn ... This is the true meaning of happiness.

1, maintain a healthy and positive mental state, believe in human effort, be kind to yourself, and make self-improvement regular.

Mentality is the control tower of people's emotions and will, which determines the direction and quality of behavior. To maintain a happy mood, we need to know and evaluate ourselves correctly, break through the mindset, make positive self-adjustment and self-encouragement, and don't let anger punish us. Education is to teach people to cultivate their minds. A happy person will see more of his advantages when he looks after his children, and an unhappy person will see more of his shortcomings. As a parent, if you want to make your child happy, instead of trying to save a fortune for your child, it is better to cultivate a positive attitude of your child from an early age and always look at the world with a smile. As a teacher, if you want to make your students happy, you should speak out praise loudly and criticize humorously. Nervous things are easy to say, serious things are kind; Say what motivates people emotionally, but never say what hurts people; Let's talk about what we have done first, and then what will happen in the future.

2. Appreciate students, guide students to learn to be grateful, learn to do their duty, and always maintain a normal heart.

Always be grateful, always be conscientious, calmly face the gains and losses, and admit that the fly in the ointment is the normal state. This is the secret of happiness for happy people. If you have a grateful heart, you can find the beauty of things, feel the ordinary beauty, and deal with the ups and downs in life with an open mind and an open mind, then the plain life will also glow with charming brilliance. In life, you don't have to ask about success or failure, and you don't have to pursue gains or losses. As long as you are sincere and affectionate, you have fulfilled your due responsibilities and obligations, and the process and results are happy. In mutual communication, people should be willing to praise the advantages and strengths of others, be happy because they have many friends, be kind and have strong abilities, and be happy for the happiness of others. In fact, while praising the happiness of others, there is also the psychology of learning from others, which is beneficial happiness; However, it is harmful to physical and mental health to take pleasure in arrogance and extravagance, greed for money and self-interest, and harming others and self-interest.

3, learn to adjust their mood, can look at the problem from another angle, change a pair of "glasses" to see the world.

"treat everyone as an angel and feel that you are living in heaven; Treating everyone as a devil makes you feel that you are living in hell. " There is a story: an old lady has two daughters, one married to an umbrella maker and the other to a noodle maker. So the old lady looks sad and sighs every day. On sunny days, she worries that the umbrella maker's daughter has no business, and when it rains, she worries that the noodle maker's daughter has no business. Finally, someone told her that she was happy for her good business in sunny days and happy for her good business in rainy days. The old lady's sigh was never heard again. In fact, happiness is as simple as that, just change your mood and angle! Teacher Wei Shusheng, a special-grade teacher, is quite considerate in this respect. When instructing students to write the article "Talking about Learning is Enjoyment", he guided students to think from 100 different angles, and successfully made every student deeply feel the joy of learning from 100 aspects such as "endorsement is Enjoyment", "Examination is Enjoyment" and "Reading is Enjoyment".

4. Maintain an optimistic attitude towards life, elegant life interest and good living habits, and pursue the maximization of self-worth.

This is the pursuit of deep happiness. "A wise man is like water, and a benevolent person is Leshan. Wise people move, benevolent people are quiet. Wise people are happy, and benevolent people live. " Those intelligent and caring people can always find happiness from nature, appreciate the elegant taste of life, know how to have happiness and keep their body and mind in a positive state. Lu Qin, the "bosom sister", often tells children that love is a pocket, which is a sense of satisfaction when put in and a sense of happiness and accomplishment when taken out. Only in the process of helping others can people better reflect their personal values, feel their own importance and experience the happiness of helping others.

5. Learn to speak, learn to listen, tell the pain in your heart, tell the love in your heart, and walk into your child's heart.

Love really needs to be said. Say it out, good feelings will arouse others' equally good feelings. People instinctively want to share happiness with others. If they share their happiness with others, their happiness will be doubled. Similarly, if you are in pain, you can shout loudly. It can release the sadness and fear in your heart. Tell others about your sadness and it will be halved. Spencer believes that no matter what kind of students need to communicate, he has his own world; Children have animals, characters, dreams and emotions in their inner world. So he invented "12 card into children's hearts", wrote down questions on similar playing cards for children to draw, and asked children to talk about their worries or happiness, their expectations or wishes. Parents also draw lots to answer questions, talk with their children and solve problems together. 12 asking questions makes people walk into children's hearts and become their friends. People call this game "Spencer Card".

6. Realize the activity, life and ecology of educational content and form.

Game activities are children's nature. It is very popular and effective for students to convey educational information in the form of activities, life and ecology. For example, "smart wind chimes" are used to learn the language in music; A handful of plant seeds is made into natural notes through natural observation; "Small map at home" cultivates a sense of direction and geographical location; Learning mathematics through "digital hopscotch" ... putting educational goals into interesting activities with rich contents and various forms can eliminate students' fear of learning, gain pleasure in the process of seeking knowledge and enjoy the sense of accomplishment brought by learning.