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The greatest charm of people is to have a sunny attitude. Youth is fleeting, looks old, and glitz is always a cloud. Holding a sunny heart, gain and loss are worry-free, and come and go.

The Greek philosopher Piquera once said: "It is not things that disturb people's minds, but people's views on things." No matter whether their views are negative or positive, their attitudes towards life are naturally different.

Like life, it needs sunshine. The same is true of the human mind, where there is sunshine, there will be brilliant. The world is full of pessimists and optimists. Pessimists say, "There are countless walls in this world." Optimists often say, "There are countless doors in this world." The difference between "door" and "wall" lies in whether you can see the watershed of the world in the sun.

Nowadays, in the market tide, economic prosperity has promoted social development and changed people's thinking. Many people are impetuous and psychologically unbalanced, and have such thoughts and emotions. Facing the harsh environment and many difficulties in life, a positive attitude is very important.

Professor seligman of the University of Pennsylvania was the first authority to put forward the theory of positive psychology. He selected 1 1000 employees of American Metropolitan Life Insurance Company as the observation object. After five years of follow-up, he found that the performance of brokers who are used to positive thinking is 88% higher than that of brokers who are used to negative thinking, and the turnover rate of negative thinkers is three times that of positive thinkers.

People with strong positive thinking ability have three characteristics: they can face the reality calmly, have the values of "life has its meaning" and have the amazing ability to solve problems in real time.

Some people say: "Sunshine thinking is to switch the road to light." This sentence is very tasty.

There are two views. One is that with the increase of population, energy will be less and less; The other is that with the development of science, more and more available resources will be developed. Faced with these two opposing views, optimists will believe the latter, while pessimists will believe the former.

Look on the bright side-this is sunshine thinking.

If you accidentally fall into a small river ditch, you can think: Maybe a fish will swim into your pocket, how fun it is!

If you accidentally wear leather shoes as rain boots on rainy days, you can think: this will give you an excuse to change them.

If your beloved girlfriend suddenly breaks up, think like this: Maybe I am destined to marry a better wife than her.

If you accidentally break an old porcelain jar, you can still think like this: I just want to exchange it for a new one, which is not "God's will".

This is "think on the bright side".

Cai Zhizhong, a Taiwanese cartoonist, once took oranges as an example and said: If oranges are compared to life, one kind of oranges is big and sour, and the other is small and sweet. Some people will complain that they are sour when they get big ones, and they will complain that they are small when they get sweet ones. And I, when I get a small orange, will be glad that it is sweet, when I get a lime, I will be glad that it is big. Mr Cai is very sunny.

The same old topic, winter and spring. Many people will find winter difficult, but a short article "Winter Cold" teaches us to see the world in the sunshine and winter in the sunshine:

Winter cold is a multifunctional fresh-keeping freezer, which preserves the warmth, gentleness, nature, soul, spring, sky, earth and ancient civilization with a long history of thousands of years. Winter makes nature strong, makes human beings strong, and makes spring full of hope and enchanting beauty.

Look, this really puzzles us whether winter is better or spring is better.

There are many things that people will use different positive and negative standards when judging, thus producing completely different conclusions. For example:

As for the funnel, some people say that it "flows through countless oil and water, but never intercepts a drop for itself", while others say that it is "greedy and never satisfied".

For pomegranate, some people say that it "dares to reveal its inner world, which is a manifestation of magnanimity", while others say that it "has something in its stomach and cracks its mouth with laughter".

As for the meteor, some people say that it "glows at the last moment of life", while others say that it "deviates from the right track and will inevitably fall into the dark abyss".

For the moon, some people say that it "brings light to the earth in the boundless darkness", while others say that it "just shows off itself with the help of the sun's brilliance".

As for the ruler, some people say that it "dares to measure straight because of its integrity", while others say that it "always measures others with its own standards".

Regarding nailing, some people say that it is "turning others' blows into their own motivation", while others say that it is "never taking the initiative to make progress, so it can only be passively beaten".

As for the weight, some people say that it is "small, but it can weigh several thousand kilograms", while others say that it "has been weighing others all its life, but never knows its own weight".

For bamboo shoots, some people say that they are "pioneers who dare to be the first", while others say that they are "models of sharpening their heads and drilling upwards".

And so on.

Two different views, one is sunny and the other is cloudy; One is positive and the other is negative. This book is understandable. But in life, seeing more positive things can make the world more sunny.

Seeing the snow, someone sighed, "The snowstorm is coming again, the temperature has dropped again, the road is blocked again, and it is not convenient to go out ..."

However, some people have the feeling that snow is cheerful and it is the spirit of winter. With snow, winter is no longer lonely, and the blue sky has a sparkling spot; With snow, winter is no longer bleak, and the monotonous earth will be painted with white pieces; With snow, winter has become a hotbed of the future, caring for the growth of hope. ...

Seeing the sunset glow, some people will sigh: the sun goes down, the day disappears, and the darkness comes, just like the end of life, which makes people feel depressed. ...

But some people will feel that the sun in the west is kissing the horizon, and colorful clouds are piled up on the horizon. The canopy is like a piece of clean velvet embroidered with gorgeous Phnom Penh. The clouds embedded in the scroll of the sky, some like steep peaks, some like high-backed camels, and some like galloping horses, are slowly moving and changing. They celebrate the end of today and welcome the arrival of tomorrow in different ways.

There are some new words: the poor are not called poor, but "people who treat the rich"; A bachelor is not called a bachelor, but a "person to get married"; Old girls are not called old girls, but "to be married"; Laid-off workers are not called laid-off, but "paid workers". The word "wait" solves all troubles. Isn't this sunshine?

Sunshine thinking teaches us to look at the world positively.

Legend has it that a scholar went to Beijing to take the exam for the third time and lived in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream is that he grows cabbage on the wall. The second dream is that it is raining. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that he is lying with his cousin, but his back is to his back.

The scholar hurried to find a fortune teller's dream interpretation the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller patted his thigh continuously and said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? " My cousin and I are lying in the same bed, but back to back. Isn't that hopeless? "

Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? " The scholar said this and that, but the shopkeeper re-interpreted the dream: "I think you must stay this time." Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying in bed with your cousin on your back, doesn't that mean you should turn over? "

Hearing this, the scholar made more sense, so he took the exam happily and got a flower exploration.

Whether this legend can explain the problem or not is not important in itself. What matters is the view and analysis of the matter.

Known as the "King of Japanese Cement", Asano Nagaakira Masaichiro (1848 1930) came to Tokyo alone to make a living when he was young, and he was penniless at that time. However, when he saw someone selling water on the streets of Tokyo, he was very happy to think: "Tokyo is really a good place, even water can be sold." It seems that it is not a problem for me to live here. " Of course, some people will think, "Tokyo is a hellish place. Even water costs money. It seems that living here is very difficult. " Different mentalities make different lives.

Therefore, things themselves do not affect people, but people are only influenced by their own views on things. There is no absolute right or wrong to look at things, only sunshine or not, and everyone has to bear the final result for his own point of view.

A middle-aged man, whose family is not rich, has parents in the world and growing children in the world, living in a small house of 20 square meters. Most of his classmates live in a house of 100 square meters, and some live in villas.

At a class reunion, everyone casually talked about the topic of the house. Someone said sympathetically, "How do you solve your difficulties?" The man replied, "Not bad. I am still young, healthy and full of hope. " His confident expression is admirable. Because what he sees is a positive future, a sunny future. This is called "people are different from sunshine".

The French film Butterfly Ba Bilong was released in 2002. It describes an innocent 8-year-old girl, Lisa, who happened to meet her grandfather who collected all kinds of beautiful flowers. They started their journey of "meeting by chance" because they wanted to find Isabella, the rarest butterfly in Europe.

Lisa has been neglected by single mothers again and again, but she never cries. She is still a sunny child, not sad, but always trying to find a way. The theme song in the film is unforgettable:

Why do beautiful flowers fade? Because this is part of the game.

Why are there demons and gods? -is to let curious people have something to say.

Why does wood burn in a fire? It keeps us warm like a blanket.

Why is there a low tide in the sea? -Let people say: More.

Why does the sun disappear? -For the decoration on the other side of the globe.

Why do wolves eat lambs? Because they want to eat, too.

This is the childlike innocence of sunshine. Sometimes we also think: why do people grow up but not easy to sunshine? People will think more when they grow up, so why not face the sun and think? This is why adults are not as happy as children.

Some people say that life is a bracket, the left bracket is birth, and the right bracket is death. All we have to do in this life is fill in brackets. In life, the sunshine mentality can be regarded as an art, that is, forging beautiful and colorful things, cultivating an open-minded and optimistic good mood and filling the brackets. As the saying goes, "the fate of inner sadness will also be sad, and the mentality determines the fate."

A positive attitude is the sunshine and dew of life, the cornerstone of success, and makes people's minds healthy and strong; Negative mentality is the source of failure and the chronic killer of life, which makes people trapped in a certain shadow set by themselves.

As the saying goes, "Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory." Life is a mirror. If you cry at it, it will cry at you. You smile at it, and it smiles back at you. No matter how difficult and challenging it is, you can win a free and easy life if you treat it with a positive attitude and be content. Even if you can't get the expected results, you can pitch the world and be worthy of your heart.

Life needs positive thinking, doesn't it?