Why does mentality determine fate?

No matter at work or in life, a good attitude is always like a steel bar. If you have a good attitude, you will have happiness and success.

There is a girl who always feels unhappy in interpersonal communication. She felt that she was forgotten by the world. So, she chose to escape, and she was very unhappy. ...

Until one day, she saw a psychologist say, "The window is made of glass, and the mirror is also made of glass, but people can see others through the window, but the mirror is painted with mercury, so people can only see themselves when standing in front of the mirror." People are the same. When you slowly wipe the mercury off yourself and see others, you will feel happy. "At this point, she woke up like a dream. For a long time, haven't you been painting yourself with indifference and silence? She erected an invisible barrier for herself, so that she could not see or go to the outside world. Therefore, depression is inevitable. Now it's time to wipe away the mercury and embrace life enthusiastically.

After some introspection, she adjusted her mentality, and she was completely different from before. After getting up every morning, she will open the window, breathe the fresh air of nature and bathe in the warm sunshine that comes in slowly. She thinks it's a favor from nature. So, with a grateful heart, she smiled, and she was determined to repay the selfless gift of nature with her love.

When she has something good, she no longer greedily enjoys it alone because she wants to share it with others. Sincere efforts made her gain a good impression and friendship. So, she is no longer lonely. When others need help, she will enthusiastically and actively extend a hand of friendship to help others; If others succeed, she will sincerely express her blessings. "Taking the initiative to care for others" made her feel secure and happy. It turns out that happiness comes from loving and helping others. She realized what it meant to be "a rose with others, with a lingering fragrance in her hand."

As long as she works hard, she will realize her wish. She will no longer just plant it in her heart, but let it go. If she fails, she will smile, find out the reason and try again. Success is self-transcendence, and this positive and healthy attitude makes her affirm herself and move towards success.

Later, she lamented: mentality is really so important, and what kind of mentality has what kind of life!

-Quoted from "Inspirational Package" by Yanbian People's Publishing House