Women give birth to boys and men give birth to girls. So is the child a boy or a girl now?

Do you mean that the mother-to-be fortune teller said that she was reborn to give birth to a boy, and the prospective father fortune teller said that she was reborn to give birth to a girl?

Real fortune tellers don't say for sure that they will have boys and girls. It is entirely up to the husband to decide whether the husband and wife have boys or girls, and it has nothing to do with the daughter-in-law. Sperm is like seeds, and eggs are like land.

In fact, as long as they are children in their own hands, it is good to have boys and girls. Parents who give birth to sons will be very tired, and life will be much happier if they save money to marry their daughters. In the past, it was to raise children to prevent old age, but today it is to raise children to eat old age. Nowadays, there are many filial daughters and sons.