How many flaws does a man have to have to change his mind, woman? Be sure to look carefully, don't you know?

Don't you know that women must see clearly before a man changes his mind? First, before being "busy", everyone can't wait to get tired of every minute and experience happy event, regardless of you and me. But I don't know when it started, he became busier, replied to messages more and more slowly, went home later and later, and spent less and less time together. He doesn't seem to see your request when you miss him. Every time he will refute your complaints with busyness and scold you for being unreasonable. He doesn't even want to ask for leave to walk with you after dinner. Even one more word after receiving your call seems to be a waste of his time. He is full of boredom. How busy he used to be, he wanted to take time out to eat with you, go shopping, take a walk and share his daily life with you.

Before breaking up, you felt lonely in your daily life. How many times have you wondered if the other person is really busy? You have comforted yourself many times. He is diligent for his future life. But is this really the case? Maybe you already have the answer in your heart, and there is already a problem between two people. Just don't want to believe it.

Second, I don't even want to argue with you. At first, you lost your temper, you were angry, and you found fault. He will always bear your anger, calm your emotions and whisper. However, he gradually expressed his views, resisted and wronged. You may quarrel over some big and small things, but you can still get together again after the completion. Later, I communicated with him because of some problems and lost my temper with him, but these mentality are like fists clenched in cotton wool, which are not reflected. He became more and more silent and replied less and less. Your indifferent expression and evasive back make you feel wronged. Domestic cold violence spreads between two people, and you know more and more that you don't know him.

Third, before caring about personal privacy, everyone is in close contact. Now it's like two parallel lines, with no intersection. He is more and more concerned about his personal privacy and personal space. His mobile phone is not easy to pile up, he spends more and more time in the bathroom, he often wears headphones, and he doesn't want to get too close to you again. He is full of distance electromagnetic fields.

You have been thinking about your fingerprint identification before his mobile phone screen is unlocked, and he never cares where he puts it on his mobile phone, and he is where you are. Sticking people is like going to the toilet. It takes time. Let's talk about the past and discuss the present, enjoy each other's secrets, tease the boss's gossip and understand each other's emotions. But now he doesn't want to listen to your mood, his thoughts don't want to talk, and a strong sense of boundaries makes you feel at a loss.