What healthy psychological qualities are needed?

(1) People with a positive attitude are like the sun, shining there; Negative people are like the moon, and the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas, what kind of future. Life treats us as we treat life; As we treat others, others treat us.

According to legend, a scholar in ancient times went to Beijing to catch the exam and stayed in his usual hotel. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams: the first one dreamed that he was planting cabbage on the wall; In the second dream, when it rains, he wears a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is to lie naked with my beloved cousin, but back to back. These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar hurried to find fortune-telling dreams the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller patted his thigh continuously and said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? Isn't it impossible to lie naked in a bed with my cousin, but back to back? " Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was very surprised. The question is, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? " When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? " Hearing this, the scholar felt more reasonable, so he took the exam happily and got a flower exploration.

If a person wants to succeed, he must first completely eradicate the negative mentality, because the negative mentality wears away people's will, destroys people's beliefs and makes you lose the motivation to move forward. No matter what you do, as long as you want to do it, you should think that you can do it. Don't make excuses for failure. Just find a way out of success, think boldly and try boldly. The road to success is at your feet.

Man cannot determine the length of life, but he can grasp its width; You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; You cannot change your appearance, but you can show your smile; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can make use of today.

The attitude of managers is more important, because it will affect the mentality and mental outlook of the whole team. Successful managers always have a positive attitude, full of enthusiasm and drive. They have strong initiative, optimism, self-confidence and passion. Their enthusiasm for work always exceeds that of ordinary people, and they can often infect and drive people around them. Enthusiasm is fire, which can melt hard ice; Enthusiasm can conquer and infect the love of customers; Enthusiasm is a great power. No one does not like people who are full of enthusiasm, because enthusiasm makes people more energetic, energetic, warm and inspiring.

(2) Full mental outlook Guiguzi's first classic is the Five Dragons of Fa. Among them, Shen Sheng is full of energy, wind and energy. There is a word in English called charisma, which translates as: the attraction of managers to subordinates or the masses. In fact, it is also a manager's words and deeds, with an indescribable elegance at all times, and there is an invisible power that people are willing to follow him or be loyal to him. If a manager is in the position of a manager, but does not have the charisma of a leader, it is difficult to become a successful or promising leader.

When Emperor Taizong was the king of Qin, a group of men sat there, generally lifeless. When Li Shimin, the heroic king of Qin, arrived, everyone immediately brightened up. Everyone felt full of vitality and everything seemed to have new hope. History describes him like this: radiant, laughing and laughing, dumbfounded, and convinced. So his subordinates are all people who can wipe the floor for his liver and brain.

Many Americans will remember Carter's presidency. At that time, the United States was gloomy, interest rates rose to 23%, and the country was short of gasoline. According to the license plate number, people queue up to buy oil on single and double days. There is a long queue in the motorcade, and often when it arrives, the oil has been sold out, and even driving home is a problem. It is also inflation, and people live in poverty. Iran detained more than 400 people in the American embassy, and Carter was very helpless. President Carter has a pair of eight-character eyebrows with a deep line between them; When you talk, your body always swings from side to side. Every time he comes out to give a speech, as long as everyone sees him, they immediately feel that the dark clouds cover the top and all life is gone, and that America seems to be decadent and hopeless. Four years later, President Reagan took over. Reagan speaks humorously and firmly, plus he is handsome and strong. At first glance, people think that he is a insightful, quick-thinking and unambiguous person. As soon as Iran saw his election, it automatically released him. Businessmen did not dare to hoard, the interest rate immediately dropped to 7%, and there was no shortage of gasoline immediately. In America, he used Laozi's thoughts to govern the country, and governing a big country was like cooking some fresh food. In less than two years, the American economy took off and became the world's number one power.

(3) Be independent, go your own way and let others talk! There is a story in Aesop's Fables: Father and son are driving donkeys to the market. On the way, they hear people say, "Look at those two fools, they can ride donkeys comfortably, but they walk by themselves." So the old man let his son ride on a donkey and walk by himself. I met some people who said, "This son is unfilial. I walk and he rides a donkey. " When the old man got on the donkey and let his son lead him, he met a man and said, "This old man is in good health, too, and his son is tired down there." The old man had to let them ride the donkey together. Unexpectedly, someone said, "Look at those two lazy bones, they are crushing the poor donkey." The old man and his son had to choose the way to carry the donkey. Unexpectedly, when crossing the bridge, the donkey struggled to fall into the river and drowned.

This fable that has been circulating for a long time reminds us that we must learn to be independent and master our own destiny, because you can't get everyone's approval or approval.

Seiji Ozawa, a world-famous conductor, found some disharmonies when conducting a band in the final of a European conductor competition according to the score given to him by the jury. At first, he thought the band might have made a mistake, so he stopped to play again, but there was still some discord and disappointment. Ozawa told the judges that there was something wrong with the music score, but the composers and the judges solemnly declared that there was nothing wrong with the music score, which was just Ozawa's illusion, and asked him to find out the reason for playing the music well. At that time, Ozawa was not a world-class conductor, but only a contestant, but he thought about it a little and shouted in front of a group of music masters and authoritative experts: "No, the score must be wrong!" As soon as the voice fell, warm applause immediately sounded on the judging stage.

It turned out that this was a trap deliberately designed by the judges to test whether the participating conductor could stick to his correct judgment when he found that the score was wrong and was "denied" by authoritative people. Although the first two players also found problems, they were eventually eliminated because of the convergence of authority. Seiji Ozawa was confident and determined, so he won the World Music Conductor Competition.

Self-confidence is not subjective and arbitrary, but based on real talent and practical learning. It is difficult to stick to your correct judgment, and it is really valuable to stick to your correct position after being denied by authorities and big shots. Managers will encounter all kinds of complicated situations in actual combat. At the critical moment, they should be both superior and big, both official and pragmatic, with a strong sense of independence and strong opinions.