What if male college students, girlfriends and mothers strongly object to our being together?

Maybe I am a special questioner, because we are not married, and she and I are students of the same university. Because of an encounter, acquaintance, and then love.

We have been together for 300 days, and we used to get along well at school. Even though she has a little temper every time, I always coax her and treat her well. She also said that she had never met such a good boyfriend as me, and compared with other boyfriends in her dormitory, she thought I was more considerate.

I thought we would always be so good. However, when her mother knew about it, she strongly opposed us. Her mother told her fortune that she could not marry to the south. This is not good. I come from XX. Compared with XX, this is called South. But superstition is superstition after all, although her mother always says that my home is far away, and her mother is carsick and doesn't want her daughter to marry far away. Coupled with this superstition, her mother is very opposed. Every time I go home on holiday, it is my nightmare. Her mother suggested that she stay at home for three days.

I think she and I have developed rapidly. Generally speaking, we must love each other's capital. But as soon as her mother encouraged her, she was a little hesitant and less determined about love, but she still couldn't bear to part with me. She is wandering. This long vacation, her mother asked me to go to her home before going to school, and then go to school with her. I wonder what I should do this time, how can I win her mother's trust?

The bride price there is much more expensive than ours, and she also has a request for a room. I will have a lot of pressure at that time, but I am not afraid of this. I always thought I would make money in the future, but once I miss something, money can't be bought back, so I don't want to lose her. Ask Shan Ge for help. What should I do this time? thank you

Reply:

I can see that you and your girlfriend are both college students, right? You haven't graduated yet, even if your girlfriend's mother doesn't stop you, do you really believe that you will be able to achieve positive results after graduation? Is college love really reliable and can it really stand all kinds of tests? This requires you to think deeply. It's one thing on campus, and it's another to go out and enter the society. The future is full of uncertainty for you. To this end, don't be too eager for success. Sometimes it is better to let nature take its course.

Of course, I don't object to you being together, and I don't want to hurt you intentionally. I just want to remind you that it may be better to be rational and calm in front of feelings, especially in the process of love. It's best not to be too blind and go alone. Therefore, in the face of strong opposition from your girlfriend and mother, you don't have to care too much or take it seriously. Just behave normally, and be modest and fair when you meet your girlfriend's mother. It is always necessary to be enthusiastic and bring some real gifts, but there is no need to please them deliberately. Just show yourself truly and be a mistress with at least respect and courtesy.

In fact, as a young man, the best way to win the trust of parents is to do it bit by bit, pay attention to your words and deeds and details, and more, in fact, through the constant affirmation and praise of your girlfriend. No parent does not respect her daughter's feelings and choices. As long as you are sincere and kind to your girlfriend and have no problem with your feelings, you will be accepted by your parents sooner or later.