Do you know why you can't live with your parents after marriage?

Because you and your parents are two generations, it is easier to create a generation gap, and your other half is not related to your parents. Living together for a long time is more likely to produce contradictions.

I think if I were you, I wouldn't want to live with my in-laws or parents after marriage. When I was a child, I often heard from my father that when he was a child, because he had many brothers and sisters, the conditions were poor and he didn't have enough to eat. The living standard is good now, but they are still very economical, because they live a hard life, and of course they are not very extravagant. Our generation has had enough to eat, and we can't understand the hardships of our parents' generation. Of course, we can't be as frugal as our parents. If we live together for a long time, there will be many frictions and contradictions in many small things in life.

Besides, since you are married, you should be independent, and your closest lover should be your other half. You should focus on the small family and let the small family take care of everyone. Many daughter-in-law and mother-in-law often quarrel for two days and quarrel for three days after living together. Two unrelated women have lived under the same roof for a long time because of a man. If both sides are not tolerant, then contradictions will certainly emerge one after another. If this man can't adjust the contradiction, when the contradiction reaches irreconcilable level, it can't be redeemed.

It is said that distance produces beauty. You can live closer to your parents, but don't live under the same roof. Unless there is really no way, there is only one house, and we can only understand each other. It is said that the distance between the ends of a bowl of water is the best, and you can take care of each other without disturbing each other. If your parents are too old to take care of themselves, you can take them over when someone really needs care. Generally speaking, it is best not to live with parents after marriage.