People with bad minds have these "* * *" characteristics, and it is best to stay away from them.

People's hearts and stomachs are separate. Maybe everyone around you is bad water.

Everyone is worried that they will meet inappropriate people and make careless friends. However, in order to make a living, we have to expand our contact range and cooperate with others.

Our ancestors told us that "the mouth is the door to misfortune." In other words, you can judge whether a person's heart is good or bad from his words. Even if it's very secret, it has meaning.

I'm telling you, people with evil intentions have the following "* * *" when they speak, so it's best to stay away.

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Like to say ambiguous words, it is difficult to tell true from false.

Some words, said is not said, you carefully scrutinize and find that one sentence can be broken into many sentences, all of which make sense.

After reading a joke, three students went to a fortune teller to see if they could get into high school in one fell swoop. The fortune teller certainly doesn't know the end of the matter, but he is embarrassed to disclose some "news" after receiving other people's money.

He said: "If you understand a' one', you can achieve something."

Later, two of the three students passed the exam. They are confused. I said a "one" at the beginning. How did the two of them get in? As a result, I decided to get into trouble with fortune telling.

The fortune teller said, "I said, one person didn't win." Is there something wrong? "

They were speechless and had to accept their fate.

The writing style is profound and there are many homophones. A word can be interpreted in many ways, and there are different opinions on different occasions. Therefore, the bad-hearted person caught this and confused the obedient person, but afterwards, he was able to make you believe it.

For example, maliciously saying "the water is clean" means that the water is dirty, and the literal meaning is the opposite.

When you hear that it is hard to tell the truth from the false, you'd better ignore it. If you listen attentively and do what he says, you will be trapped.

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At the critical moment, don't say anything, don't talk, and evade responsibility.

Silence is also a language.

Ordinary people, when they are silent, behave very quietly and don't want to get involved in messy things. However, the wicked talk big when they shouldn't talk, and keep silent and play dumb when they have to talk.

For example, if you are in trouble doing business with a partner, you don't know how to deal with it. You ask, what should I do? The partners have been silent. When you deal with things and bring losses, he will immediately jump out and accuse you of handling the problem in the wrong way.

When you have to take responsibility, keeping silent is to avoid responsibility and let others take responsibility. In this case, you should be careful and clear about your responsibilities, and even save yourself by "writing a plan and signing it".

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Behind-the-scenes discussion magnifies the shortcomings and deficiencies of others.

Don't say it to your face, but behind your back. Such people are very annoying.

However, you don't know who speaks ill of you behind your back. And some malicious words, not the "initiator" directly tell you, through the mouths of several people to your ears, what is going on, it is difficult to see through.

You know, the wicked have a hobby-pinching people's pain.

When talking with people, some people will talk about scandals you have done in the past, mistakes in your work, contradictions between people and so on. As a talk, and most of them are not kind. He will also expose shortcomings, while comforting others, while pretending to be a good man; He won't show his true colors until you leave.

Everyone has different advantages and disadvantages. Whether it's praise or criticism, it's best to point it out in person, not talk behind your back.

Therefore, if you meet someone who talks nonsense behind your back, don't pay attention to it, otherwise he will speak more vigorously and make you look down upon in front of your relatives and friends.

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Be good at "hinting" others and guiding them to the shadows.

There is a kind of "suggestion effect" in psychology, which leads others to do something or produce expectations of thought and behavior through words or body movements without confrontation between the two sides.

Bad-hearted people are bent on taking others into dark places, or they have already dug traps and waited for others to fall in. As soon as he opens his mouth, he will make you think about what to do.

For example, two colleagues work together. Colleague A said that the boss recently assigned a special task, which will definitely be reused after it is completed. Colleague b heard about it and immediately became interested, hoping to join this task.

In fact, the task is difficult to complete, and once it is screwed up, it will be punished.

Being a man needs one more eye, and everything goes through the brain. The clearer the direction, the more likely it is an illusion. It's hard to be led by the nose.

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Concluding remarks.

From a person's words, we can see his heart.

So, what should I do if I meet someone with a bad heart? First, don't expose him easily, smile at him and avoid making enemies with him. The second is to put away your curiosity, don't be tempted by bad interests, and don't believe in the good thing of "dropping the pie". The third is to insist on doing just things and draw a clear line with him. The fourth is to think independently, know what you want and do, and not be influenced by others.

People mix in society, and they should be close to people with positive energy. Generally speaking, people with good intentions are often not good at words and like to say "pertinent" words, which makes people feel a little uncomfortable. This is "advice when most is unpleasant is good for action".

As the saying goes, "it's hard to draw bones when you know people's faces and don't know their hearts."

No matter who you are with, you should insist on talking less and doing more. If you are set up, don't blame others. First of all, think about where you are wrong, whether you have not taken precautions or are greedy for unexpected wealth.

The bad guy will hurt you because you get too close to him. Maybe you are with him.

When your heart is as bright as a mirror, the dirt of words can't get close to you.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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