My ex-husband and I are divorced, and my son and I live outside. The less we contact him, the more anxious he becomes. Because when I first got divorced, I often quarreled with him.

Since your ex-husband chose to divorce you and you agreed, it means that the fate between you is over, and you must negotiate how to raise your son! You may not have put him down in your heart just after your divorce, but if you often annoy him, he will annoy you more and hate you more. You should give him a cooling-off period, leave him alone, and then ask your son to find him, call him and play emotional cards with your husband, because they are related by blood. Even if you have bad feelings, he will feel indebted to his son! Then wait a while to calm down, find your own problems, and then talk about remarriage! The most important thing for you now is self-reliance. Only confident women will be respected by others! Show him the best of you! This is what you have to do! May you live happily all your lives!