Under what circumstances can people fully understand?

In any case, people will not fully understand, because full understanding is not something that people can do. Some people have been greedy for countless ill-gotten gains by hook or by crook all their lives. Before they die, they are looking forward to seeing their children die quickly so as to inherit his legacy. They watched their children doing nothing, eating, drinking, whoring and gambling. After their death, they can't take a penny of these countless ill-gotten gains, and they will be defeated by their children in a few years. They will get nothing in this life, but many people who have been cheated and calculated by him are cursed. At this time, a few people may be a little conscious!

My father died of advanced liver cancer last May. In July, my colleagues and I went for a physical examination. During the abdominal B-ultrasound, the two doctors repeatedly observed and asked each other for advice. Although I speak a dialect, I have studied in that place for several years and generally understand it. My heart sank!

For a long time, they stopped and said to me, "Don't be nervous, there is a tumor in your liver, the size of a peanut." After you go back, go to your county hospital to make an enhanced TV. Relax, it may not be a big problem! "

Can you not be nervous? My father just died of liver cancer, and my mother has 20 13 breast cancer. Although it has not metastasized, it is still a big hidden danger. I know that liver cancer is so serious that there is almost no hope of cure. Then I didn't say anything to anyone. At noon, I ate a catty of wine at the front desk and invited some people who had a good time to drink a little.

I didn't tell my wife and children when I got home, but I couldn't sleep at night, mainly because I was worried about my wife's cowardly character and my son's future, but I also knew that this kind of worry was useless!

That night, I thought a lot about the hardships of my childhood, my rebellion and efforts as a teenager, my efforts in my career, the improvement of my professional ability, and my mistakes in getting along with my family. ...

After the examination the next afternoon, my classmates working in the county hospital told me with a big smile that it was just a hepatic hemangioma, and it was nothing serious. His father has been in this condition for more than 30 years and does not need any treatment.

When I got home, I told my wife and children about it. They are indifferent, but I totally understand. I wrote my resignation report that night, and I will be a free ordinary teacher in the future, enjoy my career for the last ten years and retire!

What is the most important thing in this life? Being healthy and being able to get along with your family for a long time is the most important thing. It's good to have money. Since I chose this poor career, poverty is nothing at all. Complaining, working hard, will soon pass!

/kloc-at the beginning of 0/7, I went to work in the factory opened by my sister and brother-in-law, and my job was to do business. At that time, my salary was 5000 yuan per month plus business commission. In fact, I not only have to take care of things in the factory, but also go to the production line, do logistics procurement, go out for after-sales maintenance, and go to various places to collect accounts. Even if the accounts of other salesmen can't be collected, the collectors should know the difficulties. Sometimes it takes seven or eight hours by car. In order to save the accommodation of the factory, we basically go to the factory on the same day and return to the factory at three or four in the morning. Going out to eat noodles is a common practice, which can save money in all aspects.

/kloc-in the middle of 0/8, due to production needs, the production line was moved to other cities for production, but the original production site could not be left unattended, and the foreign office was also left at the original production site. Finally decided to leave me alone, because I can't cook (when my sister and brother-in-law decided to leave me alone, I never thought I couldn't cook). Eat at most two meals a day, sometimes once, and most of the time go out to eat a bowl of noodles for ten yuan. During this period, the local industrial park management committee saw that I was having a hard time here alone, and offered to let me have dinner in their canteen, with a monthly board fee in 300 yuan. Then my sister and brother-in-law invited me to eat in the canteen and asked them to pay for the food. They didn't respond. I'm too lazy to mention it many times. I spent the New Year there alone. I was still in the factory on the 30th, and I stayed alone until 65438.

From 17 to 19, my salary has not been paid to me. When I settle my salary at the end of each year, I will give you a sentence. After this year's difficulties, my brother-in-law's brother also works in the factory, but his salary has never been in arrears. During the years when I worked there, I also suggested that such a life needed money. At that time, they said to find me another business to do and earn money by myself. 18 in the second half of the year, I was introduced to a business, which was to supply raw materials to a state-owned factory. My brother-in-law used contacts to help me get through, and earned hundreds of thousands in half a year. But every time this business is repaid, my brother-in-law will let me lend it to them first on the grounds that they are temporarily short of money. I lent it to him without thinking much. /kloc-in 0/9, I got a pipeline supply business of sewage project through personal relationship. That's a small project, and there is not much demand for pipelines. At that time, my brother-in-law did this business occasionally, so there was a pipeline supply. I asked him to introduce me to a pipeline factory, and he readily agreed, and then I did contact a good pipeline factory. Then start sending samples, negotiate the price with Party A, and start supplying after everything is settled. After the last batch of goods was delivered, I received the payment smoothly, and this time I earned more than 80 thousand yuan. However, money has not warmed up in my pocket.

/kloc-at the end of 0/9, I didn't want to continue working, but wanted to start my own business, so I resigned and settled my salary with my sister and brother-in-law. As a result, something I never expected happened. They only admitted my salary of 5000 yuan per month, and they didn't admit anything else. They said their own business had nothing to do with me. They totally denied what my brother-in-law said to me before. I don't even admit a commission of more than 5000. My own sister yelled at me and said I blackmailed them. She also went to my parents and said I blackmailed them. I grew up with my parents, who knew me better and knew that I wouldn't do that, but I was helpless because I didn't ask them to write me an iou and there was no written proof such as a contract. After arguing for a few days, I suddenly figured it out. I won't become rich if I spend more than 100 thousand, and I won't be poor if I don't spend more than 100 thousand. I just don't want money. From now on, I will look at them carefully and spend money on classes so that I can learn by myself. Family ties are nothing in front of interests.