Is it your destiny takes a hand achievement in life?

Life is self-reliant and happiness is self-seeking.

All Futian, never leaving the square inch; From the inside, there is no feeling.

Introduction: A successful man over 500 years old told me that some things are predestined. Should I believe in "fate"?

Maybe some things are innate, such as family background and living environment.

But more often, many things are not really destiny takes a hand. If you work hard, the trajectory of fate will be reversed.

The simple proverb "the dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the mouse's son can make a hole" reflects the thought of most people's resignation.

It is natural to believe that natural things cannot be changed, and naturally they will be trapped by the shackles of fate and let the so-called "fate" whip them.

Do you know how elephants in zoos are tamed?

When they were very young, they were firmly tied by a very thick and big chain, and it was difficult for them to break free no matter how they struggled. Gradually, these elephants will have a feeling that they will never get rid of this chain and give up their struggle.

Even when they grow up and become strong, they can even get rid of the shackles easily. They still firmly believe in the idea of being tamed in the zoo when they were young, and they will never want to run away again.

Many times, people will make mistakes like elephants and get caught up in their fate. Since then, they have become resigned and immersed in the comfortable status quo.

Even if you have the chance to turn your life around, you will paralyze yourself again and again with resignation and take measures to change your life opportunities.

It is almost impossible to revive, and it takes extraordinary efforts to reverse a person's fate. Most people will choose the latter for various reasons when they are faced with hard work and content with the status quo.

Therefore, when these people have lived their whole lives, they will tell future generations "You should believe in life".

But these people don't even have the courage to change a choice, and they haven't tried a new way. How can they promise to believe in life?

It's easy to escape difficulties, but it's hard to fight against fate. But I believe that many things are not predestined, but can be resigned easily by people's efforts. This is just an excuse for those who have never fought against fate.

There are some congenital conditions that we can't decide, such as what kind of family we were born in. More often, we can change the status quo and control our destiny by our own efforts.

Not long ago, a movie "The Birth of a Magical Child in Nezha" was released. Inside, Nezha Jr. is a big meat ball that has been in his mother's belly for three years. Shortly after his birth, he was defined by the villagers as a child prodigy to be executed. Everyone in the village avoided him, feared him and hated him.

Nezha was originally reincarnated as a magic pill, but his fate was to become a monster, which was a disaster for mankind. Three years later, lightning arrival comforted him, and this was his life.

But Nezha didn't bow to fate, but wanted to turn it around by his own efforts.

Later, he gambled his life and saved Chen Tangguan in the whole crisis. He is no longer a little monster despised by people, but a hero admired by people.

Born a demon, so what? "I am the master of my life, whether it is magic or fairy, I have the final say!"

This is not only the voice of Nezha, but also the belief of Qian Qian.

Hard work may not be rewarded, but if you don't work hard and change, there will be no turning point. Ignorant belief in fate will only make us lose our fighting spirit in life and believe that everything depends on people's efforts.

It is possible to find a glimmer of light in the bleak life, become the torch fire in the following days, and shine in their respective posts.

Fate will not be completely fair, and the final direction of life is likely to be very different because of different ideas. Opportunities for change will not come to you voluntarily. Only by fighting for it yourself can you have the opportunity to win your respect and value.

A few days ago, on my way to work, I saw a fortune teller holding the hands of clients to tell their fortune. Colleague Xiao Liu asked me if their calculations were really accurate, and I laughed without a word.

Palmists can know a person's future fortune by reading the vein of their hands, but each of us is holding hands and everything is in our own hands.

In life, it is not fate that dominates our direction, but we control the pace of fate.

Many times, people are willing to believe in fate, mostly because they have no courage and confidence in themselves, so they find a destiny takes a hand excuse to make their abandonment more natural.

When we try most things, we will find that not everything is arranged by fate, nor can we change it, but because we are too comfortable to walk out of the greenhouse.

Everyone's life is a long adventure, full of snakes, insects and ants. In this process, we should learn to be the masters of our own destiny. Even in pain, we are still willing to fight with all our courage and strength.

Let today's self be better than yesterday's self, constantly challenge yourself, constantly overcome fate and climb to new heights.

Some people don't believe in life, and there will be breakthroughs, reforms and innovations again and again.

We all need courage to face the uneven road and walk out of our own broad road with our own strength and confidence. Our destiny has always been in our own hands.

Text/Lao Xia analyst

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