Why do female universities avoid their fathers?

Female college students don't have to avoid their fathers, and sons don't have to avoid their mothers, but female college students don't have to avoid their fathers. Don't object in a hurry. This is based on science. Let's analyze the reasons for this statement. For the future of our children, we must keep it in mind. First of all, let's look at and analyze that men avoid their mothers. Because men and women need to bear different responsibilities when they grow up, it is necessary to cultivate a sense of responsibility and his ability to resist stress. Most little boys are very close to their mothers, and mothers care a lot when they take care of their children, so children don't need to do anything or think independently.

1. When the son is older, the mother should stay away.

Boys should be independent as soon as possible, so that they will not accomplish nothing when they grow up. For a daughter, her mother is what she wants to be. Being around her can help you understand the advantages and disadvantages of women, but boys and girls are different. In the future, boys will go to society alone. If the mother takes care of the boy for too long, it is likely to cause problems, for example, making her character too weak and spineless, and becoming independent because she relies too much on her mother.

After all, gender is still treated differently in society now. It is believed that boys should look like men, dare to fight and endure hardships when they go out, and be strong, brave and self-reliant. The same personality characteristics, in the daughter, are gentle and lovely, and in the son, become indecisive and weak, which will become a particularly big problem for boys and may make them accomplish nothing when they grow up. For example, taking a bath, it is definitely not good for mother and son to take a bath together. A mother had better not let her son see her body until she is one year old, or at the latest until the child is three years old.

2. When the daughter is older, the father should be close.

When a girl grows up, her pursuit of happiness is closely related to her father's love.

In the ancient population, "women avoiding their fathers" talked about privacy, but the existence of fathers was indispensable in their growth. This is related to the daughter's views on mate selection, marriage and other aspects when she grows up, because the father is the first man in her daughter's life, which will affect her future requirements for the other half. If a father can take care of and care for his daughter in his daily life, her daughter will feel that she deserves to be loved.

Girls know what it's like to be loved when they get along with their fathers. When exposed to her feelings in society, she can see who really likes her. In contrast, a "fatherless" girl is likely to meet love rat, because she has never experienced the love from her father, and it is easy to get lost when she grows up in search of happiness. The argument that women's universities don't have to avoid their fathers is based on the psychological attachment between father and daughter. Fathers play an important role in the growth of their daughters. Girls often feel insecure in life, and the first man in the world who makes them feel secure is his father.

We find that the girl whose daughter is favored by her father and whose family is close and harmonious is cheerful, kind, sunny and lovely. However, if the daughter is indifferent and inconsiderate to her father, such girls are generally timid, cowardly, prone to blush and afraid to communicate with boys. Therefore, dad's impression in his daughter's mind has a great influence on her future life attitude, her future three views and the criteria for choosing a spouse.

However, to establish children's gender awareness, it is still necessary to follow the physiological principle of "women avoiding fathers". "Children avoid their mothers" is not only physically avoiding their mothers, but more importantly, boys should stay away from their mothers psychologically, so that boys will be independent earlier. When a boy is too attached to his mother at a certain age, it is easy for him to become a weak person in the future society.

Finally, dad's concern should not only be for his son, but also for his daughter. Dad's concern plays a particularly important role in children. Although many families in China now advocate that "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside", fathers should also actively share their mothers' hardships and actively participate in the action of loving their children in the process of their children's growth, which is beneficial and responsible for their children's future.