Yu Pei Alley Fortune _ Fortune-telling Jade

In the city, do you often watch various horoscopes on the Internet, do interesting love tests in newspapers and magazines, or burn incense and worship Buddha together on certain festivals to ensure the safety of your marriage? When you see the fortune-telling booth of quack magicians, you can't help but expect a fortune-telling. It is not unusual for women to love fortune telling, but what woman is as keen on unscientific fortune telling? Scene 1: During lunch break, when you see things like horoscope divination on the website, you will click browse excitedly. Psychological factors: Women who lack self-confidence are more likely to accept psychological hints, especially those who lack self-confidence. Confident women can usually evaluate themselves objectively, instead of relying on others' evaluation to gain self-confidence. But for women who lack self-confidence, they are often very concerned about other people's comments and opinions, and their self-confidence comes from others' affirmation and recognition. Women often comb and examine themselves better through fortune telling, divination, astrology and psychological tests, which is helpful to understand themselves from the eyes of others. Maybe they have some advantages that they don't realize at all! Scene 2: When reading newspapers and magazines, I will read the fun love test before reading it. Psychological factors: Most women who meet the expectations of the future have romantic potential and are very yearning for the future. Fortune telling can satisfy your desire to foresee the future. Most women are unwilling to accept themselves in reality, believe that their future will be more perfect than now, and always expect their perfect self to appear in front of the world as soon as possible. Obviously, you are married and have children. When you see the horoscope saying "You will have a good opposite sex in the coming year", your heart will be pounding. After all, this statement shows that you are still very attractive! Inadvertently, women will care about their appearance and expect men to appreciate them. It seems that they are really waiting for their opposite sex fate in the coming year, even if this fate may not come, there will be no result. Scene 3: When the pressure is too great, every time I see the fortune teller's booth, I run to settle accounts. Psychological factors: looking for the outlet of pressure. Nowadays, professional women are under increasing pressure. Using fortune telling to decompress and adjust is also an outlet for emotional catharsis. Just like many celebrities have their own ways to relieve stress, if you think fortune telling can bring you some fun and relaxation, you might as well stick to this habit. Pavarotti, a famous tenor, has performed countless times in his life. It is difficult for the audience to associate "nervousness" and "anxiety" with such an experienced singer, but in fact, Pavarotti is under pressure every time he goes on stage because he can't overcome his nervousness. It was not until later that he wore a rusty bent nail in every performance that his anxiety was relieved. Perhaps you will be curious, why does a rusty bent nail have such magical power? It turns out that there is a legend in Pavarotti's hometown that rusty bent nails will bring good luck to people. From this perspective, not only male celebrities, but also ordinary women. As long as you can help yourself, fortune telling can relieve stress. Scene 4: When traveling, when you see a place where you burn incense and worship Buddha, you go in and propose marriage to keep you safe. Psychological factors: seeking a sense of security in life. There is an emotional side in most women's personality characteristics. They are indecisive, indecisive and lack determination. When faced with important choices, women will certainly think thoroughly, but in the end they will leave their fate to God or accept other people's opinions. Therefore, when they feel uneasy, they will turn to other forces, such as "fortune telling", to satisfy their sense of security. Agree: From a psychological point of view, fortune telling = psychological suggestion. The memory system of our brain is born with the function of selective attention. Fortune-telling on modern network and print media is mostly based on entertainment, which is nothing more than specious language. Different women can understand the same paragraph from different angles. Most women only keep the accurate side for themselves and filter out the unfavorable side. If we can see some hope from the confusion and confusion, it is certainly a gratifying thing to get out of the predicament and usher in success under the reinforcement of self-suggestion! Disadvantages: All kinds of horoscopes, divination, fortune telling and psychological tests popular in the media may not be accurate, but they will not hurt people. It's just that white-collar women can't be too serious. After all, no matter what form of fortune telling is designed for a class of people with the same characteristics, it is not tailored for you. So don't take the authenticity of the analysis conclusion too seriously. If you are the kind of woman who is easily hurt by fortune telling, you must protect yourself, try to avoid these fortune telling games that bring you fearless troubles, and don't leave them opportunities to hurt themselves. Experts suggest that fortune-telling by charlatans in alleys or street corners is much more lethal than fortune-telling in various media. If you meet a charlatan in the street and say, "You will be in trouble if you want to be promoted and make a fortune", you should be rational and don't believe it, otherwise you will lose more than you gain if you are cheated. 1. If you believe it, you will have it; If you don't believe it, you will. Fortune-telling results are mixed. For good results, adopting a trusting attitude and forming positive psychological hints can increase the positive kinetic energy of life; Ignore the bad result and treat it as a fabrication. Learn to adjust yourself with positive encouragement, and don't affect your mentality and emotions in your life.