Learn to penetrate other people's superpowers, can easily steal each other's trust and play with each other in applause.

The first thing you have to do is to find a suitable medium. For example, if you think the other person believes in palm reading, you can know a lot about him from the lines on his hands. If the other person is interested in astrology, say that you can judge his past and future from his birthday;

Then, practice using the following six skills:

1, squeeze each other's initial trust with "sugar-coated cannonball"

As I said before, everyone has a tendency to be self-centered, so make good use of it.

For example, you can start with what the other person wants to hear, look at his palm, birthday or the house he painted, and tell him that these reflect a more balanced personality. Then pretend to look carefully and tell him seriously that he should look more responsible, responsible and polite on weekdays. Don't forget to mention that he looks intuitive, so he is good at helping others read.

2, with a balanced narrative, let the other side fall into the game.

Everyone has two selves, one is internal and the other is external. They are completely opposite, so when we go to cold reading, we can try to describe it with double-sided words, while the other party will only notice the part that conforms to their own cognition, so it will produce the feeling that you are right. For example:

Sometimes you are imaginative and creative, but when necessary, you are more pragmatic than anyone else.

Sometimes you like to play with friends and are optimistic, but sometimes you want to be alone and have some time.

Sometimes you do things informally, but when necessary, you will be more serious than anyone else.

Now look carefully at what I said above. Do you find that what I said is so reasonable and completely conforms to your characteristics? Let you produce "wow! He knows me too well, and that's how I feel? In fact, if you think about it carefully, you will know that these words apply to anyone, so you set them up!

3, try to use some vague, ambiguous language to describe, invade each other's subconscious.

In addition to using some double-sided descriptions, you can also use some vague words, such as: Do you have family or other sustenance, such as some people or a pet or something else; Do you have irrational fear of porridge? Is there anything bothering you recently that you want to solve or have solved?

You'd better be as vague as possible. In order to find the reason for this vague language, you can tell each other that it is sometimes difficult for you to interpret the thoughts and images that flash through your mind, and you need their help to interpret them, so that you can get more information and make your cold reading more accurate. You can try the following statement: I feel that there will be great changes, perhaps a journey or a change in the workplace. You have received some gifts recently, which may be money or something with emotional value. Similarly, you can add abstract statements at will. For example, I can see a closed circle. What do you think this means? I see a door closed, no matter how hard you try, you can't open it. I can see someone cleaning it. Do you want to remove something or someone from your life? 」

That's right, so let the other person talk more. The more the other person talks, the more clues you have!

4. Go with the flow and adjust the topic in time according to the other party's response.

Talk about as wide a topic as possible at first, and then change your direction according to the other person's reaction. If you mention a topic and have no expression on it, just skim it and talk about other topics. If the other person smiles and nods in response, continue to elaborate. You should use the reaction of the other party as a benchmark to verify the correctness of your guess. If it is right, then continue to extend. If not, then you need to adjust your direction.

Step 5 predict what may happen

Come up with a narrative that applies to many people to make your predictive guess. For example, this one: I saw what you got at school, maybe an award or something-do you remember how proud you were when the teacher called your name?

You had an embarrassing experience when you were a child, and you still think about it from time to time.

Why do I see blue or purple things? What do you want to buy now? Is it that color? Or did you just buy something in that color?

I saw an old woman in a black skirt complaining about her feet. Who's that?

Did something happen two years ago? Some important changes?

6. Be prepared to make excuses. Anyway, you are right.

Here you have to remember a mentality: you can't make mistakes. Because the other person thinks you are unpunctual, you already have a coping strategy. To put it simply, even if you don't guess correctly, you can quickly find a good excuse to make up for it and prove yourself right again! So, how do you make things smooth?

First, relax the interpretation. You can say that the statement does not refer directly to him, but to his family, colleagues or friends. You can also relax the coverage time and consider the past and the future together. Could it have happened when they were young, or maybe in the near future?

Second, abstract explanation. For example, when you say you see a holiday, you actually mean some big change. Or, when you say hospital, you actually mean people who take care of them in their lives. If the other person still can't understand your explanation, you can say "You need to think about it yourself". Put the question on the other side. Both expansion and contraction strategies can pave the way for you, so even if you are wrong, don't be nervous or explain.

Fortune tellers don't have insight into other people's superpowers, but they are experts in understanding human nature. They can easily steal each other's trust and play with each other in applause. You can also invade people's hearts by learning these strategies. Have you learned?