Grandpa always said: God has decided which bowl of rice a person will eat in his life. what do you think?

Tell me about my life experience!

When I was young, several children often played together and sometimes talked about their life ideals. I said I wanted to be a doctor when I grew up. One said it was not good to be a doctor. He wants to be a boss and sell meat every day. Another said that he wanted to be an official and could manage many people. This means that he will make a lot of money when he grows up. This is nonsense when I am naked. In those days, sometimes I didn't have enough to eat.

Now I am in my fifties, including myself. What have I done?

I've really been a doctor for nearly a lifetime by mistake, and I've changed careers many times without success. I can still see people today.

The man who said he sold meat contracted a township slaughterhouse and sold meat in the street for decades. Now he is unemployed because his son owns a company.

Those who want to be officials are really admitted to the university, assigned and become officials.

The man who wanted to earn more money grew up and graduated from Zheng Da University. At first, he opened a board factory and made a lot of money. He was personally received and praised by the mayor, which promoted the economic development of one side and invested more than RMB 1000 million to build the factory. Now he is a big boss.

Now these young people are rich and respectable, and I treat people well.

What kind of food should people eat? It is predestined by heaven that they can't escape if they want to. It's already arranged.

It's true!

Once upon a time, there was a little girl. Since the age of 4, her life has been going downhill, and she is doomed.

She was born in a remote mountain village, with brothers and sisters and a poor family. When I was 4 years old, my aunt suddenly came back from overseas. It's a pity that she has no children. Seeing that the little girl is cute and likable, I have the idea of accepting her as my daughter. Of course, the girl's parents are very happy. It's definitely better for children to follow their aunt than in this poor ravine.

From then on, the girl set foot on the broad road, studied piano since childhood, won prizes, and was admitted to a famous university, and her life became brighter and brighter. After graduating from college, I joined the work and became an engineer. When my aunt died, a large legacy passed to her. Later, she got married and became a family, and her husband was gentle and considerate. She got her doctorate through her own efforts and became a household name. All this is full of magical colors, which makes people feel that she is a blessing from God. Everyone in the mountain village attributed this to their fate. Old people often say: "People's life is doomed, and it's useless to think about it." The legendary life of this little girl seems to confirm the correctness of this sentence.

But after careful analysis, this is not fate at all. Existence is rationality, and rationality here does not mean rationality, but rationality. In other words, everything that seems reasonable has its internal reasons. Here are three necessities.

First, her aunt has no children, so it is normal and inevitable to adopt a child. Second, they are relatives and aunts of the children. This relationship is very close, and it is inevitable to adopt his brother's child. Third, her aunt came back from overseas to visit relatives. Since she can come back alone, it shows that the economic conditions are good, even good. The little girl lives in such a family, and the nominal mother is her own menstruation. It is conceivable that she must have received a good education and training, which is also inevitable. With these three necessities, it is not surprising that the little girl lives a happy life with her own efforts and correct outlook on life.

However, the old people in the mountain village have limited their knowledge level because of their knowledge level, which is doomed. I didn't expect this little girl to be born with wealth and life. This is a somewhat fatalistic idea. So should the conclusion of life be advocated, and should people fight against life? There are also many people in history who are unwilling to be appointed and think that "life is up to me". Some of them completely reversed their fate through their own efforts, and some ran into a wall everywhere, and finally drew water with a sieve.

But on the whole, we still have to work hard. People's biological parents can't choose, and people's intellectual factors can't choose, but people's life path after birth can be self-selected. That is to say, congenital factors have laid a foundation for a person, and acquired efforts determine whether a person can grow into a towering tree. If you acknowledge your destiny and believe in it. Then how did human society develop to this day? Everyone is quietly waiting for fate, so that the rich will be rich and the poor will be poor. Happiness never comes in pairs, but it never rains alone. Isn't mankind not progressing?

Therefore, I am the master of my site and my life. Our efforts are to get happiness, that is, to create a new life. It is not advisable to wait for such a good thing as "Sister Lin fell from the sky".

I believe it very much! This comes from an experience in the summer vacation of fifth grade primary school!

At that time, it was about 12 years old, because we were about to enter junior high school when school started. At that time, we had ordinary middle schools and key middle schools here, and we were very lucky to be admitted to key middle schools at that time.

After the county announced the list, all five girls who played well were admitted. Everyone is very excited and has an appointment to visit that beautiful school!

That day, when we passed the bend of the river, we decided to have a rest in the nearby Woods. Not long after we sat down, an old man in his sixties passed by and saw us chatting. Grandpa also came and sat down.

Listen, we are excited to look forward to the new school and the new future. The old man suddenly said, little girl, I'm going to see a photo. Let me take a look at it for you. Free!

Everyone was curious and agreed to grandpa's proposal.

First, a classmate named Li asked grandpa about his birthday. Li said that she knew the date of birth, but not the time. Grandpa said it doesn't matter. She carefully looked at her palm and face, and then said that her future was immeasurable. She is a person with fortune and official fortune!

Second Red: Grandpa didn't say anything for a long time, and only after our urging did he say that her life was not very good, so she should pay more attention to her health!

The third cloud: Grandpa said she was normal, but she was happy. She will eat with a needle and thread in the future!

Fourth me: Grandpa said I was normal, but I was blessed. I will be a public official in the future, eating and drinking all my life!

Fifth honor: Grandpa said that she is no longer a student and will eat water from two wells in the future. What a good fate!

At that time, after all, I was still young and didn't know much about grandpa's words. We smiled and passed.

Look, I don't know if this is a coincidence or what. That grandpa's words are surprisingly accurate!

First of all, Li: The academic performance all the way was surprisingly good. She was the only one in our class and the only one in the county who was admitted to Tsinghua that year. Later, his natural career was stable and he rose all the way. Now, the vice president of a group in Beijing has become a legend of our session!

Besides, I got leukemia in the third grade of junior high school, and I was the first student in our class to die early!

Sanyun, who didn't go to college in high school, later opened a clothing factory and lived an ordinary and happy life. He really answered the sentence "Eat with a needle and thread!"!

I am ordinary, too. After graduating from college, I entered my present unit. I can't stay up late and I can't be hungry. My life is ok!

Finally, Rong stepped into the society after graduating from junior high school. She got married when we were still in college, but divorced a few years later. I heard that now she is working in the south and married a local, so we don't know what's going on now.

In a word, the stranger's grandfather is very accurate. Basically, the fate of several of us is developed according to what he said! So, some things are really amazing, don't believe it!

People's life is doomed! My aunt also said: it is destiny takes a hand to eat any bowl of rice in this life.

Tell me about myself. In the eyes of my parents, sister and even relatives, I have been lazy since I was a child. I'd rather be late in the morning and have to sleep more. I don't eat any delicious food. I won't even help the stool when it falls down. My parents have never done any housework since I was a child, and it is not easy to go to school. I graduated from junior high school, but when I grow up, I earn the most money among our relatives, so I don't have to work hard. I married a soldier and haven't been to work since I got married. Later, I started my own business. Although it was not as good as earning tens of millions, my income was still passable. At that time, there were hundreds of very new agents together, all with one goal, and everyone worked hard to make money. I brought a lot of treasure moms who have no jobs and skills to make money together. I bought a house for my parents and started an e-commerce business with my sister. Everything seems to be arranged by God, and it is really the fate of mankind!

A person's life is not predestined by God, but determined by his own personality. Knowing Xia Shu, I once again have a correct understanding of the true meaning that personality determines fate.

A college student in the 1990s, an intellectual woman from the countryside, didn't go to work one day after graduation. After the age of 46, she started her first job as an ordinary cleaner in the community. This job was four years of hard work and hard work.

Xia Shu is 70 years old and his height is 1.62. She is dignified and upright, introverted and inarticulate. She majored in animal husbandry, and met her first boyfriend and later husband during her college years. She is a rural person with only junior high school education.

Xia Shu's personality is too introverted. At first glance, her skin is very dark, but no one has ever taken care of it. Her clothes are also very simple and will not match. She looks like a very rustic person.

There were not as many college students in the 1990s as there are now. At that time, every junior college student had a job after graduation, and the gold content of junior college students was still very high. She also said that if you don't want to be a major at first, you can teach. Her uncle works in the Education Bureau. She has found a good relationship and arranged a job. Her relatives introduced her to an object with good conditions in all aspects. Everything went smoothly and properly, but she didn't want to be separated from her boyfriend, so her parents didn't contact her much for two years.

After getting married, she didn't want to go back to her husband's house, so they stayed in the city. Her husband did a little business, and at first she helped a little. Later, when she had children, she mainly took care of them and became an envied full-time wife. At that time, after graduation, the hukou had been in the city, and it was moved back to the rural mother-in-law's house during a census.

No pension, no social security, no pension.

After more than ten years of hard work, she was admitted to the university. Like a carp, yue longmen. She could have had a stable job, a generous pension after retirement and lived a pampered life. However, she lost everything because of her so-called love, not because of life. Who wants to go out to work?

I am curious to ask her why she has a crush on a boy with only a junior high school education. He is not handsome, his family is not very good, and there is no job in the rural hukou. She just smiled and didn't want to say a word. She is too introverted. I asked her if she regretted it now. She said: fortunately, both children have been admitted to the university, and there is nothing to regret. It's all in the past, don't think about it.

I said jokingly: It is said that knowledge can change fate. Your husband is so lucky that he changed his fate with your knowledge.

We have a 70-year-old grandfather there. He often says that what bowls of rice people eat in this life are arranged by God. If he successfully explained this sentence, it is true.

There is an old man in his 70 s in his hometown and countryside. He has no children and daughters all his life and is a bachelor.

He still has relatives at home, and the family left him a house. It can be said that he doesn't have to worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation.

If he has food, drink and shelter, he can live his life safely, but he can't. He likes to go out and beg.

The sky should be a bed, and the earth should be a bed. You can drink streams when you are thirsty, and beg when you are hungry. Sometimes I live in Qiaodong, and sometimes I live in a cave.

His relatives prepared everything for him, but he just didn't want to stay at home and beg for food alone.

Sometimes he doesn't want other people's money He said he couldn't spend it, didn't smoke or drink, and it was useless to ask for money. He also has to worry about money, for fear that it will be stolen and remembered one day, and he doesn't want to fuck that luxury, so he doesn't want money.

Isn't this bowl of rice that people eat arranged by God? When you can eat a hot meal without wind, rain or sun, you have to beg.

This sentence is absolutely true.

Why do people live in different times and have different family background, physical condition, personal character, way of thinking, learning talent, even communication scope and diligence, which are the key factors to decide which bowl of rice to eat in their lives?

Some people will say that diligence and laziness are acquired. I don't think so. I think diligence and laziness are also caused by various conditions given by God.

First of all, I envy your grandfather for saying such things to you. Unfortunately, I haven't met my grandfather. My grandfather died of illness before I was born. I didn't leave any photos at that time. Therefore, I have never seen my grandfather's figure and appearance, let alone a few words he said.

Back to the point. Grandpa said this sentence with a little idealism and a little fatalism. Is it really destiny takes a hand to live a lifetime, what to do and how to do it? I think, yes, hard work and struggle can change fate. My personal study and work experience may give you some lessons.

When I was a child, in poor rural areas, the dream of my parents' generation was to be able to eat and wear warm clothes, live in a closed house and raise their children successfully. Perhaps in my parents' dreams, there is no scene where I go to school, go out of the countryside, find a job and integrate into the city. However, their seemingly unreachable dreams have finally come true for me.

When I was in primary school, I almost dropped out of school because my father died young, my family was poor and heavily in debt, and I didn't have time to start. At that time, it was a problem for the whole family to eat enough, and tuition became a big problem. As the youngest in my family, I can continue my studies, on the one hand, relying on the financial support from the village, on the other hand, at the expense of two sisters dropping out of school one after another. At that time, my dream was very small and simple, that is, I didn't have to worry about how to raise tuition fees every semester, I could have my favorite extracurricular reading materials, and I was among the best in every exam, so I could explain it to my parents and sisters clearly.

The dream of primary school, although I was worried about dropping out of school for myself and felt sorry for my sister, was finally admitted to middle school with the first grade in the town, which was also a beautiful dream. Three years of junior high school study, three years of hard study career, 8 kilometers back and forth every day, measuring the distance between home and school step by step with your feet, and shortening the distance between reality and dreams step by step. The head teacher told me: "According to your current grades and learning ability, stick to it, get into a key high school and go to college, and there is no problem at all." However, when filling in the volunteers before the middle school entrance examination, parents repeatedly asked to apply for secondary schools. Their reason is nothing more than to take part in work as soon as possible and reduce the family burden. What if their high school grades drop and they can't go to college?

A teenage rural child, who has no opinion, is not so firm in his dream. Considering the actual situation at home and the fact that my parents and relatives take turns to go to work, I stopped attending high school, so my college dream woke up before my dream.

There are many roads to the university, and the college entrance examination is not the only one. After entering the technical secondary school campus, with the growth of knowledge and the broadening of horizons, the dream of college has become more fascinating, and an idea has become more and more clear in my mind: although I have no chance to go to college, I can get a college diploma through other channels. Fortunately, the constant educational reform has provided this possibility for my college dream. Therefore, while completing my middle school course, I began the difficult road of self-taught examination. ...

Life is like this. Many seemingly distant dreams, as long as you try boldly and do it bravely, will always get closer and closer in your efforts day after day. The cold water poured by some people at the beginning of the self-study exam finally made me boil. In two years, I passed the 13 course examination and obtained the diploma of the self-taught college. After another year and a half, I got the undergraduate diploma from the self-taught examination. Although these two certificates are light in weight, they are heavy in weight. They have made my university dream come true, witnessed the rise of a rural grass-roots unit under the fertile soil of reform, and represented the moment of dream realization.

Although the student days are over, the road to study is endless.

After taking part in the work, the rapid development of the times made me feel the importance of knowledge and promoted my dream of studying. Later, I passed the national entrance examination of MBA, and after three years' study, I successfully got my master's degree. On the day of graduation ceremony, recalling the hardships and twists and turns of studying all the way, thousands of emotions came to mind: maybe you didn't stand on the same starting line with others, but this great era gave you many opportunities to accelerate and surpass; Although your environment may be a little dark, you can light up the starry sky at night as long as you have a dream.

With the deepening of my study, my work is constantly changing. It can be said that my job has also changed. If my grandfather were still alive, I wonder if he could foresee which bowl of rice I would eat.

A person's life is doomed. Everything is predestined. You can't force it. Everything goes with the flow. What can't be satisfied can solve my worries. If you know me, you don't know what I want. But your fate is already yours, and no one can change his life.

What kind of bowl of rice a person eats in this life has long been doomed by heaven. I think this sentence is correct.

Ten years ago, when I was teaching in junior high school, there was a student named Gao in my class. This student looks very special, and his two tiger teeth are particularly sharp. No matter who he meets, he smiles foolishly and his academic performance is poor. So many people say that this student is a little mentally retarded, and I think so. Therefore, in my usual study, I always take special care of him, hoping that he can live a silly and happy life and not be bullied by other students.

I remember once in this dream class, I asked everyone in the class to speak freely and tell their future plans. Many students are talking noisily, some want to be teachers and some want to be doctors. Only the student surnamed Gao sat in the corner with a smile. I called him and told him what he was going to do. He stood up, then turned around and said thoughtfully, "I must be a famous chef in the future." When he finished this sentence, the whole class laughed, because no one believed that a fool would become a chef.

After graduation, I always inquire about the whereabouts of this classmate named Gao through other students. At first, the students all said they didn't know, but last year, it suddenly came out in the class that the classmate named Gao actually became a chef. It is said that I am now a chef in a five-star hotel in Guangzhou, and I am doing very well. After hearing the news, I was lost in thought. In fact, what people do all their lives has long been doomed. For example, this classmate named Gao, although his grades in school are not good, also has his own ideals and hobbies, that is, being a chef! Although he looks silly, he is still the best in his favorite field.

It can be seen that what a person wants to be in this life is actually doomed by heaven.