My boyfriend and I are not married yet, and my prospective mother-in-law asked me to sell the house to pay their debts. Should we break up?

Obviously, it should be a breakup. I want you to pay off your debts before I get married. I wonder what you can do after I get married. Don't jump into such a fire pit. After all, too calculated marriage is easy to be unhappy.

First, you must break up, so before you get married, you will be even worse after you get married. You can clearly see a character before you get married. You're not married. I just want you to sell the house to pay your debts. I don't know where I got the confidence that others would agree. The key is your boyfriend's attitude.

If your boyfriend doesn't object, then you must break up, because if your boyfriend thinks you should pay for him, then after you get married, the other party will not care about your thoughts and think you should be a cow and a horse for their family.

After all, you can sell a house to pay off your boyfriend's debts before marriage, so stick to it after marriage, so as to show that you love your husband. Don't you think your boyfriend and future mother-in-law really overestimate their status in your mind?

So in this case, breaking up is undoubtedly your best choice, otherwise you may be more painful in the future. After all, that's how you calculated it before marriage, so you don't have to think about it after marriage. Nature is endless pain. It's better to break up early.

Second, marriage should be based on love, not full of calculations. What is the premise of marriage? It must be that the other party loves you and is willing to work hard for you, not that you sell the house and pay off the debts for the other party. After all, it's really nothing to help each other pay off their debts before marriage. If mutual affection does not become inevitable, then you will really feel bad.

This shows that the other person may not really love you, and probably just think that you are too stupid to help him pay his debts, so don't think that the other person really loves you. You might as well find someone who loves you. He won't let you pay his debts before you get married, but after you get married, he will try to make you live a happy life. Doesn't this husband smell good? Do you have to follow this boyfriend?

Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, or it should be based on her own happiness. Otherwise, it will be too late to regret the divorce, and others may say that you deserve it. After all, some things have appeared, and you choose to turn a blind eye, which shows that you are stupid enough. And a marriage full of calculations is doomed to be unhappy.

So I'm very sure to tell you that we're definitely going to break up, so why don't you keep your boyfriend for the New Year? And break up with such a boyfriend, you may meet someone who won't calculate you. After all, marriage is no joke. There is no need to spend it on someone who doesn't love you very much. The other person can plan you with his mother before marriage. After marriage, you can forget about it. There is absolutely no happy life.

It is recommended to be cautious. If you really don't want to break up, you should tell your boyfriend that you won't sell your house to pay off your debts. If your boyfriend still insists, you can give up completely. The other person may not love you as much as you think.