How to choose the engagement date?

At present, many families are still very interested in the choice of engagement date. How to choose the engagement date is also a problem that both parents attach great importance to. Choosing an engagement date is taboo.

First, how to choose the engagement date

1, by date of birth of male and female.

Many parents will take the birth dates of men and women to a fortune teller to calculate, and generally work out a more suitable engagement date in a short time.

2. According to the names of men and women.

Some families will calculate according to men's and women's names, first using the strokes of men's and women's surnames as months, and then using the strokes of names as days, so as to calculate an auspicious day.

3, according to the eight-character calculation

Like the calculation of birth date, the eight characters are generally calculated by fortune tellers.

Step 4 choose leap month

It is generally believed that the day of leap month is better, so many families generally choose the day of leap month.

5. Choose according to the zodiac of men and women

Many people believe in the zodiac and will choose the day when the zodiac doesn't want to rush as the engagement day.

Second, the date of engagement is taboo.

1, taboo does not respect parents' wishes.

Generally speaking, engagement is a big event, and both parents are interested. Therefore, when choosing the engagement date, you can ask your parents' wishes, which will be decided or agreed by both parents.

2. Do not consider the family situation of both parties.

The date of engagement should consider the family situation of both parties, especially families with elderly people. Engagement requires mutual participation, so some special circumstances can be avoided.

3, taboo does not consider the time of men and women.

When choosing an engagement date, you should avoid the time when both men and women are busy, which is not suitable as an engagement date.

4, taboo does not consider the health of men and women.

Health is the capital of revolution. This sentence starts with the health of men and women. When choosing an engagement date, you must choose a day when both men and women are healthy.

5. Don't choose an auspicious day.

Generally speaking, auspicious day is a day that every family will choose. When choosing an engagement day, it is very important to choose an auspicious day.

Summary: The above is a summary of how to choose the engagement date, as well as the taboo of choosing the engagement date, which can be used as a reference for newcomers who are ready to choose the engagement date.