My husband's family always tells fortune _ My mother-in-law likes fortune telling.

What should I do when I meet a secretive and scheming husband-in-law, who is very tired to get along with, always calculating you, face to face and behind your back?

You can tell at a glance that this topic is a protracted war. First of all, it depends on whether you choose yes or no, which means acceptance. You will use a broad mind, and I will persistently integrate into this family. First of all, you have to have the strong backing of your partner, second, you have to win the approval of an old man in your family, and then you have to sharpen your knife. Rome was not built in a day. This is not appropriate, but what I want to say is this. Maybe your relationship will change substantially after having children. Doesn't mean you really can't stand it, and it doesn't fit in with your heart. Then you can talk it over with your partner and see what he means. If you can't talk it over at first, you will capsize sooner or later. Because the family needs to be maintained, once it starts to be weak and can't be alleviated, it will always be a knot in one's heart and may eventually be ignited ~ If there are more children at that time, you will be more tired.