What kind of experience is it to go to college?

Tell me about my feelings after I went to college. When I was in high school, I was full of infinite reverie about the university and some of my own plans. Think about who you want to be and what you want to do in the future. I am a freshman now, and I will be a sophomore soon. I want to talk about my feelings for you who just entered the university. There is something worth recommending.

When you come to the university, you will find that no one in the university asks too much, and no one will come to you. As long as you don't fail in the final exam, the counselor won't come to you. I was really relaxed in college. Maybe you just came to college and experienced three years of hard high school life and want to relax yourself, but when you relax, you should know that you are going downhill. I saw that some students were too indulgent, which led to a mess in their studies. We often hear people say that studying hard in high school will make college easier. I want to say that college is just another starting point. Universities should study hard and not be too indulgent.

I will give you some advice based on my own experience.

First, don't be "infected" by people around you. Of course, this infection is different. In college, you will meet all kinds of people. Everyone is an independent individual and has his own thoughts. You should know not to try to change anyone, because his thoughts are deeply rooted. Many people have different ways of doing things when they encounter difficulties. Some people face difficulties directly, while others run away from reality. Just stick to being yourself. You should have the ability to distinguish right from wrong when you go to college.

Second, read more books. As the old saying goes, books are the ladder of human progress. In college, you will have a lot of free time. I suggest you read more books, preferably in the library, because in my opinion, paper books are more emotional than e-books What kind of books to read, you can read according to your own interests, such as: ancient and modern classics, or books about your major, or you can look at other professional materials to enrich your cultural knowledge.

Third, don't stay in the dormitory to study. Don't ask why. What you ask is that you can't learn at all. There are always several people playing games and making noise in a dormitory. If you want to study, I suggest going to an empty classroom, a library or even a restaurant. You can study anywhere you want. Don't always stay in the dormitory. The longer you stay in the dormitory, the faster people waste.

Fourth, don't deliberately cater to others. Don't wronged yourself in college and make unnecessary friends. Even roommates don't need to make friends. Although loneliness is normal, do not take it to heart. How can ambitious people only focus on the immediate things? For my future ideal study is over. A college student thinks day and night, so he should concentrate on his studies, okay?

Fifth, don't think. All your anxiety comes from thinking too much and reading too little, so read more and read nutritious books.

Sixth, the opportunity is for yourself. Don't worry about whether my roommate will take part in any competition, whether he will apply for Band 4, and whether he will take the postgraduate entrance examination. If you want to sign up, I will sign up. I suggest taking part in the competition. Although we may not win the prize, we will learn a lot from this experience. For example, the mathematical modeling contest I am taking part in now may not win the prize, but we can exercise ourselves.

One more thing, I want to say, that is, when you study hard for a semester and review, it is normal for students who study a few weeks before the exam and finally fail the exam. Don't pay too much attention to it. Originally, there was the original title of the final exam in the school textbook, and many people took the exam after reciting the answers. You must think that you come to school to study, and the pattern must be opened. You can't just look at the present, but also learn the knowledge in the future.

Speaking of the pattern, for example, if you live in a small building on the second floor and someone scolds you downstairs, you may be thinking in your heart: Why did this commodity scold me? Do you want to scold back? When you lived on the 20th floor, someone scolded you downstairs. I can't hear you clearly. You may think he is greeting you. When you live on the 200th floor, someone scolds you downstairs. Do you still care? You can't even see him. In your eyes, there are only 200 layers of landscape, and your vision must be broader.

When I get to college, I still want to think about what I should do, don't rot in the crowd, and don't think that everything will be fine if I get into college. It is never too old to learn. Life is a process of continuous learning.