Yingcheng Peng fortune-telling

When love comes to an end, the former vows of eternal love fall apart. From the new station to the crossroads, who regrets more than who?

It's hard to say. Some people say that women are more likely to regret it, because men don't divorce easily, and men rarely divorce before violating their principles. Women will have a sense of dependence on men in marriage, their own value will gradually decline after divorce, and their charm will be greatly reduced when they remarry.

Some people say it's a man, because the ending of most marriages, after all, is inseparable from this man, either cheating in marriage, or being too poor for a woman to bear, or being grumpy and prone to domestic violence, so after divorce, the man is the one who blames himself the most and regrets the most. In any case, no one will leave intact after divorce.

If I have to say who regrets it the most, I think it must be the person who values this relationship the most.

Who triggered the end of marriage?

In fact, there are many reasons for the end of every marriage, such as separation, personality disagreement, mother-in-law relationship, hard life, infidelity, infertility, constant quarrels and so on. These are the causes of marital conflicts, but with the test of time, these reasons are finally amplified by wireless. In fact, in my opinion, the real trigger is that the party leading the relationship between husband and wife has lost confidence in the future life and feels that it is better to get rid of each other and start looking for new hope again.

How serious is the psychological trauma after divorce?

Divorce is a big deal. Before you make a decision, you must think carefully and analyze calmly. You must not let yourself regret for a lifetime because of a temporary impulse. When you have experienced an unforgettable failed marriage, your love concept and psychology will change greatly. You may collapse and be full of fear of love. You may also be afraid to give your whole heart when the next love comes. Because I was abandoned in my feelings, I couldn't face the reality and finally went astray. The case is staged every day.

It is said that marriage must live with the right person, but the right person is not necessarily the one who can accompany you for a long time. All kinds of contradictions in life, anyone will encounter. Learning to face rational communication correctly has really reached the point of breaking up. Sit down and have a long talk with each other. Don't let the final separation become a lifelong regret.

Remarried after divorce, you can't get rid of the shadow of your predecessor.

Everyone who gets married for the second time has felt this way. When I live with my current husband or wife, I always compare them with my predecessor. Sometimes they will take each other the same way as their predecessors, take her to the restaurant where her ex-wife often goes, take him to her ex-husband's favorite tourist destination for a holiday, and so on. Now you have been subtly influenced by your ex-wife. As the song goes, "the habit you left behind is still stubbornly living on me."

There is a saying in Talmud that "divorced men and women remarry and four people fall asleep in bed". So now you are exactly what your predecessor shaped you. The longer you spend with your ex, the deeper your influence will be. The key to this influence is your ability to handle the current relationship. After all, you have experienced a failed marriage and don't want to have a wrong start again.