Fortune-telling says that children take their mother's surname _ What about children's fortune-telling and mothers' mutual help?

What's the effect of children taking their mother's surname?

In the past, except that the mother remarried and the son-in-law and adopted son were allowed to change their surnames, they were generally not allowed to change their surnames. Therefore, it is a major event related to family reproduction, incense continuation and reception. As we all know, the thinking of the older generation is very traditional and stubborn, and their educational background is completely different from today's times. Therefore, when the elderly know that their children take the woman's surname, they will be extremely dissatisfied and feel that their daughter-in-law is unreasonable. It's shameful, and how will they be discussed when visiting relatives?

Giving birth to a child is originally to continue the incense. If only one child is born without a husband's surname, the husband's family will have emotions. What's more, the baby's children can't take the husband's surname, which affects the importance of the continuation of incense, and even becomes more and more chaotic, causing a lot of unnecessary troubles and affecting the children's future life. Husband and wife are more open-minded, and parents-in-law are not too conservative. Mother has a certain position in the family. In order to express his love for his wife, or to recognize his wife's contribution to the family, the husband usually lets the second child take his mother's surname, and of course the first child will take his mother's surname.

Our country has a long history of surnames, and it is a traditional folk custom for couples and children to take their fathers' surnames, which is also in line with the national conditions of multi-ethnic development and common prosperity in China. However, there are exceptions. For example, a woman's family has a daughter but no son. In order to continue the family tree, it is necessary for her daughter and children to take the mother's surname. Although the relationship between father and son has not changed, the name should be on the family tree. Father → is a mountain, and father → is a stalwart person. Mother is kind and warm. That is to say, foreigners → people who belong to the very open western world all take their father's surname as their main name, but follow their father's surname. And we must carry forward the family business and family of our father's surname.

With the development of the times, son preference is still a controversial topic in modern times, resulting in a serious imbalance between men and women. Some girls were killed by hook or by crook for boys, and some pregnant women borrowed medicine and secretly aborted it when they found that it was not a boy. This is discrimination and disrespect for girls.