What does it mean to lose life for three years and get married for ten years?

Many people think that luck is particularly important. In ancient times, when they were unlucky, they needed to find something to cheer them up. There are many old sayings about luck in the countryside, some of which are superstitious, but there are also many reasons in them. This is the life experience left by our ancestors and the crystallization of their wisdom.

Death is something that everyone must experience. Getting married is also an important thing in life. There used to be a saying that "three years of mourning is unlucky, and ten years of marriage is unlucky." What does this sentence mean? Does it make sense? Or superstition?

The first half of this sentence means that if someone in a family dies, it is difficult for them to have good luck within three years. But as we all know, birth, aging, illness and death are the laws of human body and nature, which cannot be avoided. When people reach a certain age, they will face death, which is inevitable for anyone in ancient times. How many emperors want to pursue immortality, and how many beauties want to stay young forever, but all failed without exception. Man can't compete with time. Compared with the universe, people just float in the vast ocean. How can we avoid life and death? What does luck have to do with this?

As we all know, people have attached great importance to weddings and funerals since ancient times. After death, people have to go through many procedures, so there is no need to say more about the pain of their families. No one can be happy after the death of a loved one. According to folk custom, people will go to funerals and play suona after death. Please do it every seven days. The family will burn seven pieces of paper money at the door. Besides, we have to worship at home. To our relatives' graves. After three years, we can really send them away. In these three years, we can't help but worship festivals, big and small. In fact, this is time-consuming and laborious. Three years is also a mourning period. There are some restrictions. It will be three years before we can return to normal life. Tell me about your luck in these three years.

It is best to understand the sentence "Wang Ding has been married for ten years". Everyone knows that marriage is the most important thing in life. This means there is a new member in the family. If you have more families, you will naturally become rich. Besides, getting married is a happy thing. The lights at home are red, and family and friends come to congratulate them. Sure, it's hot and noisy. Within two years, the young couple had a child. Some daughters-in-law even gave birth to twins or triplets. If this is Wang Shangjia Wang. Sun Duo, the daughter-in-law at home, was so happy that she couldn't keep her mouth shut.