Husband has three peach blossoms in middle age. Now I've gone once, saying I can't hide. What should I do? He is not a playboy. This is really a success.

Blind faith is a superstition. The so-called theory of destiny, if any, only accounts for a small part, and it is constantly changing. People who truly understand Buddhism and believe in Buddhism will never talk about the so-called fate for you, let alone make these predictions for you, because there is no such prediction in Buddhism.

Even if Buddhism talks about fate, it is also a constant and causal relationship. Cause and effect are always changing, so people have different gains. It is far from how to predict the future of marriage for others. If you can predict like this, then no one needs to work hard, because since what is destined is just waiting, then I think you are blindly believing what you don't know.

Peach blossom is just a saying. The happiness of married life is only doomed to meet, not doomed to happiness and misfortune. A person's life is happy because he treats life and feelings correctly and can grasp and manage his feelings. Such people are easy to be happy, but those who blindly treat problems and feelings are still frustrated by themselves.

I think if your lover has an affair, it can only prove that there is something wrong with your relationship. An affair is just the outbreak and manifestation of your problems. His return does not mean that your problems have disappeared and ended, but that your problems and the temptation of the outside world are not completely inclined and fatal. If you still can't realize your own problems and guide them to solve reasonably, it will accumulate into a big one, or it will erupt again. Consume your little foundation and motivation, and then you may really lean again, so this is inevitable, not your fate, but that you don't realize that you don't grasp and understand the life and destiny you have been creating. If you go on like this, I think you may really lose your family in vain, and the affair is not necessarily a playboy affair, but it is more representative of the problems between you.

Happy Baotai Temple, a lost guide to happiness.