Fortune teller says brick paves the way _ What does fortune teller mean when he says brick paves the way?

What does it mean for a female junior to hold a golden brick (what does it mean for a female junior to hold a golden brick)

As we all know, in modern people's view of love, as long as two of a kind is full of love, everything else is floating clouds, and the age gap is not a problem.

But in the past, people were still very concerned about their age. If you do it spontaneously, you will be considered to be rude and unethical, and you may even be laughed at behind your back.

As the saying goes, "A female freshman is not a wife, and a female junior holds a golden brick", which means that if a woman is one year older than a man, it is a bad omen.

No matter how much you love each other, you will never get a wife, and even if you do, it will be difficult to be happy.

What if you are three years older? On the contrary, it is the most suitable match for Wang Fu. After getting married, it is no less than holding a golden brick, which will bring rolling financial resources to the husband's family, and the small life will become more and more prosperous.

Does this statement of the older generation make sense? Why are girls older than boys, only three years old, and there is such a diametrically opposite difference?

In fact, this is closely related to the social background at that time.

In the past, people were superstitious, always looking at Yin and Yang gossip and fortune telling. There are many taboos in marriage activities. If birthdays don't coincide, even the best marriage will be difficult to succeed.

Therefore, birth is the first thought of the older generation in marriage and mate selection. Let's see if there is any problem in numerology analysis. If the two are compatible, you will lose your mind directly.

Some people say that the reason why "female freshman" has marriage taboo is because the two adjacent zodiac signs are not suitable for marriage. However, i query learned the eight-character numerology of marriage, only to find that this statement is sheer nonsense and groundless.

For example, females and males should avoid the wedding table. Explanation: the ugly cow is the best marriage at six.

The mouse is clever, and the cow is diligent and patient. The two complement each other, and the mother mouse and the bull will be very complementary happy partners together.

It can be seen that the view that "a female freshman is not a wife" is a taboo of the zodiac and should not be established. Naturally, it is not trustworthy.

As for the statement that "a female freshman is not a wife, and a female freshman holds a golden brick in her hand", I think the only reason that can barely make sense should be because of the old concept of marriage and love.

At that time, people paid attention to having more children and more happiness, expecting a prosperous population, and men married women at a much younger age than now.

Generally speaking, when you get married at the age of thirteen or fourteen, you should shoulder the responsibility of supporting your family and raising your offspring at an early age.

Although the young couple have their own small family, they are still thirteen or fourteen years old, with immature minds and insufficient life experience.

Especially for boys, late maturity is a bad stage. Maybe they are still little boys who dig birds in trees and fish in rivers.

I remember reading the biography of a famous citizen. He was just 14 years old when he became the groom's official.

When firecrackers sounded to marry his new wife, regardless of his identity, he rushed into the crowd to compete for firecrackers, which caused the neighbors to burst into laughter.

And what about girls? Although he is mentally mature before boys, it is difficult to talk about responsibility if he is only one year older.

For her, the importance of taking care of her parents-in-law must be confused and I don't know how to deal with it.

If you are three years old, it will be very different. By contrast, you are much more stable and mature than your young husband. Knowing how to tolerate, persuade and comfort can help the young groom grow up, and he will try his best to run the country and abroad well.

Especially in feeding children, it will adapt to the role of mother more quickly.

After all, people at that time got married early, that is, they were looking forward to early childbearing, three years older, which had physical and psychological advantages in reproducing offspring and continuing incense.

Of course, this statement is just a family statement, and it is also a common saying handed down from the people, but some statements are quite different.

For example, the phrase "female freshman, holding a golden rooster" is precisely an attitude of recognition and support.

In this way, it will inevitably make people feel a little entangled.

By the way, who can tell right from wrong? Therefore, these interesting folk sayings must not be taken seriously, but should be regarded as jokes after dinner.

In fact, having said so much, I think the secret of a happy marriage, in a word, love and tolerance, is the real key!