What do you mean by absent-minded? (a person's absence will have these three manifestations. )

Don't be too pedantic in dealing with people. In the face of complex human society, if you don't understand the rules of the world and interpersonal communication, you will not only lose yourself, but also offend others.

In real life, some people are "simple-minded", immature, too arrogant and always conceited, and often end up shooting themselves in the foot. There are still some people who speak indiscreetly and openly, and finally offend others without knowing it.

The really smart people in life are very lively. They are all masters in interpersonal communication, and the road will get wider and wider. And those simple-minded people, they are always inseparable, and the road is getting narrower and narrower.

So, what are the performances of fools? Generally speaking, "simple-minded" people often have these three characteristics. I hope you're not among them.

There are no principles and bottom lines in being a man. Be flexible, don't be too clever and haggle over every ounce, but also have your own principles and bottom line.

Once someone touches their bottom line, they should dare to fight back. This not only protects your own interests, but also shows your attitude and makes your life easier.

People who are "simple-minded" tend to be too weak. They didn't know how to stick to their own principles and bottom line, and finally turned themselves into soft persimmons.

"People are good at being bullied, while Ma is good at being ridden". In daily life, I am too kind, but I am always bullied. Being a man should know that I don't make trouble, but it doesn't mean I'm afraid of things. A man should have his own principles.

Too ostentatious, love to show off. Since ancient times, the higher a person's status, the lower his life posture, and the more he should know how to hide.

Excessive publicity is annoying, low-key and boastful. Too ostentatious, too high-profile, too arrogant, is a person's "simple" performance.

"the gun hits the first bird", "the wood in the forest is beautiful, and the wind will destroy it." Don't publicize what you have done, arrogance will not come to a good end. No matter what position you are in, don't be too ostentatious. Otherwise, you will get yourself into trouble.

Keep a low profile, no loss, no loss. Don't be stupid and conceited. You are cocky, you don't know how to restrain yourself, and you will eventually be hated. Speak and do things in a measured way. What you should do is to speak moderately and never do anything, even if you are smart, you should be stupid.

You can't shut your mouth. Honesty is indeed a necessary criterion for interpersonal communication, but it doesn't mean that we can say everything. Bad words in June hurt people. Careless people often don't realize the proper limits. Who is talking often hurts others unconsciously.

Don't speak too directly. Anything you say is not honest, but stupid. Simple-minded people usually have appropriate restrictions, don't know how to speak, and don't even consider speaking skills. They often hurt and offend people because of their words.

If you talk too much, you will lose, and disaster will come from your mouth. Before you speak, go over what you have to say in your mind and see what you can and can't say. Watch your words, don't say "stupid" words.

Message from Wheat: Only "clarity" can win life. People have these problems, 90% of which are due to "unclear" and "carelessness". I don't know the situation, I don't know current events, and my life is a mess.

You can be unwise, but don't be "careless" or "unclear". Don't be more partial than you, blame yourself for being brainless. In short, a person's "simpleness" will have these three manifestations, not only often suffering losses, but also always offending people.

Life is not easy, pay attention to everything. However, "simple-minded" people always show inappropriate behaviors in interpersonal communication, which will lead to difficulties in life.

Be a man, you must remember: I am not good, I am not smart, but I am certainly not stupid. We need to make ourselves "smarter than fools". So as not to offend people and be used.