In 12 constellation, which constellation is more difficult to solve after the conflict?

It is inevitable that there will be some contradictions and frictions between people, some of which can be well solved, some of which may be stranded or even more difficult to solve, but objectively speaking, contradictions and problems are often not unilateral reasons, so if you really want to solve some contradictory problems, you must work together with Qi Xin, for example, one person wants to solve the problem, while the other refuses to solve or evade the problem. Some problems may not be solved. In fact, some constellations of 12 are like this. So in the 12 constellation, which constellation is more difficult to solve after the conflict?

Cancer constellation

Many people always say that cancer bears grudges, but actually cancer bears grudges is not a simple definition. Behind Cancer's grudges is the psychological imbalance caused by unclear feelings and insecurity. From this, we can deduce the deeper definition of cancer's grudges, that is, the deeper the feelings of cancer for someone, the deeper the grudges, the shallower the feelings, and the shallower the grudges. Or to put it more popularly, for those friends who have a general relationship, Cancer won't hold grudges, at most. For those friends who have a deep relationship, Cancer will be very concerned, and when he is psychologically unbalanced, this concern will turn into resentment, especially for lovers and relatives. So this is why the contradiction with cancer is more difficult to solve.

For example, when she is sick with cancer, her boyfriend doesn't take care of her, but simply reminds her to take medicine. But in Cancer's memory, when she was sick, her boyfriend took care of her very much, even if she had a small cold and cough, her boyfriend would be very careful. Now that my boyfriend doesn't do this, will cancer take medicine by itself? What will she think after taking the medicine? To put it bluntly, Cancer will always think after this situation, and she will think that her boyfriend may not love her very much, and he has changed. Paradoxically, on the surface, Cancer will not show such pessimism, but will pretend to be sensible and nothing.

Then the boyfriend comes home from work, and the mood of Cancer will come up. If the boyfriend is too stressed at work and in a bad mood, so the boyfriend doesn't want to talk, don't want to communicate and want to be alone, then Cancer will be more hurt when he sees his boyfriend in this state. So what will Cancer think at this time? Cancer will think, "I am sick, and he is still so cold." It seems that he may have really changed and really doesn't love me so much. " And this idea of Cancer may become the fuse of contradiction in the future. So what will Cancer do if these two people have a conflict because of a certain problem in the future? Cancer is duplicitous and will escape.

In fact, friends who have been in love with Cancer should know that Cancer is easy to talk to. When there is no contradiction between you, you are what you say. Cancer will follow each other because of affection and care, and will try their best to take care of each other. Cancer has no sense of security. When she has something on her mind, she will be very emotional and unable to communicate. To tell the truth, except Pisces and Scorpio, it is really difficult for other constellations to realize and guess the sensitive point of cancer, because it is really too difficult, and even more helpless, Pisces and Cancer are the same.

Today, let's ask the question of cancer more thoroughly. It is such a thing, and logic is such a logic. In Cancer's view, Cancer will try his best to pay for the people he values and cares about, but these people he values can't grasp her sensitive points, so it is impossible to say what Cancer wants to hear and what Cancer wants to see. Then cancer will think that their efforts are not worth it. After repeated thinking, cancer will think that the other person doesn't care so much about himself, so cancer will become more and more insecure about a person's hopes, so the heart will only become more and more pessimistic, and the external state of cancer is also very tough. He is so paranoid that he wants to escape without admitting anything, especially the cancer girl. Cancer people will be gentler than Microsoft, and at most they will run away and retreat.

So for people who get along with cancer, the state they see is not the true state of cancer's heart, so they can't think and guess what cancer is thinking and what is abnormal and emotional, so what they say at this time is not what cancer wants to hear. So the problem of conflict with cancer is really too difficult to solve. Cancer's emotional model is this model, so you will find that there are really too many lonely people in real life, and there are also sayings that cancer is unsociable, from individuals to stars. The problem of cancer can only be solved by yourself, but how can cancer be so easy to figure out? Cancer will endure and hold back because of love at most, so Cancer has become a very contradictory, pessimistic and vulnerable constellation (one thousand wounded enemies, eight hundred self-damaged).