How does Constellation 12 resolve the jealousy of colleagues?

Jealousy is an unhealthy psychology and a negative emotional expression. In fact, many adults also have different degrees of jealousy, but most adults can make correct judgments with rich life experience when they are jealous, so as to control their emotions rationally. However, there are also a few people who seek their own psychological balance by taking bad behaviors because their negative emotions are out of control. Even some cases of disfigurement, murder, theft and robbery are caused by jealousy. In the workplace, capable people will inevitably be jealous of colleagues, so how can our twelve constellations resolve the jealousy of colleagues? I will understand with Bian Xiao immediately!

Aries: How about trying to make friends with each other, strengthen mutual understanding, and then turn enemies into friends?

Aries has a bright life and won't hide things in her heart, so if she is jealous, she is particularly easy to be noticed by others. In order to prevent this situation from affecting your interpersonal relationship in the workplace, it is best to stop the further development of jealousy as soon as possible after you detect it. For the cheerful Aries, it's hard to be jealous of TA after treating a person as a friend. So when you are jealous of someone, try to be friends with TA first!

Taurus: Blind inferiority is the source of your jealousy, so please know yourself correctly first!

Taurus people tend to feel inferior. Although they may not really realize this, it is a true fact. Therefore, Taurus will unconsciously enlarge the advantages of others, especially those who may "compete for resources" with them and form competition, which is more likely to have this tendency. So, when you find yourself jealous of someone, first re-examine yourself and see if the other person is worthy of jealousy.

Gemini: Contact each other's business scope and analyze whether your jealousy has any basis.

Gemini people are quick-thinking and know how to solve problems flexibly, but sometimes they rely too much on their own cleverness. So they have a tendency to see difficulties too easily, which can only be eliminated by "doing it yourself" So when you are secretly jealous of someone, you can try to get in touch with TA's work and really feel how well you can do this job if you are yourself. then what If you can't, don't be jealous; And if you can do it well, there is no need to be jealous!

Cancer: Talk frankly with your family about your feelings and listen to their analysis.

For cancer people, jealousy itself is not an important concern. The key is that this strong negative emotion will affect your state. So instead of looking for its source, it is better to overcome it from another angle and in another way. Therefore, I suggest that you, who are used to taking your family as the rear area, talk to your closest family and clear your mind by talking to them. I believe that you, who are kind by nature, will gradually resolve your jealousy in this process.

Leo: Your jealousy comes from ignoring the aura of "seeking attention". Just prescribe the right medicine.

Leo is usually generous, but it is not surprising that they are jealous of a colleague in their professional life, because they can always be honest with their feelings. Lions have such negative emotions, mostly because they think their attention has been taken away by the other side, that is, someone is fighting for the hegemony that originally belonged to you. After realizing this, you might as well try to strengthen your performance in the fields you are good at or care about and regain the attention and affirmation of leaders and colleagues.

Virgo: As long as you are not too obsessed with details, you can restore your original indifference.

Although Virgos usually don't like to talk much, they always show that there is nothing to argue about, but in fact, they have a small radio station in their hearts that handles the external information they receive at any time and forms corresponding emotional feedback. Virgo's workplace jealousy often comes from all kinds of work details. Sometimes even I know this jealousy is unnecessary, but I just can't help it. So I suggest that you take overcoming these unnecessary "attention to detail" as a new task to challenge yourself. When did you do it? Congratulations, your professional accomplishment has deepened!

Libra: Jealousy comes from hostility to an imaginary enemy. The key to overcoming it is to recognize your "imaginary enemy".

Librans attach great importance to interpersonal relationships, but that doesn't mean they won't have interpersonal problems. For example, jealousy in the workplace is actually a trouble that seriously bothers them, because Libra usually pays too much attention to the state of people around them, and in this kind of attention, they will analyze others' attitudes towards themselves, and then focus on those who may lack a good impression on themselves, forming potential hostility, and then they will look down on each other's everything, which is the same as suspecting neighbors and stealing axes. Therefore, if you want to overcome jealousy in the workplace, you must first overcome this preconceived hostility!

Scorpio: Things may not be what you think, even your own feelings may not be accurate.

"I hate TA, because this guy * * *", Scorpio people always have this clear feeling of love and hate, even in the workplace that needs wit. But many times Scorpio feels that he has found a reason for jealousy (for example, the other party's work efficiency is higher than his own, and the leader trusts each other more), but in fact, the source of his jealousy is not here, but more of a reason why he is embarrassed to admit it (for example, colleagues of the opposite sex who have a crush on him always like to talk to TA). I suggest Scorpio, when you feel the jealousy burning in your heart, find the source first and then break it one by one!

Sagittarius: since you don't accept it, let's have a good fight with each other!

Sagittarius people are generally more confident, so if the people they despise make amazing achievements, they will feel their jealousy ignited. From this point of view, the shooter is a natural challenger, always paying attention to the "number of segments" ranking between himself and the people around him. Therefore, since there is this tendency, the shooter may wish to make good use of it: to see who is not pleasing to the eye, use the results and the other PK to turn jealousy into enterprising motivation!

Capricorn: If there is jealousy in the workplace, it's probably because you really have a bottleneck in your career.

Capricorn people usually have an objective attitude towards work. They will frankly admire and learn what they can't do but others can easily do. Even if there is a trace of jealousy in their hearts, they will quickly urge themselves to overcome it. Therefore, if Capricorn is troubled by jealousy in the workplace for a long time, it may be really unfair. The reason may be that the leader misunderstood you, or was excluded by other colleagues. I suggest you don't run away from the contradiction at this time, look directly at it bravely and solve it! Because interpersonal problems in the workplace are as important as the work itself.

Aquarius: learn from others' advantages to make up for your own shortcomings. If there is, change it and encourage it.

Aquarius people like to learn and accept fresh information from the outside world, so I suggest you take advantage of workplace jealousy from the corresponding positive aspects: if you can analyze what you are jealous of, try to imitate your jealous object, see how TA can reach the height you can't, and then try to be as good as the other person. As long as you face workplace jealousy with this learning attitude, I believe you can not only overcome it quickly, but also benefit a lot.

Pisces: If you can't find enough things from yourself, your jealousy will naturally be solved.

Pisces people, whether male or female, are sometimes arrogant, pay too much attention to unnecessary things, but avoid talking about real contradictions and problems themselves. When Pisces is jealous, it is probably not someone else's problem, but that they are really not doing well enough. As long as we can realize this and pay attention to it, meaningless workplace jealousy can be reasonably resolved, and Pisces can also cultivate a better and more positive attitude in this process.