The performance of blind date failure

What are the manifestations of blind date failure?

Many boys and girls chat with girls after the blind date, but the girls don't reply in time, or when they ask for a blind date, they say they have something to shirk ... They begin to suspect that this is a sign of blind date failure and then give up. In fact, there are still many performances that judge that there is no chance after blind date. The above two points alone can't explain anything at all.

First of all, explicitly refuse.

Girls who come on blind dates basically rush to get married. If a girl doesn't like you, she will tell you directly that it's inappropriate. If the blind date girl explicitly rejects you verbally, says it is inappropriate, or makes friends or something, it is basically a sign that there is no chance after blind date. On the contrary, if a girl disagrees with your pursuit verbally, she may be prevaricating you. At this time, don't let girls express their views in a hurry. She may need to spend more time observing whether you are suitable or not and examining your patience and attitude towards her. At this time, boys should be more patient, try to chase you, and let girls see your attitude and determination.

Second, refuse to reply to you.

Some girls may think that blind date is introduced by acquaintances of both parties, and direct refusal may embarrass both parties, so they will adopt the way of refusal. So what kind of refusal can we judge that there is no chance after blind date? If she doesn't refuse you explicitly in words, but only gives a cold reply to your chat and refuses all your invitations, in short, she just wants to cut off all contact with you ... such an obvious indifference is easy to find.

If a girl really didn't reply to you once or twice in time because of something, or if she really didn't have time to invite you to dinner and explained it to you afterwards, then this situation is not hopeless, but it's really unfortunate that you let her find her.

Third, the feelings when chatting

Don't be misled by the superficial meaning of the blind date girl. Sometimes there may be many hidden meanings. The following points are shared with you:

First, it doesn't matter what you say when chatting on a blind date. What matters is how you make her feel and her mood.

Second, when having an affair with a blind date girl, her mood is not important. What you do and what she thinks are more important.

Third, it doesn't matter what blind date girls say, do or think. What you want her to do and think is important. Step by step, experience for yourself.

Finally, what attitude do you care about for boys who want a girl attitude after a few days of blind date? Should we think that we can formally confirm the relationship and then get busy getting married, or should we just tell you that we don't like it and delete each other? If she is in such a hurry to get married, she is already married, and she is not particularly annoying and will not say that she doesn't like it. Of course, there are still many performances that have no chance after blind date judgment, so boys should not be so haggle over every ounce.