"Heart House" saw through Ishihara and wanted to marry him. It turns out that Gu Qingyu thinks so.

Gu Qingyu is a standard professional elite. She has a keen eye for people, and she picks out difficult projects in her work. I am proud of my work, but I am not successful in love, because there has always been a Bai Yueguang boy living in my heart.

Many years later, she met her first love boy, who turned out to be his fake marriage partner.

Gu Qingyu's head suddenly went blank, and his thinking was also slow. He pretended not to know and added WeChat.

Bai Yueguang in her mind has now become a middle-aged greasy uncle, and she has also started to fake marriage with others. At that time, her heart was blocked badly and she couldn't accept this reality. For this reason, I also lost sleep all night.

My fond memories of my first love, like a beautiful bubble, were shattered. After it is broken, ordinary people may feel that time is ruthless, so let the memories stay in the past!

Gu Qingyu is different from ordinary people. Although she had seen through Ishihara, she chose to marry him like a moth, and she married behind her family's back.

So vigorous at work, it is wise to analyze marriage for my brother in life. Why did she jump down without hesitation when she knew that marrying Ishihara was a pit of fire?

0 1. Obsession is too heavy

Gu Qingyu just defeated her competitor beautifully and went on a date with Ishihara. As a result, her competitors were very angry and thought Ishihara was her new boyfriend.

Deliberately spoiled the past, saying that Gu Qingyu was a pervert, forcing every boyfriend to wear a white shirt and black-rimmed glasses. Said that she always had her first boyfriend in her heart, and everyone else was the shadow of this first boyfriend!

The purpose is to let Ishihara break up with her. As a result, Ishihara is angry and admits that he is his first boyfriend!

It can be seen that Gu Qingyu has really been living in Teachers College. The boy who can play the piano wears a white shirt and black-rimmed glasses.

She has been fantasizing about seeing him again, and this feeling is really hard to express in words. Of course, she doesn't want this dream to be broken. Even if she deludes herself, she will be with the World Garden.

Buddha said: obsession is like an abyss, which takes you to the abyss of death gradually. Obsession is self-deception, but knowing that there is a fire pit ahead, you don't hesitate to jump.

Gu Qingyu can see clearly that she loves the once white boy, but now Shiyuan is not that boy, but a middle-aged greasy man who has been polished by life and made a fake marriage in order to make money.

But her inner obsession is too deep, and people tend to be irrational together. Adults will be like the wayward child who splashes in front of the supermarket shelves, regardless.

So, a few days after meeting, she married Shi Yuan. It looks beautiful, but there are great hidden dangers. It's humble enough to take off all the difficulties and contempt of my mother-in-law.

Everyone has an obsession, for a person or a thing, or an object. Sometimes, obsession can spur us to pursue beauty, but if it is too deep, it will make us fidget.

Some people say that for people trapped by obsession, heaven is hell; Let go of the fans, and hell is also heaven.

It's good to have obsession, but don't get caught up in it, and don't let it override reason and affect our decision-making.

02. The heart of the Virgin is overflowing.

The scene when Gu Qingyu met Ishihara was embarrassing. She was the object of her fake marriage. Gu Qingyu knew that Shi Yuan had a bad life. If you live a good life, who will do a fake marriage?

Gu Qingyu was actually very sad to see that his first love life was so bad. She feels that someone who used to be so beautiful is now living such a life, and she feels sorry for him.

When she knew that Ishihara was trying to make money to treat her mother, Gu Qingyu sympathized with him. Now she has a successful career, but her first love is not good. She wants to help him.

She felt that she was in love with him, and marrying her was the greatest affirmation and help to him.

Actually, I don't think she needs to do this at all. Everything has a cause and effect, and there must be a reason for a person's bad life. As Mother Kong said in Know No, individuals have their own karma.

There are many poor people, but you can't do bad things just because you are poor. There is also a criterion for judging a person in the book "Learning from the Same Resources": that is, when he is down and out, he doesn't rely on anything to make money.

It can be seen that the bottom line of Shiyuan is very low.

Gu Qingyu, however, was confused by the aura of first love, and felt that he would not do such a thing without a retreat. When a person likes another person, he will take the initiative to find an excuse to do something bad.

When Ishihara told me that her family was not doing well and she was not doing well, she didn't come to Gu Qingyu. In fact, she believes and feels very understanding.

In the face of first love, Gu Qingyu felt that if his life was bad, he would not like him because he was too powerful. Don't just look at money in love, it's too tacky, and she is not short of money!

So, she strengthened her determination to marry Shi Yuan.

Gu Qingyu is actually a particularly rational person. If she is irrational, she can't be at home in an investment bank. However, the flood of Notre Dame is really a bit of a disaster to marry Ishihara.

And her virgin comes from a condescending sense of superiority, which is not only her advantage, but also the main reason that affects her judgment.

Therefore, when we make a decision, we should not feel superior or feel sorry for others. But with the attitude of equality of all beings, jump out of yourself and think more about the consequences.

03. The desire to conquer is too strong.

Although Gu Qingyu's obsession and the heart of the Virgin are very strong, it finally made her decide whether to marry Ishihara or Ishihara, which aroused her desire to conquer.

Ishihara and Gu Qingyu reunited many years later. Although the scene was embarrassing, both sides added WeChat. Talk occasionally. Finally, Ishihara deleted Gu Qingyu's WeChat and decided not to take this fake marriage.

Gu Qingyu, who was deleted by WeChat, was a little hit in his heart. He knew that he was so excellent and beautiful, and Ishihara was no longer the boy in white. Shouldn't you be happy to see yourself? Why did you delete it?

This made Gu Qingyu very puzzled, and his heart was aroused with curiosity. What is the reason for deleting yourself? Is it inferiority? Or other reasons?

Later, Gu Qingyu found him near Yuan's home after his death, met Shiyuan in a snack bar, and they joined WeChat. Two people often chat on WeChat and go out on dates together. Gu Qingyu took the initiative to ask him out on Saturday.

Originally, he promised to be fine, but he canceled his appointment with Gu Qingyu because he had to take care of other tour guides. Gu Qingyu, who has almost never been rejected, has always had an appetite.

After several dates, Gu Qingyu thought they were boyfriend and girlfriend, but Ishihara kept silent, refused and kept it a secret. Gu Qingyu was a little worried, so he ran to Shi Yuan's house and proposed to him directly. Shi Yuan turned her down.

Ishihara's refusal made Gu Qingyu lose face, saying that women chasing men's spacer yarns are like being separated by spinning mills. Gu Qingyu was particularly unwilling, and her desire to conquer was also aroused.

So I invited a spare tire to show Xiang and help him, which won Shi Yuan.

The whole process seems to be Gu Qingyu's initiative, but in fact it is completely passive. Ishihara just took advantage of her desire to conquer.

When you think you will win something, once the result is different from what you think, it will make you full of fighting spirit.

Gu Qingyu thinks Ishihara must love her, and she thinks it is inevitable to marry Ishihara. Therefore, when Ishihara refused her proposal, she immediately started the fighting mode and began to plan how to marry him in her mind.

As we all know, what she should think at the moment should be whether to marry him or not.

Therefore, at any time, don't be led astray by the rhythm of others, and don't make decisions that are unfavorable to you because of temporary anger and eagerness for success.

04.

Gu Qingyu had already seen through Ishihara, but she married him without hesitation. The reason is nothing more than his obsession with his first love, the proliferation of his virgin heart and Ishihara's playing hard to get.

Obsession made her feel that meeting was the fate of heaven, but unfortunately she didn't catch it. Fate made her careless, and regret made her afraid of missing it.

The virgin's heart is overflowing, which makes her feel that if she gives up the source, her strength is a betrayal of her previous love. Ishihara's life is not good, and she thinks she should save him. Once the heart of redemption rises, people will ignore it.

Ishihara's lukewarm, playing hard to get, so that she has always had a strong sense of superiority, she feels very embarrassed and must win Ishihara.

Therefore, although Gu Qingyu has already seen through what kind of person Ishihara is, he still fell in step-by-step contact.

Because she wants to keep the perfect image of her first love boy, she has found a good reason for him! See through, or stick to the wrong choice. In fact, we are deceiving ourselves and not seeing through ourselves.

May we see through others and ourselves!