Girls say I don't look like that constellation.

Many friends have told me that they are a certain constellation, but they don't feel like this constellation-for example, a friend of Cancer said that he felt that he didn't have all the characteristics of Cancer except nostalgia.

For example, sometimes he is introverted and sometimes he is extroverted. Sometimes I want to stay at home alone, and sometimes I feel flustered and want to go out. So he felt very strange. I always feel that some personality factors are affecting his original personality, so that he can't tell which personality is his true personality.

Why is this? People who ask these questions are generally novices in astrology. Let me tell you some basic knowledge. We usually say what constellation we are according to the date of birth, that is to say, the sun constellation, that is to say, we only look at the constellation where the sun was born. In fact, there are ten stars in the core of everyone's life, which are located in different constellations and houses, and they form different angular relationships with each other.

In addition, the rising constellation on the eastern horizon where everyone was born, that is, the rising constellation, is also very important for shaping personality. Therefore, it is definitely not enough to look at a person's overall personality only by looking at the sun signs.

To simplify, at least the constellations of the sun, moon, mercury, venus and mars, as well as the rising constellations, should be considered as a whole and analyzed comprehensively.

Specific to his personal problems, it is generally believed that Cancer is "home", quiet and introverted, but this is only a flat understanding. Because everyone only pays attention to the sun constellation and ignores other factors in the astrolabe, in the simplified generalization of the twelve constellation types, things that are inconsistent with their own characteristics will inevitably be found.

To correct this flat stereotype, we can try to understand them from the basic characteristics of constellations. For example, Cancer is a standard water sign, guarded by the moon. Very rich and sensitive in emotional experience, easily influenced by emotions, resulting in insecurity.

Because of the lack of security, it is easy to produce the tendency of excessive self-protection, because of the need of security, like to stay in an environment with a sense of stability and can be nourished by emotions, and because of too rich and sensitive emotions, there is also the need to protect, take care of and nourish others, and so on. As for whether a Sun Cancer person is really "home", quiet or noisy, it depends on his overall astrological configuration. In fact, the most critical psychological problem of Cancer is to find emotional support for yourself.

Therefore, cancer people may stay at home quietly, enjoy inner peace and be undisturbed, or they may like to call friends, enjoy emotional nourishment in the circle of friends and relatives, experience the feeling of being needed, and release their positive emotional energy.