I am a cancer. Why do I look nothing like cancer? Constellation is a joke, right?

Cancer who has never been hurt: He can perceive the most sensitive and fragile part of your heart, and others can't. He will use his gentleness and thoughtfulness to make you accept him inadvertently. His delicacy and romance make you want to be surrounded and separated all the time.

When he holds a crab shell, you must not be more impatient than him. Even if he said something that hurt you, it's because he felt more hurt inside. He needs the women around him to be particularly tolerant of him, and he will pay you several times your gentleness in return. At this time, you just need to understand that it is his fragility that makes him sharp. Put down those needles and wheat awns and influence him with a woman's tolerance. Sensitive people will instantly accept this information and return to gentleness.

Hot and cold? The reason is that Cancer likes fantasy very much and is very sensitive. Everything around them can be the theme and extension of their fantasy. If their dreams are good, then they will wake up as sunny teenagers; If it is a nightmare, they will lock themselves up when they wake up, because the nightmare continues. So in the final analysis, the mood of Cancer is still my own, because I think about it when I have nothing to do (Cancer is too sensitive, bored and always thinking).

The first thing we should pay attention to is to give them a stable and warm environment as far as possible, so that they can dream less and have sweet dreams without affecting their mood.

Cancer is suspicious by nature, so try not to be vague in front of them. They want the meaning of their words to be very clear. Only in this way will they tell you everything in their hearts. Because they think they know everything and feel stable. If cancer begins to be ambiguous, you should pay attention. If they can't understand the meaning of a word or thing, they will start thinking and dreaming, and what they usually do at this time is a nightmare. So don't try to keep secrets in front of them. If they smell something, tell them at once. Although Cancer is used to loneliness and sometimes likes to lock a person up, they usually like to go out with friends. So try to let them go out with people they know, and Cancer will feel very stable. Even if you dream at this time, it will not be a nightmare. I usually take Cancer out to play. If they are suddenly silent, they are dreaming. Try to go with them. Cancer likes to take her lover to various parties, because it will feel very warm. Moreover, they don't dream when they concentrate on their work, such as when they are busy at work, but they will be distracted and fall asleep after a pause (sometimes it really affects the efficiency of work and study).

Secondly, if they talk a lot a minute ago and are very silent a minute later, it is that they have begun to dream. At this time, they don't want others to disturb their dreams, especially sweet dreams. Even if you talk to them, they will be absent-minded. Remember never to pester them. If they are bored, they will be miserable. What may be a dream must be a nightmare. At this time, stay with them until they wake up. Don't try to wake up or disturb their dreams, the consequences are unimaginable. If you think they left you out, you should "teach" them a lesson, and it's not too late for them to wake up.

Third, it is certain to have nightmares in an unstable environment. Even if it is a good thing, it will be harmful to think about it. Generally, they don't shut themselves off when they have a nightmare occasionally. If you start to shut yourself off, you must find out why. It must be because they feel unsafe and unstable. Most things or words are not clearly stated, and sensitive crabs will think about it. When nightmares accumulate to a certain extent, the result is self-isolation (crabs are very tolerant, but there is always a limit to patience). At this time, there will be more and more nightmares, and the time of self-closure will be longer each time. When they are self-enclosed, they will not forgive others' interruptions. What we have to do is not to influence them, not to ask questions, not to talk to them. This time is very closed, we won't say anything, it will only widen the distance between us. Send a few messages about him or miss him every day. The tone of the message should be normal, not too frequent, and it may be pulled back in advance. When they come back and explain everything, they have nothing to guess and think about, and then they immediately go back to the past. Sometimes it may still be cold, just pay attention to your tone. It's best to talk face to face, not on the phone or online. Because face-to-face conversation will make him feel very stable. Crabs are also rude. And crabs are good at revenge, not the kind of larger foe, but deliberately angry with you, which will make you feel bad. For example, if you say to your face that you have a good relationship with such and such a woman, on the one hand, it is to test your reaction, on the other hand, it is to get back at you. I'm sure you have a problem. He has a dream, and then he puts it into action.