How to deal with death, illness and accidents?

Today, I mourn your brother with a heavy heart. I feel very depressed these days. Eldest brother died at the age of 42, and only experienced six stages in his life. Everyone around us died young, and we have to sigh that life is fragile and can't stand our tests again and again. In this case, I usually can't even say a word of comfort "I'm sorry for your loss" can't comfort people's inner grief. The dead are like this, and the living are silent for this. Silence may be the greatest respect for the dead.

In the face of death

"Zhuangzi's wife died, Keiko hung it, and Zhuangzi sang in the drum basin." Few people in the world can do Zhuang Zhou's free and easy.

I remember when I was a child, I first realized the concept of "death" and thought that one day I would lose consciousness forever. An empty fear makes me shudder, want to cry and can't sleep in the middle of the night. Between nothingness and pain, I'd rather choose pain if I can. But death is a black threshold, which is innate and inevitable.

People always feel tired to live, but they are afraid of death. This shows that no matter how much pressure and frustration there are in our life, there are still many things worth preserving in general. Because of death, we will cherish our limited life, be interesting people and do meaningful things.

Many people who commit suicide either think that "the world has nothing to do with me" or that "the pain of being alive is greater than the beauty worthy of nostalgia" and have embarked on a dead end. Sometimes I wonder, when they jump off the ground, will the important things in their lives be awakened like slides? I don't know if they will regret their behavior at that time.

The world really has nothing to do with us But from the moment we were born, we left footprints in this world and made contact with it. Whether this series of footprints is beautiful or not, and whether this layer of contact is close or not, is determined by our every action. Our actions stem from our choices, and our choices depend on our value judgments. Life is meaningless, meaning is alive, and everyone needs to determine the meaning of his life.

Realize the meaning of life, and die in this life without regret.

Face the disease

More painful than death may be the long-term torture of disease.

Many of us know that we are ill and don't want to see a doctor. I used to be like this. In our eyes, procrastination and neglect are much easier than facing the pain directly.

However, procrastination and neglect can't solve any problems. By the time we have to face it, the problem may not be solved. "Today, I don't like it. If you are afraid of illness and avoid medical treatment, you would rather be ruined. "

Failure to accept the true self will lead to delay and deterioration. Therefore, whether it is a disease or any other problem, the first step to solve it is to have the courage to face up to these defects and deficiencies. Then it is possible to try to solve every problem.

Since it is inevitable, accept it wholeheartedly.

Face an accident

Tomorrow will still be an accident, and no one knows which will happen first.

Aring Zhang, the founder of Dr. Spring Rain, died of myocardial infarction for a week, and his wife Wang Xiaobao delivered a eulogy entitled A Man and His Love. The first paragraph of the article:

Accidents are more difficult to face than death and disease.

I once experienced a special nightmare. Compared with other gloomy and depressing films, I feel relaxed and bright, as if I had entered heaven. At that moment, I doubted that I really went ... but in a flash, I was awakened by a sense of regret that I was about to die. There are too many things to explain, I am unwilling. But after waking up, this feeling of regret is hard to feel. You can only use this word to express that kind of loss-"people die before they finish their work, and there is less happiness and more regret." I have never said that this body is made by nature, which is even harder to trust. Thinking about it before and after, I am sad and resentful, looking at old songs, my eyes are blurred, and my eyes are like yesterday. "

Polish writer Sin Posca wrote in his poem:

Many people and things have disappeared before saying goodbye and will never show their faces again.

Respect for the law can reduce the probability of accidents. Expect the best and prepare for the worst. Imagine and rehearse "what if?"

Even so, the accident was unexpected. It's really coming, and I still don't know how to face it. But I hope I won't bring unexpected harm to others in the future.

The people of Sri Lanka have gone, and the lives of the living will continue. Brother Jun is an open-minded person. I wish him a pleasant journey ... I wish his family happiness and well-being ... and sing an elegy of Tao Qian to express my grief-