Psychology: What are the good habits of smart women?

Psychology: What are the good habits of smart women? 1, can talk, high emotional intelligence ya is a woman with high emotional intelligence I have ever seen. Every time I see her, I can be moved by her passion. More importantly, she can understand your emotions subtly and is always ready to listen to you. You will always feel comfortable with her because she can understand and accept you. Moreover, she can always communicate with you from a more objective perspective, without commenting but experiencing it in depth, so everything she says is very thoughtful. A really smart woman must be able to talk and have a high emotional intelligence. This kind of emotional intelligence quotient comes from their sensitive perception of their own mentality, and it is also their discovery and correct guidance of the needs of others.

Xue Baochai is the woman with the highest EQ and IQ in A Dream of Red Mansions. She often goes back and forth to the government because she is very clever. Lin Daiyu used to be a little different from her, and because she was a mistress, she was always a bit tricky. Xue Baochai is not ignorant, but she firmly believes that only sincerity can move Lin Daiyu, who is so smart. So when she saw something good, she asked my little girl to bring it to Lin Daiyu, and it was two copies. Even if Lin Daiyu is lofty, she is really moved by Xue Baochai. After that, the two said a lot of intimate words to each other, more like sisters. It can be said that Xue Baochai has basically never been in the limelight in Jiafu. Generally speaking, women who can talk and have high emotional intelligence are usually insightful, so they will be handy in interpersonal communication and gain her favor.

2, flexible, less rules and regulations. Second, smart women are flexible and have few rules and regulations on them. Why are there so many rules? In fact, it is only an obstacle set by human factors, which makes people deliberately make mistakes. But for a smart woman, she knows the rules of the game. Therefore, when they do things, they are mostly flexible and will not be blocked by restrictions, but consider the essence and realize their dreams. Huang Rong is often liked by many people. It is precisely because of her cleverness and wit that her greatest advantage is that she is flexible in dealing with people. There is really that kind of momentum that will block the enemy and have means to cover up. Huang Rong has never been intimidated by all kinds of difficulties. On the contrary, she took action to defeat the enemy. Finally, she won again and again. More traditionally, she can become the inheritor of Zoroastrianism because she knows that Hong Qigong is greedy and likes to eat. So, she took the limelight, studied and trained various cooking skills, and firmly grasped Hong Qigong's heart. It is a piece of cake for Hong Qigong to educate her and Guo Jing about martial arts. It can be said that smart women must be flexible and will not be bound by various standards of social development. On the contrary, it is to touch the essence, understand the requirements of others, and then solve the difficulties.

3, in-depth understanding of yourself, more determined The third smart woman is characterized by her deep understanding of herself, and she is more determined in both doing things and designing styles. Take the married life of women as an example. I talked to many women and found that many girls don't necessarily know themselves. Moreover, the concept of marriage is relatively simple. They think that only one man who is kind to him is the basis of a happy marriage. In fact, ask them, do you know yourself? What kind of person do you think is best for you? When asked, I don't know. A really smart woman must know herself and know what kind of person is suitable for her, so when she meets the right person, she will not hesitate, but choose to grasp it decisively. Huang Rong chose Guo Jing because he knew that he was smart, and Guo Jing, who was not so smart but very practical, was the best choice.

And when she chose Guo Jing, she deliberately pretended to be a little beggar to test whether Guo Jing was a snob. Until she saw Guo Jing's simple and honest nature, she attracted the stupid Guo Jing with her own cleverness and made Guo Jing admire her. Their marriage is more complementary and loving. Zhao Min will choose Duan Yu, which is a deep pain for Duan Yu. Because Duan Yu is affectionate and kind-hearted, he appreciates it even more. Is for his heart, and she also firmly believes that Duan Yu also needs her on the road of life. Because he is determined and wise, he can help her, and more importantly, she is sincere. Therefore, in the face of their lovers, they have their own ways and means to get their own hearts.