Ode to Joy 2: Andy's love for Bao Xiao is only a woman's instinctive choice for love.

Ode to Joy has been broadcast for one or two seasons, and Andy's emotional line is the most hotly discussed.

Many people feel sorry for Lao Tan, but it is a pity that it is singular. Everyone is talking about such two good men. Why did Andy choose to ignore and give up, and finally fell in love with Bao Yifan who appeared later?

Lao Tan admitted that he couldn't bear Andy's life and chose not to love Andy because he loved himself more and quit voluntarily, so there was no need to discuss it.

But singularity, is it a pity to lose to Bao Yifan?

I don't think it's a pity.

From personality to three views, and love for Andy, Singularity has lost.

Andy's choice of Bao Yifan to give up singularity is just an instinctive choice of a normal woman for love.

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Let's talk about personality and three views first.

In the novel and drama Ode to Joy, Andy is high flyers, who graduated from Columbia University Business School. Before returning to China, he was an executive of Wall Street Investment Company.

With such an excellent resume, Andy is decisive in the workplace and independent and self-disciplined in life, but emotionally he is like a blank sheet of paper.

As an orphan, Andy was used to being alone since she was a child, so when she became an adult, the only person closest to her was her old friend Tan.

It is precisely because of this simple social relationship and clean emotional experience that she is protected from the harm and entanglement of those dirty "intimate relationships" in the world.

Before meeting Simei and Bao Yifan, Andy may be cold and inaccessible, but that doesn't mean she is cold-blooded.

On the contrary, she is frank and sincere, and it is precisely because of Andy's simplicity and purity that she has a childlike optimism about the goodness of human nature.

The singularity is different. He has rich experience, experienced ups and downs in shopping malls, betrayed a friend who started a business together, and was abandoned by his relatives. Those failed entrepreneurial experiences and emotional pain determine his introverted and deep personality characteristics and alert behavior.

Contrary to Andy, he doesn't trust human nature. This distrust led him to weigh the pros and cons and analyze human nature all the time.

From the initial meeting with Andy, deliberately taking the subway to the appointment and hiding his fortune, to observing Andy's car and investigating Andy's life experience, we are weighing the pros and cons.

For a sophisticated man like Singularity, it is normal to find out the details of each other before entering a relationship.

The analysis of four other beautiful women in Ode to Joy community and various friends who judge Andy reveals his unkindness to human nature.

Perhaps in the workplace, Andy, like Singularity, is mature, decisive, rational and objective. But in personality and three views, the two are quite different.

Andy and Singularity are essentially different people.

Bao Yifan, on the other hand, is the opposite of the deep and sophisticated singularity.

As the rich second generation of family business, Bao Yifan may not have experienced singularity-like nothingness, but he has seen many intrigues in shopping malls.

Emotionally, although he has always been a hot bachelor, he has also experienced the stabbing of his parents after his father cheated.

To tell the truth, Aunt Bao has seen men with ugly human nature and ferocious love.

But even Bao Yifan, who has such experience, still believes in sunshine, is free and easy, treats people clearly and sincerely, and never guesses others with the greatest malice.

The most rare thing for people is to know the world, so it is not secular. Bao Yifan may be grandiose and fancy, but he is by no means glib and illusory.

So in the face of love, Bao Yifan doesn't have so much care and calculation.

Knowing that Andy is an orphan, he has no discrimination or sympathy, and frankly says that she is "a child left on earth by aliens." When Andy's friend was in trouble, he helped her solve the problem without judgment and analysis, and praised her kindness.

No matter to Andy, to Andy's friends, to the old people and children he sponsored in Wuyuan, or to Andy's psychotic brother Xiaoming, he never despises or despises others, and always treats others equally and generously.

Andy's privacy and wealth, he never snoops and watches. For Andy's friends and relatives, he never cares or hates them.

After getting to know Bao Yifan better, you will find that under his grandiose appearance, there is actually a sincere and kind heart like Andy.

I think it was this clarity, sincerity and positive optimism that touched Andy, so Andy said that sentence to Bao Yifan in Wuyuan, which was mindless but reasonable. Actually, "I kind of like you."

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In addition to his personality and three views, Bao Yifan has done better than Qi Dian in loving Andy.

To love someone, you need to know and understand the person you love.

Everybody's talking about Singularity. They know Andy well. Some chicken soup authors even regard singularity as a hobby similar to Andy's, and they can speak out loudly about Bao Yifan's "superficiality" and "vulgarity".

Everyone seems to have overlooked the details mentioned in a novel that didn't perform in the play: In Phuket, Bao Yifan pretended to sing an episode from Phantom of the Opera-"All I Ask of You" in order to make Andy happy. At that time, the steamed stuffed bun also replaced the heroine Christine with Andy to express her feelings.

Judging from Bao Yifan's elite education and life experience abroad, can he not understand Shakespeare's allusions and the wisdom and elegance of elite culture?

So, does Singularity really know Andy as well as everyone says? I don't think so.

To know a person is not only to know her personality, her preferences, but more importantly, to know her and what she needs and doesn't need.

Unfortunately, from beginning to end, Singularity didn't understand what Andy really needed. So after learning that Andy is an orphan, he crossed the line in various ways, interfered with Andy's privacy and uncovered her scar.

He clearly knows that Origin and Fate is Andy's greatest hidden pain, but he still tries his best to investigate Andy's life experience and smugly arranges a drama in which father and daughter will make Andy fall into the fear of going crazy at any time.

To tell the truth, he doesn't even know and understand Andy as well as Tan.

Bao Yifan never reluctantly accepted Andy's love and pursuit, even though he was stubborn. And his "stalking and beating", which has been criticized by people, is purely for the sake of hoping that his sweetheart will accompany and resolve happily.

Andy wanted to talk, so he acted as an emotional trash can. Andy was lovelorn and depressed, so he took her out to play. Andy needs to vent, so he acts as a human sandbag, fights with her and releases negative energy.

Moreover, even if he chased Andy so closely, he never crossed the line and always respected Andy and Andy's privacy.

After learning that Andy was an orphan and realized that he had no intention of touching Andy's inner pain, he was very angry and corrected his behavior in time.

But after knowing the relationship between Wei Guoqiang and Andy, he completely stood in Andy's position and never took the initiative to contact or interfere.

Of course, when Andy is misunderstood as a mistress because of Wei Guoqiang, he will stand up like a man and hold Andy's hand, giving her the protection and security she needs.

Bao Yifan has never been afraid of Andy's emotional disorder. In the face of Andy's retreat, Bao Yifan has been brave enough to insist that he is a lover with strong love ability.

Because of his history of mental illness, it is quite difficult for Andy to really accept a relationship. But Bao Yifan always gives her warmth and strength like the sun.

Although he was shocked by the truth told by Andy, his first reaction was to feel distressed, so he instinctively hugged Andy and wouldn't let her escape.

Bao Yifan is not without pressure and anxiety after retaining Andy, but his pure and rich love for Andy, and his firmness and confidence in this love, so that he is no longer afraid of the danger ahead, and resolutely loves Andy according to his own instinct and inner direction to undertake her life.

Facing Andy, Bao Yifan will not only say "I bet we will be together for life", but also insist and work hard for them to be together.

How can Andy not love such a Bao Yifan, and how can he have reason and strength to push him away?

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The consistent three views brought Bao Yifan and Andy together.

And those suitable ways of falling in love, and the kind of love that he tried his best not to ask why, made Andy really accept Bao Yifan from body to soul.

Two days ago, I saw a sentence describing their love, saying: Good love must not make you stare at the abyss, but take you through the fog.

This is what a woman should look like when she meets the right person.

Perhaps, in the follow-up plot of Ode to Joy 2, there will be quarrels, running-in and pain points between Andy and Bao Yifan.

But I believe that a sincere and clear Bao Yifan will definitely make Andy feel his sincerity to her and let her see his responsibility.

Because, Bao Yifan's love for Andy is not only a passionate love like a tsunami, but also a rock-like persistence.

Now, the person who brings Andy the truest and purest happiness is Bao Yifan.

We have no doubt that, in the end, it is Andy who can live together through thick and thin.