"Life without Venus, you get Venus' disease": How did Ke Yimin destroy himself?

There is a highly appraised question in Zhihu: Who are the singers who sing well but have poor personality in the music circle?

Among them, female singer Ke Yimin topped the list.

Many people mocked her, but she got Venus disease without Venus' life. This is also a curse. Venus' poisonous tongue is admirable, but Ke Yimin's poisonous tongue has caused great controversy.

In the super girl audition on 20 16, one contestant had a bad voice because of a cold. At this time, Ke Yimin, who was sitting on the judge's bench, rudely scolded her: "Then stop singing and get out!"

After this scene was broadcast, Ke Yimin was condemned by netizens for insulting the contestants. In the end, the program group was forced to cancel her qualification as a judge. At that time, Ke Yimin was banned by the whole network.

So, how did this Malaysian singer, who was born with a good voice and was once a smash hit, smash his good hand?

1972, Ke Yimin was born in a wealthy Malaysian family. Although her parents divorced at the age of nine, they protected her well and gave her the best life and education.

1 1 years old, Ke Yimin was sent to study in Britain. She is very accomplished in music and graduated from the Royal Conservatory of Music. This is a famous college that specializes in training excellent performers, conductors and composers.

During her school years, she not only won Grade 8 of the Royal Piano, but also was promoted to the highest level of vocal music, high flyers.

Ke Yimin has been particularly interested in pop music since he was a child. After returning from school at the age of 2/kloc-0, she participated in the "Voice of Asia" singing competition and won the runner-up in one fell swoop. Later, she signed a contract with Sony Records Company of Taiwan Province Province and really became a singer.

With amazing voice, wide range and well-trained background, Ke Yimin's first solo single "Stupidity" was a great success.

She not only won the Best Newcomer Award and the Best Singing Award in Malaysia, but also became the most beautiful mezzo-soprano in Chinese music.

Ke Yimin is lucky, she reached the peak as soon as she made her debut. When she was most popular, she and CoCo Lee dominated the music scene at that time. As long as she picks up the receiver, it is hundreds of thousands of Taiwan dollars.

At that time, she was the cash cow of the company, and no one could match her.

However, Ke Yimin was a sharp-edged and eloquent girl since she was a child. She is careless and hot-tempered, and she can't help but hesitate when she sees anything that is not pleasing to the eye.

Guo Xing, a famous producer, is a good friend of Ke Yimin. Once, he found a writer's girlfriend, who was very good at "writing".

At a party, Ke Yimin saw his friend Guo Xing serving girls all the time, opening doors, pulling chairs, holding cups and so on.

Finally, she couldn't stand it anymore and said directly to the girl, "Stop pretending, what's there to pretend?"

As a result, it is conceivable that my friend's girlfriend was scolded by Ke Yimin and ran away.

Another time, when Ke Yimin was picking up his luggage at the airport, a very tall man was talking on the phone and pushing a box to block the exit.

At first, Ke Yimin said to him politely, "I'm sorry, sir, but your luggage is holding us up. Would you please move it? "

Unexpectedly, the man made a phone call himself like he didn't hear it. This annoyed Ke Yimin. She got angry, kicked his suitcase open and shouted, "Fuck off, you're in the way!" "

At this time, her assistant ran over to her in a panic and said, "Sister Yimin, you are a public figure. Is this not good? "

Ke Yimin directly scolded her: "In this case, if you don't let me scold him, then I will resign you."

Ke Yimin, whose temperament is straightforward, has always been such a "chivalrous woman" demeanor, with no cover, and her eyes can't melt into the sand. Those who know her say she is true, and those who don't know her will gnash their teeth.

At that time, Ke Yimin went to the company for a meeting and found that his parking space in the parking lot was occupied. After getting off the bus, she directly denounced: "Which pig occupied my parking space? Want to die? "

Later, the general manager of the company came over and explained to her, "Yimin, this is the car of the new vice president of our company."

When hearing that the new vice president used to be the agent of Biddy Sheeran and Shu Qi, Ke Yimin directly scorned: "Are those two female stars blind? How can you find such an ugly person as an agent? "

However, Ke Yimin never dreamed that this ugly man would become her husband in the future.

1999, Ke Yimin, whose career was in full swing, suddenly announced her marriage, soon became pregnant and gave birth, and disappeared directly from the entertainment circle.

Just when everyone blessed her, her married life was not happy.

After the marriage, Huang's husband naturally became her agent. However, due to Ke Yimin's strong personality, they often disagree in their work, which makes them blush.

In her husband's eyes, Ke Yimin is a super unsociable and particularly annoying female artist.

This disharmonious relationship extends from work to marriage. At the worst time, the husband and wife stayed at home for several months without saying a word, becoming strangers.

Besides quarreling with her husband, Ke Yimin has a bad relationship with her mother-in-law.

She once cried on the show:

"When my daughter was taken out of the delivery room, my mother-in-law turned and left, and my husband ignored me. After giving birth to a child, whenever she comes home from work, her mother-in-law will only torture her soul,' Did you earn the money back? How much did you earn? "When are you leaving?" "

Mother-in-law is a woman who is very patriarchal. Before and after pregnancy, she gave Ke Yimin many prescriptions, hoping that she could have a son to carry on the family line.

Although her mother-in-law is bitter, Ke Yimin is not a fuel-efficient lamp. She often talks to her mother-in-law like this: "Mom, let's not be so polite all the time. I don't know who will lie in the coffin first. "

When I heard this, I finally knew why Ke Yimin's mother-in-law was so strict with her! Old people want to hear good things, but Ke Yimin said such a curse, which is unacceptable to anyone.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been bad, but Ke Yimin's position in the family has become so embarrassing, which is largely caused by her personality.

When she was the most popular, her sharp personality was tolerated by many people.

However, once back in marriage, when everything is dull, the other party may not be able to tolerate it, and blindly tolerating it will lead to a desperate situation and a crisis in marriage.

Three years later, Ke Yimin decided to come back. However, it's all over. Her fame is gone, and no one wants to cooperate with her.

She said, "The musician who used to know me is now a stranger. Some people even say, why are you so fat now? " Might as well go back to teaching at the university ... "

There used to be hundreds of thousands of Taiwan dollars just picking up the receiver, but now no program is willing to accept her.

One Christmas, she called her agent and asked, "Why don't you arrange a performance for me?"

Unexpectedly, the answer is: "because no one wants you!" "

Later, Ke Yimin learned that her agent had called more than 200 times in a row, but no one was willing to accept her after all.

At the lowest point, she often sits alone in front of the TV and keeps crying.

Ke Yimin had to face the reality and began to put down his attitude and accept all kinds of boring variety shows. Until she became a super girl judge, she could have taken this opportunity to become popular, but she was defeated by her "mouth".

In a competition, a girl went on stage to sing English songs. Unexpectedly, after singing, Ke Yimin stopped him: "Are you awesome? Put down your body! "

As soon as this was said, the girl on the stage suddenly explained at a loss: "I'm a little nervous ..."

Ke Yimin mercilessly scolded 1: "How can you be nervous? Stop pretending, girl! I saw a player ten times stronger than you in Guangzhou, and I said,' You fart'. "

Hearing this, the girl opened her mouth to explain something more, but was threatened by Ke Yimin: "Do you want to say more? You say that again, I will tear up this card ... "

In addition, Ke Yimin also told the contestants to "stop singing and get out!" "To lose weight, no one wants to see sows singing on the stage!" Wait a minute.

For a time, these vicious words and personal attacks attracted a condemnation from netizens. Many people accuse her of disrespect, illiteracy and self-expansion.

The most exaggerated thing is that many netizens angrily ran to her Weibo and scolded her to pieces, even boycotting the program group to kick her out of the jury.

Under pressure, the TV station canceled her contract, and many people "talked about Ke's color change". After all, Ke Yimin was banned by the whole network.

Ke Yimin may never have thought that his "red" again was scolded by netizens!

Although later, Ke Yimin appeared to apologize, tearfully reviewing that his self-cultivation was not enough and needed improvement. However, netizens don't seem to pay the bill. As long as there are occasions where she appears, all kinds of abuse and slander are inevitable.

I have to admit that Ke Yimin made great achievements in music in his early days. In the 1990s, there were not many singers with piano background, but Ke Yimin was a top performer.

Coupled with a good voice and a solid foundation of bel canto, Ke Yimin's songs are deeply loved by the audience. She was once called the Malaysian queen of real birth class.

However, at the important stage of his life, Ke Yimin caused controversy again and again because of his impulsiveness and sharp and straightforward words. The smooth road to performing arts was finally miserable by myself.

Li Jing, the host, once commented on Ke Yimin: "This is a sharp-tongued woman. She often slaps you in the face, and it takes a lot of patience to be with her. "

Perhaps, in Ke Yimin's view, it is her own performance that she is outspoken and dares to compare herself. However, she forgot that "everything has a limit", and once it is exceeded, it will be counterproductive.

Because no one wants to be scolded all the time, and no one can always tolerate your "malice".

The famous writer Liu Qing once said: "Although the road of life is very long, there are often only a few steps, especially when people are young."

Ke Yimin used to be very aggressive, and her life suffered a lot because of her poisonous tongue. It's a pity that by the time she regrets it, life is halfway through and the scenery is gone.

In real life, each of us is young and frivolous. Only those who learn lessons in time and grow up in mistakes can laugh at the end.