Do Leo and Cancer Match? 》

Moon and lion, crab and lion, cancer and Leo-that's what you call yourselves. You made a big mistake. This may seem like a trivial matter, but it is like a seed, which will grow into a big seed. It should be lion and moon, lion and crab, lion and cancer. A little respect has a long-term influence in this relationship.

As mentioned above, when any two people born with fire and water coexist in the company, school or home, there will be some possible dangers, so when we talk about Cancer and Leo, it is necessary to be alert again in case they forget this warning in other chapters of this book.

If only they had the desire to learn from each other and be patient with each other. Without this desire, Leo in fire sign and Cancer in water sign have the power to destroy each other-even they can use this weapon without realizing it. By the time they realized it, it was too late, and one or both of them had been hurt.

For some reasons only known to the planets, this 2- 12 relationship between cancer and Leo is not like its influence on other models-it will not make Leo tolerant of cancer, and cancer is usually not as eager to learn what they teach as Leo. However, whether they want to learn or not, Cancer people know in their hearts (even if they never admit it) that they can really learn something from Leo, and the longer Cancer delays this inevitability, the harder it will be for them to master this knowledge.

I can imagine that Leo people will nod their heads in agreement, while all Cancer people will frown or laugh angrily. You have a lot of knowledge to learn from Leo people. If you have unconsciously tried to teach them or surpass their power, then you are obstructing your own destiny and the destiny of Leo. This is not a reliable and wise thing. You know, you have always been proud of your safety and wisdom.

Now Leo people must stop laughing, because astrology also warns them. Have you ever treated your friends, relatives or partners with less tolerance and understanding than yourself? Have you ever expressed displeasure instead of sympathy? Or have you ever asked people in Cancer to teach you anything? Let Cancer teach you to be careful. You have subconsciously understood that the soul needs a little rain (the mood of cancer people). Now you should teach them to feel the value of sunshine in their hearts. Do you allow them to crush your pride with pessimistic or euphemistic objections? Have you experienced all this? You should be ashamed of yourself. Where is your roar? When you hold your first breath, your behavior should be restored to its original state. You don't have to jump into the water, and you don't have to completely dry the water of your cancer friend, relative or lover with your flame. When you need peace, when you want to drink chicken soup, cancer is always around you. No one else can tell you such a bizarre dream and such an interesting story like cancer, but you must not let cancer suppress your passion. Keep your true colors, and so should people in Cancer. Keep your personality, and you will be happier. "Show your truest side" is the wisest principle of astrology.

Sadly, some people in Cancer and Leo have switched roles. Cancer people are very sensitive, but sometimes the constant dripping of cancer people will completely extinguish the flame and confidence of Leo people. This situation started with a shy Leo. This type of Leo is not tolerant of cancer with different views. They will gradually make themselves angry and turn themselves from lack of respect and love into a kind of burnout. At this time, Leo's passion will be completely submerged.

Maybe it's the cancer. On the constellation diagram, it is a sad thing that a "crab" with only the sun and Mars can make use of the patience and perseverance possessed by cancer people, so that the flame image like Leo is finally suppressed into a state of mental exhaustion. A cancer man who has been besieged by sensitivity for a long time but has an unusually strong will can even destroy the arrogant nature of Leo. Usually, neither of them is aware that this is happening. This is not caused by the hostility of one side, but the lack of long-term vigilance when the fire and water blend. Nothing is more sad than the lion being deprived of pride and dignity, unless the cancer people are forced to change the normal state of tenderness and sensitivity and become extremely aggressive.

This situation may also develop in another direction. The "lion" may burn the deep and rich feelings of the cancer. Cancer opposes the arrogant lion, and will feel extremely painful in silence, sometimes very introverted (in severe cases, it will be in a state of near ecstasy), sometimes it will become manic and almost always run away in the last trembling (Cancer is an escape expert). If the sun and the moon are in opposite positions in the constellation, then Cancer and Leo can hurt each other deeply, even unintentionally. However, they can be a creative, imaginative and protective couple. Leo can protect the sensitive emotions of cancer people, and cancer people will also make a kind return to Leo people. In any case, the influence of the sun and the moon on them, Leo and Cancer can be good parents despite some personal contradictions.

They must remember that the most typical cancer is born a leader, but they are taciturn and cautious. Leo people should allow this fact to exist. Since Leo is a natural organizer, Cancer should let Leo organize his own life, which will make Leo the "sunshine" he or she originally wanted to be, and also inspire Cancer to be gentle again and again. He can also inspire the wonderful and relaxed humor of cancer people. When all these are combined, there will be harmonious compatibility. Cancer calms Leo with love and laughter, and Leo can understand and forgive Cancer's changeable emotions. His generous heart brought sunshine after the rain.

Sometimes, these two people are doomed to conflict over money. Cancer people will secretly think that Leo is a bit extravagant in spending money, while Leo will openly think that Cancer people don't need to be frugal. Nobleness is the highest quality in their nature. When they are forced to live in an old house, they are either very depressed or very angry. We have noticed that there are few cautious Leo people, and these people will get along with cancer people in a noble way. But the vast majority of Leo people, whether men or women, children or adults, can't help but spend money on all kinds of things to entertain themselves or others, because they are generous. They have the right to spend the money they earn with their talents and organized minds. Trouble begins when Leo people start spending money earned by Cancer people on business or marriage.

A typical cancer person will cling to everything: old photos, used things, old tennis balls and old shorts, past memories, previous dreams, old TV sets … but cancer people are not picky about money. Whether it's new money or old money, Cancer people think it's worth keeping. These people are very kind and generous to their families and children, but they don't like spending money or gambling. Cancer people sometimes restore their original extravagance in restaurants, and their unexpected generosity can shock everyone except the waiter. If Leo is a friend who goes to dinner together, he may secretly give the waiter an extra $5. It's best to do it in secret, because it will make cancer people lose face in public, which is very unwise.

Between Leo and Cancer, it is strange that both of them like photography. Of course, not everyone in Leo and Cancer has a camera, but about 90% of them have a camera. Cancer people like sad movies, and every plot can be remembered clearly and vividly.

When there is a conflict between cancer and Leo, Leo may be angered and want to achieve greater results to prove his control over cautious cancer. When they are harmonious and compatible, Cancer can guide the Leo people to successfully complete their grand plans with their correct instincts and persistent goal spirit, or let the Leo woman finally realize her glorious dreams. In either case, Leo will write a thank-you letter to Cancer: "Dear crab, you made me what I am today, and I like you anyway."

Cancer (female)-Leo (male)

There are three logical possibilities for cancer women to fall in love with Leo.

A few years later, he turned her into a subordinate who obeyed Nuo Nuo, which made her more sentimental than when they first had the chance. A few years later, she crushed his confidence with her gentleness instead of constant nagging, which made him fall into a sad silence. After a few years, they adapt to each other and compromise with each other, and then they can live happily together all the time.

Turning the third possibility into reality, instead of making cream cakes, selfish people can't finish it. Inflammation in mixed water needs to be careful and sensitive. He had to put up with her complicated emotions, and he tried to find out the root of her complicated emotions. She must be able to tolerate his self-centered attitude, and she must be able to restrain herself from falling into self-pity when he is thoughtless and doesn't care about her feelings. He must realize that when she has a child, her possessiveness disappears in half, and when he can take the time to comfort her and enhance her sense of security, her possessiveness disappears in the other half. She must realize that most of his ego comes from his inner doubt about his ability (strangely, this arrogance will increase when he has a successful career). Also, if she wants to suppress his pride, it will be fruitless; If she sincerely praises his merits and allows him to act first, then he will act. But at the same time, she must carefully safeguard her dignity and personality.

If you think this sounds like the road to the holy land, then your idea is completely correct, and it is. For Leo and Cancer, their dreams are completely different, so it is necessary to cultivate mutual spiritual trust with calmness, love and patience. Don't be discouraged, as long as both sides work together to build a solid foundation of happiness, then we can design a blueprint for this good relationship.

Leo likes to win in all competitions, while Cancer likes to win in wars.

Cancer women are greatly influenced by the combination of their negative constellations and the equally negative dominant moon. So she has the incarnation of a mysterious goddess, with many complicated feelings and unexplained behaviors. Leo men are greatly influenced by the combination of his masculine constellation and the sun, and the sun is also a masculine ruler. Therefore, he is the embodiment of the god of victory, with all the wisdom, strength and pride of Adam. Now you should understand why she was able to seduce him in the first place, and why he was so easily attracted by homemade apple pie. However, she relies on others, which makes her love to be in charge. He is fixed, which makes him a stubborn Adam. If she didn't compete with his strong personality, but released all her tenderness, there would be no emotional conflict between them. Let the cancer woman absorb the hot sunshine of Leo and then reflect the gentle moonlight.

As long as these two people do not go beyond the scope of their roles and fall into the trap of overemphasizing themselves, then imitating the mother's nature will not make human nature lose. However, many Cancer-Leo couples are in danger of knowing nothing about it. Living with a sadist can't be normal. But there are some rare examples. Cancer woman and Leo man should communicate skillfully, ease the differences in personality, and avoid his excessive arrogance or her excessive meekness.

The mutual attraction that cancer women and Leo boys felt when they first fell in love gradually disappeared like a chemical reaction. Their physiological magnetic field is very strong, but their nature needs to be carefully mixed. If he just inadvertently expresses his behavior during sex, and she is too sensitive and passive, then her feelings will be cast a shadow. When they are physically close, everything is fine, because she is easy to accept new suggestions, and he is also very warm and considerate, because her gentle attitude towards sex caters to him, so there is a deep emotional exchange between them. But when she is sad, her emotions will hurt her-she may misunderstand that it is indifference.

Tears are a common part of getting along, but tears can also heal wounds. Tears will turn into laughter when he drives away her nightmare with the intimacy and harmony of his family. When he hugs her, what she did after she fell asleep must be a beautiful dream, because it means that she has a sense of security, a sense of security to get rid of childhood loneliness in her memory. Only then did he realize how much she needed him. He was crying … but she didn't wake up, so she didn't know he was crying, and he never told her. She has many secrets, but he has only one-his fragility.

On a summer night, the "lion" who was fascinated by the cancer girl was always surprised when he got to know her better. She looked so helpless, so seeking his protection, as timid as a rabbit, and needed guidance. He felt his heart beating gently. Later, he realized that she was not only a woman-but also full of femininity. Women are attractive, but femininity is more attractive. She is so smart that she can guess his thoughts and feelings without him saying a word. After a long time, he will find something vague and difficult to say clearly, which makes him uneasy, because just when he thinks he is in control of the other person's life, she avoids him and makes him feel that he is not her master at all, not in all cases. She never rebelled against him, but he suspected that there was a secret corner in her heart. When they quarreled, when he hurt her, she fled to that place.

He is willing to follow her to that corner to apologize to her, but he doesn't know how to get there, so he has to wait for her to walk out of that mysterious place. He is always happy when she returns to her original state. When she cooks for him, he becomes active, and when she kisses him, her fragrant hair excites him. It's time to suggest a trip together. His strong desire to travel has revived. She said, "Let's travel together." So he made a travel plan with confidence. They set off the next morning.

Traveling together is like a breeze blowing the love between men and women. At that time, she can have him and love him alone, and he can guide her with all kinds of new knowledge. Wherever they travel, he will become an expert in the language and customs of that place. She listened, fascinated. Whenever this happens, she finds herself remembering the time when she fell in love with him, because she can always snuggle up to him quietly and listen to all kinds of words he says. He knows so much that everything around him becomes interesting and exciting. He is so confident and believes in himself-all this is exactly what she expected. But his self-confidence sometimes made her uneasy. For a long time, she didn't understand what made her uneasy. Then one day she finally understood: "If he is so confident, knows so much, and always believes that he is right … why does he need my constant approval?"

Suddenly, she understood: "He just pretended to be brave, powerful and smart, and he didn't admit it until he knew I understood." Knowing this brought her intense pain of love. So she cried, just like when she learned the deepest secret of a woman from the three great wisdom of Eden.

Cancer (male)-Leo (female)

The woman in Leo is a muse. Cancer man is very ... strange. He is a gentle and sensitive man, and treats her more considerate than anyone else. He is not bossy. When they disagreed, he allowed her to stand her ground. Of course, because of his rich feelings, he is very worried about her and cares about her feelings. He lovingly and carefully protected her from some rude and stupid people. Indeed, except when she was a baby, she still felt uneasy when she was with others. She couldn't say why, but she felt a low voice warning her, which made her a little uneasy. What is this warning?

This is his essential influence. Cancer is the basic symbol of leadership. Astrologers keep reminding Leo people of this until they get bored. In other words, under his polite appearance, behind his smiling humor, he controls everything in a clever way, including her life. He never yelled at her or flew into a rage, and he never made any unreasonable demands. She can handle it. A Leo girl can be motivated by an open and direct challenge and want to obey his leadership. No matter how big or small the kingdom they govern, they all rule together. She attended all her favorite dances, set about preparing for the celebrations he expected, and dressed herself like a queen. When she is depressed, she will add one or two gems and a ruby to her headdress, so that her mood will be relaxed. She can even give orders to the milkman, postman and cleaner in the castle, or decide whether the pattern composed of her initials and his name should be embroidered on linen towels or engraved on silverware. She may walk in front of the procession, smiling and cheering, while he takes the real responsibility behind the scenes. Although 98% of her whimsy can be forgiven by him, when her impulse directly conflicts with his caution, he will exercise his veto power by 2%.

Is it the same with him? That's true. She wants her man to be the embodiment of kindness, sympathy, gentleness and sensitivity. He does have these advantages, and every cancer man has these advantages. But what bothers me is that they have a sense of leadership. Dear girl, if you want to have a man who has all the characteristics of water but lacks the sense of leadership, then you can only find a man from Pisces or Scorpio. Pisces man won't control you, or even restrain you in clever ways, but he is not as reliable as your cancer husband. Although he is smart and sensitive, he always takes an evasive attitude emotionally. Scorpio will not try to lead you for life. Scorpio is a constellation of fixed water. He tries to do many things for you, but if you happen to annoy him, he will "sting" you and stay in his shell for hours or days without getting angry, but he will never "sting" you when you least expect to be stung.

Think about this. Living with your cancer husband, you will have all the good characters of water. He will never sting you, and he is more reliable than his brothers ruled by Poseidon (Pisces and Scorpio). All his actions are dominated by the moon, so he can gently reflect your sunshine back, and you can definitely feel the value of your sunshine being reflected. You were born under the unchangeable symbol of the organizer. Why not let him play a leading role and let you organize his leadership plan? He won't block your light, just reflect it. You are the sun, he is the moon, you are in charge of the day and he is in charge of the night.

Your sex life is very interesting. It has something to do with the sun (Leo) ruling the day and the moon (Cancer) ruling the night. In other words, Leo women like to be guided by Cancer at night. This may be the general situation. But it can also be said that because the sun rules the day, she may make him realize that they are close when they are together during the day. The influence of Sun Moon Group is caused by their relationship, which makes them feel the joy of breaking the tradition and changing the old system in any field of life. Why can we make out only at night?

Ideas like this can make people think more about social ethics. Before meeting her, he just dreamed of traveling around. After meeting her and being together, he tied his wings to his heart and heel, and they flew to a new world together. How wonderful it is for him and her!

When I talk about breaking the tradition, I don't mean those new ways of sex, such as multiple sexual partners and promiscuity. All these will cause regret and emptiness-physically and mentally. What I mean here is to keep the sex life between men and women fresh. Sexual desire can be accompanied by special feelings and memories of beautiful things. For example: snowflakes in the morning, twinkling stars, deep Woods, streams flowing in valleys, bridges on country roads, lilies blooming in mountain streams, burning bonfires ... even the ink smell of newspapers sent from the front porch after summer showers ... or the green smoke curling up in the mountains.

That kind of sex life is normal and harmonious. It is not easy for Cancer Man and his Leo wife to achieve harmony in their sexual life, because his sexual feelings are poetic, calm and profound, while hers are fiery, but sometimes her feelings are as quiet and sunny as the sky in August. His depth and her fierceness can form a wonderful and harmonious moment between them, but we must also be alert to the dangers that may be caused by the mixing of fire and water. When her dignity is hurt, she will become cold. And when he is rejected, he can neither be angry nor impatient or negative. Cancer is good at imagining the harm that has not been done yet, and is better at maintaining its own wrong dignity. Tenderness and consideration will always be the turning point of the intimate relationship between Cancer and Leo. When tenderness and consideration are lost, their harmonious sex life will cease to exist.

His mood changes with the change of the moon, which sometimes makes her uneasy and angry. But she is broad-minded. When she loves him, she will soon forgive his changeable emotions, and she is not a person who loves to hold grudges. Unless she or her ancestors also belong to Cancer-in this case, when they are regarded as lovers, they can tolerate each other, or both of them have the problem of holding grudges. They generally don't fight, but they may fight with people outside their love circle-this is not good for their relatives and friends. Even so, his mother has never suffered resentment or even impolite treatment. His mother should be a virtuous person. His wife will remember this. Leo people generally don't remember past injuries. Unfortunately, cancer patients always cling to them, whether they happened a few hours ago or not. If a cancer man can learn from the generosity of Leo women, he will be much happier, and this spirit is one of the knowledge that a cancer man should learn from Leo.

When these two people get married-they are likely to get married, because cancer people like long-lasting relationships, while Leo girls just want to be the wife of the queen, not mistresses or abandoned girlfriends-cancer people should know his charming partner: she must control something, or she will try to control someone, that is him. Cancer people who really love their wives should always be so honest. He will encourage her to do a job that suits her talents (Leo women are born with one or several impressive talents), or let her become a housewife, otherwise, she will not be happy, and he can only be a sad man under the rule of the moonlight clan. Then he may drown his sorrows in wine and avoid all this.

It should be easy for her to give up her wrong dignity and climb out of the hard shell I protected. Both crabs and lionesses feel bound in the water, and their hearts communicate with each other ... or in each other's arms. The mixing of water and fire violates the law of elements ... in a group that only recognizes itself and does not recognize any other laws.