Why don't young people nowadays want to fall in love?

Nowadays, young people accept many new things. In today's highly developed material life, the cost of falling in love is not what it used to be, and bread is a must. Why not fall in love? These six reasons are inseparable.

0 1. I may never meet that person again.

I don't want to ask a person's name, age, constellation and hobbies, because I may never meet such a person again, and it is already difficult to like myself. It is really beyond my power to like others again. Can't give me love and want to share my bread. Time only wants to make money, and only after surviving can we consider emotional problems.

02. It is better to invest in others than to invest in yourself.

Investing in others is better than investing in yourself, don't you think? After all, falling in love is a matter for two people. One side is unwilling, or one side can't get along, so it's better to be alone. In today's society, with so much pressure, it may be better to meet true love, but it is the most important thing to meet that fruitless, happy and free.

There are many important things to do.

I realized that in this world, besides love, there are many important things to do, such as commitment to family, commitment to myself and the needs of life. Sometimes, when I can't even solve the basic material problems, love is even more difficult. Referring to Maslow's demand theory, this is also the reason why many young boys break up with their girlfriends. When they are under great pressure and adults are tired, their girlfriends are still clamoring to ask, why don't you answer my phone? Don't you love me? Naturally I can't stand it.

04. There is no feeling of love. Tell me about it.

Many young people don't want to fall in love now. They think it's good to be alone. Some people are too demanding to find a suitable partner. Some people are too poor to find a partner. Love does not mean talking about it. Feelings depend on fate. When love doesn't come, it's no use worrying again. When love comes, it cannot be stopped.

05. Love is too restrictive.

Because love is annoying. A person is very free, two people chat every day, but also consider each other's feelings, prefer a person's solitude and chic. If the stress and troubles that follow are doubled, you will spend too much time, money and energy to maintain your love. Some people will certainly choose not to fall in love after weighing the pros and cons, so as not to add trouble to themselves.

06. Reality doesn't allow it

Being abused by work every day is black and blue, let alone caring about a person; Being chased by life every day, I open my eyes to see the rent, living expenses and transportation expenses, and my mind is full of Qian Qian's money, so I can't think about love at all. The cost is too high. Nowadays, people need a house and a car to get married. Many people don't want to get married and have no motivation to fall in love.