Why is it difficult for some girls to become close friends with other girls?

It may be related to natural personality, family education and personal experience. I am a girl who is difficult to mix with other girls. Although I sometimes envy those girls who have many small partners, I know that this lifestyle is not suitable for me because of my personality.

I don't like Korean dramas, constellations, singing K, Taobao, cosmetics, selfie artifacts and parties. I don't like to study who is a bitch and which clothes look thin. I don't like to hug each other's feet, I don't like to borrow notes, I don't like to go to the toilet together, I don't like to complain that too many people are tanned by the sun, I don't like to watch your dog or cat, and I don't like to hear whether your man is good or bad to you.

I don't like to shout dear, I don't like intrigue, I don't like to buy your purchasing and high imitation. I can't find a single girls who has the same hobby as me. I don't like talking about weight every day. "Oh, I lost a few hundred grams today. Oh, my period is coming. I want to lose weight ... Oh ... "

I don't like working with people, and I don't like wasting time with others. Even when shopping, I don't need to ask others for advice. I have to trust my eyes. I don't like taking pictures. No matter how wonderful and frustrated my life is, I don't need the audience to prove it.

But I also like gossip. I will sit with my best friend and have a look with emotion. It's just between two people. It's hard for me to cope with the three people sitting here. This topic doesn't interest her, and she can't touch that topic. Ok, I admit that my social skills are not strong Sometimes it is also a kind of relaxation for two people to chat casually together. Dealing with a large group of people will make me very tired.

If life is a game, then communication is also one of the skills and tasks. My hobbies and talents are not focused on "making friends", and my energy is limited, but my daily tasks are used up. Before I go out shopping, I plan my trip, what car to take, what to buy, what to eat and when to come back, which is easy to understand.

If I go out with my friends, my energy will double. In addition to my own plan, I should also chat with my friends, let her accompany me to buy things and listen to her comments. I am afraid that she will wait too long, so I will shorten the purchase time, have dinner together, accompany her to buy things, and my evaluation, time and energy will be doubled.

As for more trivial things, it is most efficient to do them by yourself.