How should the male zodiac handle the relationship between wife and mother?

With the reform and opening up, the status of women has been continuously improved. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also escalating. In a family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem. The husband stood in the middle, in a dilemma and in pain. Although there are some problems between wife and mother, the main problem is the man himself. How to solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Learn the solution with Bian Xiao.

Aries: It is not acceptable to quarrel with your wife in front of your parents or family.

Quarrel should be the most inevitable problem in marriage. Couples quarrel, and sometimes communication may be better. But don't quarrel in front of your parents. Some parents who are afraid of chaos or justifying a fault will only jump out to help you deal with your wife and enlarge the contradiction. Even if parents are not like that, they can't help worrying because they are worried, but some problems can only be solved between husband and wife, and it is difficult for you to talk about them when they are present. So, no matter what happens, don't quarrel with your wife in front of your parents. If your parents are in front of you, just bear it. Tell your wife privately.

Taurus: In all fairness, your parents-in-law are also your wife's parents.

Although now is an open-minded era, it does not mean that everyone can get rid of the old traditional ideas, especially the conservative Taurus. Under the influence of this traditional concept of "married daughter, spilled water", Taurus probably justifiably asks his wife to be filial to her parents, but this "parent" does not include her in-laws. My wife didn't eat a grain of rice from your family before she married you. She was brought up by her own parents. Why not be grateful and filial to them? If you respect your parents, your wife will respect your in-laws.

Gemini: Please don't be a messenger between your wife and mother.

Dear Gemini men, please shut up when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Whatever your mother says about your wife, or your wife complains about your mother's mistakes, you must hide it. Maybe you just want both women to realize their own shortcomings, seriously reflect on themselves and get rid of some habits or ideas that make the other side dissatisfied, but this "two-handed" approach will only widen the gap between the two women. If you want to remind them, you'd better put forward suggestions in your own words politely, and don't be suspected of "your wife/your mother's meaning" again.

Cancer: Get rid of the concept of "carrying on the family line"!

Cancer man prefers to say this sentence in order to show respect and "filial piety" to his parents, especially after his wife is wronged by her mother. Knowing that my mother was wrong, I only dared to say to my wife, "Cheng Feng. If she is wrong, she will be my mother. Bear with it! " Such people are cowards. He couldn't handle this "case" by himself, but let his wife swallow her pride and secretly cry. Filial piety is a matter of course, and loving your wife is a matter of course. Wife, yes, why do you want to let her be wronged rudely? It's not that your parents don't communicate well, but that you are willing to communicate and solve it.

Leo: Don't yell at your wife in front of your parents. Act like a man.

Not everyone in Leo bosses his wife around. On the contrary, many lion men are considerate of their wives in private. But the lion just can't pass the "face" level. Once in front of their parents, they will like to put on a "man" spectrum to show their mastery of their wives and their hegemony. It seems that this is the only way to reassure parents. Have you ever thought about it? This will only make your parents less and less respectful of your wife, because you look down on your wife. Why should they respect her? Don't spoil your parents' unreasonable troubles (and certainly don't spoil your wife) unless you want this family to be peaceful forever!

Virgo: Please take the initiative to help your wife integrate into your family, instead of treating her as an outsider.

If your wife wants to treat your family as family, you should first treat her as "family" and take the initiative to help her integrate into your family. If you meet your parents who find fault with your wife in front of you, and you agree with them, saying that your wife is not good (even if you don't think so in your heart), or even scolding your wife with words like "mind your own business", then you are undoubtedly rejecting your wife and giving your parents a hint that you are not satisfied with your wife. In this way, parents will become more and more dissatisfied with their daughters-in-law, and wives will become more and more prejudiced against their parents. How to reconcile the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Libra: Please don't be a "Phoenix Man" for the sake of so-called face.

Libra men are most likely to get stuck in front of human feelings. When family, friends and fellow villagers find them, their vanity is extremely inflated. They arrogantly want to improve the fate of the whole village, but they are embarrassed to refuse because of their relatives. If you have the ability to help those who really need help, it is understandable, but it is too much to help them at the expense of small families regardless of the actual situation. It's selfish to ignore your wife's feelings and needs! It's too cold at the top, don't be bloated, and don't let those messy things cause your family crisis.

Scorpio: disobeying parents' orders and losing the principle of being a man.

The word "filial piety" may really be a heavy hat. Because there are no clear standards, parents can easily suppress their children. As soon as the face-saving Scorpio hears his parents crying and shouting "unfilial son, I will support you", all the principles will collapse. In order to maintain the reputation of "dutiful son", he obeys his parents, distinguishes right from wrong, and doesn't care about good or bad. If you have a conflict with your wife and mother, you will blame your wife for all the mistakes and her for everything. If you can't maintain family harmony from a just standpoint, then you are personally laying a devastating "mine" for this family.

Sagittarius: It is your own business to honor your parents. Don't put the blame on your wife.

Although there are many shooters, shooters still account for a large proportion of people who have a weak sense of family responsibility. One of them is the deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law I don't usually see how filial you are to your parents, so help them share it. But once you get married, you proudly tell her to be filial to her parents, and even accuse her of being unfilial. This is simply robber logic. It is right to be grateful to your parents for their kindness, but you can't pass on the obligation of filial piety to your wife. Your parents haven't raised her for twenty or thirty years. Think about what you have done for your parents before asking your wife!

Capricorn: Show your respect and care for your wife generously in front of your mother.

Capricorn is actually a passionate person. His love for his wife and dedication to his family are often implemented, and his life is smooth and warm. But once in front of outsiders, even parents, they will be more or less serious and indifferent to their wives, and they dare not love them at all, as if they would not disobey their mothers. Actually, it's completely unnecessary. While showing filial piety to your mother, you should also show your love for your wife in front of your parents. This will not only make your parents pay more attention to your wife, but also make your wife cherish your marriage and be kind to your parents. It will only make your parents look down on your wife because of your attitude.

Aquarius: Let your wife be a good person and the wicked do it themselves.

If you want to get along well with your mother-in-law, you must help your wife establish a good image in front of your parents, but don't act "none of your business" and don't let your wife become a "villain" unintentionally. For example, you should give money to your parents/brothers and sisters generously in front of your wife, or let her give it to her face instead of secretly giving it to yourself. Most women are not stingy enough to let you give money to your parents. They just don't like you cheating on her. Only when you respect your wife and give her enough status in the family will your parents respect her, or at least be afraid of her.

Pisces: When you get married, wean yourself!

If married men can't be weaned, "Science and Technology Weizi Constellation Network" really wants women to throw away these men quickly. A man who only depends on his mother still has a sense of responsibility. How does he support this family? Men, don't take "I want to take care of my parents" as an excuse and don't want to live without my parents alone! If you really can't live separately, at least make some changes. Take on some housework, don't always wait for your mother or wife to wait on you. Your wife didn't marry you to be your unpaid nanny and become your slave.

These are some simple ways for zodiac men. I hope you can do a good job, maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and have a happy family!