What is Song Dandan's first love sign?

If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be impatient, and keep calm in the blue days. Believe it, happy days will come, and my heart will always look forward to the future. -Russian Pushkin

There is such a classic line in the sketch: "My name is Wei Shufen, female, 29 years old, and I am still unmarried". At the age of 28, Song Dandan was full of Shandong flavor, and the image of deja vu was deeply imprinted in my mind. She has won 10 Spring Festival Gala and is recognized as the "sketch queen" in the whole industry. How can such an excellent old artist "lose his old age"?

Puppy love hurts. Both college entrance examinations failed in the famous mountain Song Dandan. 196 1 was born in a scholarly family in Beijing. My father is the secretary of the Federation of Literary and Art Circles and my mother is a middle school teacher. It stands to reason that children will be influenced by their families from an early age. Of course, they don't have to be schoolmasters. Just study moderately. Song Dandan was not influenced by his parents at all, but became the most disappointing one in the family.

After all, in my mother's generation, first-tier and second-tier cities are better. Only by studying hard in small counties can there be a way out. Otherwise, you can only work in the fields of the village from an early age (such as herding cattle, carrying water and cooking). ). 1980, she has been having a hard time studying. As many people expected, the college entrance examination failed directly. Living in a first-tier city, she was persuaded by her parents to repeat her studies.

In middle school, girls mature earlier than boys, which inevitably leads to "love". Although his appearance is not very outstanding, his boyfriend is a school grass. There is nothing wrong with Song Dandan's statement that he is not afraid of learning hard and he is afraid of being unprofessional. No matter how repeated, she still loves in her mind.

For her peace of mind to prepare for the exam, her parents can be said to have made great efforts to get home from work at noon every day just to cook her a meal. Song Dandan knew what her parents expected of her, but she was immersed in her first love. Until the eve of the college entrance examination, she fell out with Sun Shan again this year, and there was no hope of going to college, so she had to find another way out.

Contrary to the Oscar dream, I learned from my girlfriends that the People's Art Theatre was enrolling students. She has never been exposed to drama, but there is nothing at home, so she decided to give it a try. What if it succeeds? Maybe God has blessed her and is suitable for this bowl of rice. Without any professional foundation, she stood out among many candidates and successfully entered the training class of Beijing People's Art Theatre.

Unexpected choices have made her what she is today, but she is lucky after all. I didn't like studying since I was a child, and so did the liberal arts. The results in culture class are average, but they have a talent different from ordinary people in performance. 1984, when others were still looking for jobs everywhere, she starred in "A Wedding" and won some awards, transforming herself into a "porter" of human arts.

Her later plays, despite their achievements, never made her really popular. On the Spring Festival Evening of 1989, due to the lack of program duration, an essay "Lazy Dating" was temporarily added, and no suitable actor could be found. At that time, Song Dandan was recommended because he had this potential and was qualified for the role in this sketch.

At first, she didn't want this sketch, because it ran counter to her dream of winning an Oscar, and the sketch played the image of a rural woman, which didn't suit her. Later, the director told her directly: "Do you know? Many people sharpen their heads and want to find opportunities to go to the Spring Festival Evening. " Finally, I played the first sketch in half time delay.

I've been in too many bad plays. What she didn't expect was that she would be popular all over the country because of this sketch, and then she became a frequent visitor to the Spring Festival Evening sketch. After Wei Shufen became popular, he collaborated with Huang Hong and Zhao Benshan on many classic works while the iron was hot. At that time, she knew that she was getting farther and farther away from her dream. For the sake of serious literature in her heart, she resolutely retired from the stage of the Spring Festival Evening and returned to the stage of drama.

But contrary to expectations, she thinks she can play every role well, but no matter how she plays it, as long as she opens her mouth, she will make them laugh. The sketch can be said to have made her and "ruined" her dream. Fortunately and unfortunately, only she knows. After returning to the screen, due to age restrictions, she can only play some big roles, such as her mother-in-law.

Song Dandan once bluntly said: "I have played too many bad plays." One sentence is mixed with too many emotions. But life is like this, constantly refreshing our cognition and bypassing ourselves in the years. Although it runs counter to her dream, she has achieved something in her career. A woman can't live without love after all, and so can she.

First love is a beautiful and simple yearning. Song Dandan was once an ignorant little girl, full of longing and curiosity about love. Yuan Gang was her first love, high flyers of Peking University Law Department, and also the one who broke her love dream. Naively, she thought that they could enter the marriage hall after five years of love, but the fact was a blow. She learned through others that her boyfriend was going to study abroad, and now she is awake. He has never put himself in his life plan for five years, just a clown.

1986 after breaking up, she was impulsive and married a boy who had known her for three months. At that time, she was only 24 years old, and it was inevitable that the hasty combination would eventually leave in a hurry. For Song Dandan, marriage without love foundation is irresponsible. One year after marriage, the two divorced decisively because of their personality disagreement. The outside world still doesn't know the name of the first husband, which is probably beautiful and short-lived, and I don't want to bring any influence to his life.

Faced with two failed loves, she was really tired and just wanted to concentrate on her career. 1987, Song Dandan got to know Ying Da because of the arsonist. At that time, Ying Da also experienced a failed marriage, and two broken hearts quickly merged together. At that time, Ying Da was just an unknown assistant director, and Song Dandan was already a household name. They got married on July 1989+03 regardless of the outside world.

After the divorce, Song Dandan tried to commit suicide. Shortly after marriage, she gave birth to her son Batu. A family of three is happy. She has been silently supporting Ying Da, because he has a dream of performing from beginning to end. Until 1993, I Love My Family, which Ying Da and Song Dandan participated in, was very successful, which not only brought career success, but also buried indelible pain for their marriage.

After Song Dandan found out that Ying Da and Liang Huan were having an affair, they both separated. As soon as they met, they quarreled constantly, which chilled her heart instantly and demanded a divorce. Ying Da agreed without thinking. She had hoped that their feelings could be reconciled, but once a man changed his mind, ten cows could not be pulled back after all. Sure enough, after the divorce, Ying Da soon formed a new family and had children.

This is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for Song Dandan. She suffers from depression and even has suicidal thoughts several times, but looking at her son in front of her, she bounces back. But this relationship has always been a pain in her heart. She really wants to work hard to get out of this relationship, and even she doesn't want to have any intersection with Ying Da in this life. Although destroyed by three loves, she still hasn't given up her desire for true love.

After all, holding your hand and growing old with your son, fortunately, she met that person who is worthy of relying on. Ken helped her out of that relationship when she was in the most difficult time. 1On August 25th, 997, on her 36th birthday, she had a flash marriage with Zhao Yuji, whom she had only known for 28 days. This relationship didn't disappoint her. Now they have been together for 23 years and are still happy. She once said: "I am especially glad that my three marriages have actually given me a lot of happiness."

I have experienced many hardships in questioning the feeling of "losing my old age", but fortunately, without my predecessor, there would be no happy incumbent. Since the marriage was stable, she has been developing her own career in the circle. In 2020, at the age of 59, she appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Evening for the last time. After bidding farewell to the Spring Festival Gala, Song Dandan and his son Batu participated in the variety show "Ace to Ace", with a "sketch queen" on their seats, which should be wonderful, but it was questioned by many people after the broadcast.

First of all, when Batu participated in the game, he answered several questions correctly with his own intelligence and put his arm on the shoulder of the old player Zhang Tie-Lin. Many viewers accused him of being rude and not knowing how to respect his predecessors. In addition, Song Dandan praised his son in the program. "My son is great, my son is really smart, and my son is too powerful; Mom is different from you today. I forgive all your shortcomings. "

Inevitably, many people wonder, is it the program effect or the real existence? After seeing these controversies, Batu publicly apologized on the social platform at 23:09 on February 22. But as soon as the statement came out, many people thought that Batu had done nothing wrong. Song Dandan played a game on the show, and Hua Chenyu could quickly guess the correct song, which made Song Dandan very unhappy, so he was sprayed by the show for three times.

There is a lot of controversy on the screen, which is basically a verbal confrontation with Teacher Dandan. As if Song Dandan's image was "exposed" in an instant, many people questioned that "his old age was not guaranteed". Variety shows are entertainment in themselves. What's wrong with letting the audience see the real Song Dandan and Batu?

Conclusion As an old artist, Song Dandan has experienced many ups and downs, and every step of his life counts. Whether it's fame or love, there are a lot of sweat and difficulties behind it. After all, no one's life can be smooth sailing, nor can it be perfect. She made a lot of contributions to art, and those memories and laughter are undeniable.

She once said with emotion: "Everyone will experience suffering, so don't be afraid. Stay with whoever is comfortable. I will not retain those who leave me, and I will give up those who don't like it. " What do you think of Mr. Song Dandan?