Capricorn loves cancer women too much. One regret is Capricorn's love for cancer.

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"He has been my partner and old friend for many years, and now I can't accept it."

On February 27th, Stephen Chow's comments were found online.

The "he" in his mouth is uncle.

It was the 16th day of the first month, the full moon in Virgo. It is said that there is a person in this world who will never see the full moons on 15 and 16. Looking back now, the new moon in Aquarius, which started half a month ago, accurately pointed to Pluto and Leo at 22 degrees. This full moon, Pluto is in the fourth quarter of Saturn.

Things have changed.

Just three hours after the full moon, at 5: 00 pm16, the bad news came. Ng Man Tat, who started an era with Xingye and was called the most commendable supporting actor in the industry, died at the age of 70 because of ineffective rescue of liver cancer.

Uncle Da, he's finally gone.

The next day, Master Xing said, "If you need his help or help, he will fully cooperate."

After Uncle Da died, countless people cried. The actors he worked with spontaneously wrote long or short eulogies, which showed us this Ng Man Tat:

Capricorn, dedicated, warm, transparent and open-minded, left many classic film and television works. He is an impeccable partner, a teacher who gives strength and an unforgettable friend. For the ordinary audience, he is a gold medal supporting actor who will leave forever.

His departure is a wave of farewell to an era again and again, which makes us wake up again. The glittering years that Uncle Da lived have drifted away from us. I forget the year when it started. Some people say that the post-90s generation is a lost generation.

In fact, after more than 90 years, each of us is lost in the passage of time. The life said by the elders will eventually pass away. We didn't learn it from stories, but witnessed it with our own eyes.

Uncle Da appeared in front of TV for the last time, or "Ace to Ace" just aired. Talking about the expectation of his cooperation with Stephen Chow again, he said, "I'm not dead yet. He hasn't retired yet. There must be opportunities for cooperation. "

But in the end, we only waited for the sentence: "I can't accept it at the moment." What I hate most in this world is that it is too late.

Ng Man Tat and Stephen Chow, Capricorn and Cancer, a pair of friends for many years, remember each other from intimacy, to being said bad things, and then drifting away. Their stories are full of meeting and parting.

However, in the end, we taught ourselves.

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From altar to quagmire:

Take care of your Capricorn and you will be free.

If you put the hour hand back, it will be different from Stephen Chow's small transparency at first. As early as 1979, Ng Man Tat was famous for the legend of Chu Liuxiang. As soon as I opened the door of the hotel, all the female fans worshipped him. At a roadshow in Taiwan Province Province, rich bosses took turns toasting him.

However, this is a sun Capricorn who doesn't learn much "self-control". Red can make or break a person.

He was praised to the skies. In his memory, he said that he was "lost and inflated". He drinks, picks up girls and plays cards. Even for a whole year, I spent a lot of money in nightclubs and casinos and swiped a lot of credit cards. It's time to make a movie, but he has no intention of working and "fishing", and he can't find anyone for three days.

Capricorn is the protagonist in tarot cards. Under a terrible goat demon, a pair of naked men and women are tied, symbolizing the prisoners of desire, fear and greed. But the chains of men and women on the cards are not tight, in fact, they can break free. The devil's test is whether we can control ourselves.

Learning to manage yourself is Capricorn's talent, and it is also a skill that Capricorn needs to improve deliberately the day after tomorrow. From the astrological point of view, if a person can't "manage himself", such as breaking the boundaries of others and breaking the law, it will often attract outsiders to "force you to manage yourself", such as prisons.

Poor management of Ng Man Tat quickly "attracted" the external control of banks and TV stations. He owed 300,000 gambling debts due to extravagance and gambling, was declared bankrupt by the bank and hid in the snow in Taiwan Province. He fell from the peak to the bottom. Du Qifeng said at the time, "Ng Man Tat can't build walls with mud." .

Chow Yun Fat, a classmate and good friend, refused to lend him money even though he was called "discredited and disloyal", and advised Ng Man Tat to "get up where he fell" through others' mouths.

In soul astrology, Cancer, which forms 180 degrees with Capricorn, is considered as a "human gate", from which the soul descends into the flesh. Capricorn is considered as the "Road of God", which is the passage for the soul to leave the body and return to the sky.

If you carefully observe those people with strong Capricorn characteristics, you may also find that they always want to pursue something "bigger" than themselves. This pursuit is their driving force. If Capricorn wants to get closer to the peak of divinity and gain real self-esteem, it must embark on the road of climbing and struggle alone.

Ng Man Tat wants to die, too. When he saw the pond, he wanted to jump and die. Otherwise, try to escape. But he hesitated when he thought of his relatives. His mother said to him, "quit if you can."

Before being truly free, Capricorn needs to learn self-discipline. He needs to learn to use his willpower correctly, grit his teeth and tide over the difficulties. Even if the outside world is reviled and looked down upon at this time, even if I am a little desperate for myself.

Although "bear a grudge" against Chow Yun Fat at that time, Ng Man Tat gritted his teeth and persisted. He talked about loan sharks and underworld bosses, saying that he would be killed or let him pay his debts slowly.

After diving for four years, Ng Man Tat continued to be an unknown little walk-on after falling from the Red Man, and two-thirds of his meager salary had to be repaid. He lives alone, and he also digs out the textbook "Actor Cultivation" of the performing arts class and chews it carefully.

These four years seem bleak, but it is a period when Capricorn learns to be responsible for himself step by step and really consciously hone his mind. At this time, compared with the expansion caused by innate talent, his tough inner character tempered the day after tomorrow will become his real food in the future.

After that, Ng Man Tat's chance to make a comeback finally came. Seeing his performance in Taiwan Province, the restrictions on him were relaxed. He played with Tony Leung Chiu Wai. Although there are only two lines on a piece of paper, the tree has carefully pondered it for 200 times.

There is a scene where he wants to give Tony Leung Chiu Wai a good scolding. The great uncle who has experienced ups and downs has a profound understanding of human nature. He said to himself, "I'm cursing in my mouth and I must have a feeling of distress in my eyes." Therefore, such a supporting role has become a model of the entertainment industry.

Gradually, he began to be favored again, and various film appointments continued. This time, instead of drinking, he worked hard and even stayed at the TV station to sleep.

This is Ng Man Tat before knowing Stephen Chow. He is learning to be responsible for himself again. Stephen Chow, a cancer, needs to learn something similar.

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Cancer:

Strong bravado is sure to fail.

A bit like Ng Man Tat, they were both born poor. The difference is that Stephen Chow's childhood, "father" is absent. The mother raised three children, while the father was responsible for paying their rent. In retrospect, he just said, "Nothing. At my father's house for a while and at my mother's house for a while. "

Stephen Chow's childhood was silent. He is like a little hermit crab, shrinking his soft body into a shell called "home" and then quietly observing the world.

Fan Ming used a word to describe Stephen Chow: full of contradictions. Jing Wong also said: He is most afraid of others seeing through him. I think Stephen Chow's struggles when he grew up are all related to his childhood.

In mysterious astrology, Cancer's goal is described as "I will build an illuminated house and live there." Cancer's sense of security often comes from "inner home". As the "people's gate" opposite Capricorn, they are building their own kingdom, and their emotional connection has also become moist, maintaining his inner security zone.

And this stable residence was not available in Stephen Chow when I was a child. Cancer chooses to build a safe home in her heart. This home is small, but it can only accommodate herself.

Cancer has this small family and suddenly has the confidence to face the world. When I was a child, Stephen Chow curled up in this shell, quietly watching her parents quarrel and watching the world in a mess.

I have been thinking about what cancer is resisting and guarding. He resists the jealousy, anger, unwillingness and resentment of this world, and guards love.

We are always told that one day, you have to stand up and be independent. Unfortunately, many cancers were forcibly pulled out to face the storm outside without a hard shell. They can only desperately urge themselves to be a tough guy to protect their families and memories.

However, under such catalysis, it is not enough for a cancer to grow a strong soul. Such a cancer, like a bluffing child, has empty armor, but can't protect himself in the past and can't accept love.

Cancer is the first water sign, and it has primitive water roots. They are born with sensitive emotional receptors, which can grieve others' sadness and pain others' pain.

When the absorbed emotions are over-saturated, the negative emotions of Cancer, like flood discharge, have washed away the solid dam, and his heart has been disturbed and disturbed, eventually losing his pure land. Cancer born and raised has a fragile soul. At this time, can he be independent? What can he take?

So we chose to escape. In the face of loss and parting, in the face of emotional shocks again and again, Cancer chose to turn a blind eye. Arm yourself as an invincible person, deceive others, but also deceive yourself. With obvious toughness and arrogance, you create a silent appearance that allows the right person to come in. Cancer thinks you have nothing to lose.

However, how can the clenched hands keep the quicksand, and who can find that after the cancer turns around again and again, it leaves a lonely back. The escaped Cancer can't keep his inner kingdom. When he first subconsciously hid, he was already running away.

Before meeting Ng Man Tat, Stephen Chow ran as a walk-on for six years, and Tony Leung Chiu Wai, who was in the same period with him, became an instant hit. He entered wireless Andy Lau one year earlier and became the leading actor early. Stephen Chow has been silent for longer than anyone else.

Cancer was buried by the wind and sand, desperately pushing himself forward, but no one would brush the sand off the shell for him. At that time, Stephen Chow had not found his proper position, and his careful analysis and research on the role were superfluous in the eyes of the director.

1989 Stephen Chow didn't know that fate had brought him a man, Ng Man Tat, who was also his teacher and friend, just like his brother and father.

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Cancer Capricorn: Thank you for giving me the courage to be independent.

When they met, Stephen Chow was a small role who worked hard but was not appreciated. Ng Man Tat is a washed-up actor who fell from the altar and struggled. Perhaps it is precisely because they are both in unhappy life situations that they can understand and cherish each other more easily.

1989, in the TV series Heroes on Earth, Stephen Chow and Ng Man Tat formally cooperated for the first time. Stephen Chow lived across the hall from Ng Man Tat, and they had complementary personalities, and soon became friends. Ng Man Tat Stephen Chow 1 1 years old, he is the eldest son. Inadvertently, Ng Man Tat played the role of big brother.

Stephen Chow's strange ideas about acting were ignored by the director and not understood by his peers, but Ng Man Tat supported him. The two often go to the seaside to eavesdrop on couples' conversations and go to restaurants to observe diners. Ng Man Tat is responsible for persuading the producers to add all their own materials to the play.

The director saw that the two had a tacit understanding and customized a movie for them-"Gambling Saint". The film was only filmed for one month and seven days, and no big stars joined in. Some people even say that it is shoddy. But this pair of good partners who created constellations created a new performance mode, and even beat Jackie Chan's same movie to get the highest box office. They had a big fire.

After that, the mutual achievements of Capricorn and Cancer created a film era belonging to Stephen Chow.

As opposite constellations, Capricorn and Cancer have always had the same life theme: being alone. Capricorn seems to be born with this talent, while Cancer keeps learning. In the process of Capricorn constantly guiding Cancer, it also gained warmth and hugs. Cancer and Capricorn should be independent but not lonely.

When Stephen Chow stepped onto the altar, there were frequent news about his bad temper, hurtful words and even his relationship with his mother, and all this was mediated by the big brother Ng Man Tat. Saturn Libra of the tree has played its superior role, and how many times it has helped Stephen Chow make a comeback is probably the only thing they know.

This relationship seems to have changed. Ng Man Tat, who is clearly a Capricorn, has given Stephen Chow Cancer tolerance, while Stephen Chow, who should be as gentle as a Cancer, has become a stubborn Capricorn child. Perhaps, this is the most wonderful place of fate, he always knows his strangeness, and this is the most touching place of friendship.

Capricorn didn't lose his temper, which was his early experience. The wrong step he once took taught him the wisdom of independence in this world. Capricorn seems to be born strong. They ran forward, and the road they walked can prove the traces of his efforts. They were confused and confused, but finally they dragged themselves out of the mire.

Cancer's seemingly unreasonable temper is actually a child who has not been appeased in his heart. After meeting someone he could trust, he ran out. This sense of security is given by Uncle Da of Capricorn.

Stephen Chow remained silent when he won the prize, and he would like to thank Ng Man Tat in particular at the award ceremony. He was mentioned in the interview, but I deeply remember how Ng Man Tat thought over two lines.

Cancer also gives Capricorn a reason to be soft-hearted. If there is no soft part in a person, it is impossible to talk about how hard his life is. For Dashu at that time, Stephen Chow was not only a director and partner who could give him a suitable role, he must have seen something precious in him.

Only Capricorn has seen the claws of Cancer, so how many vacancies need to be filled. This constellation, which has been used to walking alone for countless times, has become the reliance of cancer, and the reconciliation between man and the past is reached at this moment.

And this cancer who grew up in the shadow, while relying on Capricorn, not only found a sense of security, but also gained something truly unique.

True independence is the freedom of the soul, the vastness of the spiritual world, the courage to face life alone and the courage to give love to others. The more independent you are, the more free you are. You should not close yourself off from the outside world.

The incomprehension of others should not be the reason why cancer becomes indifferent or retreats. Someone will understand your strangeness. He may be born with you, or he may leave halfway.

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Parting is to see yourself better.

If you don't know how to lose, how can you understand what is real gain?

This is what Capricorn wants to tell Cancer.

Since shaolin soccer, Uncle and Master Xing seem to have taken different paths. The two never worked together again. The media said that the two had fallen out and all kinds of embellishments were added. But actually falling out is a rumor, and the reality of drifting away is the truth.

He said that he probably didn't agree with Stephen Chow's style change. But different life and career trajectories have led them to different paths.

A Capricorn and a Cancer, the two constellations that were pulled at 180 degrees, finally separated.

Capricorn and Cancer are pioneering constellations, but one is that the earth image should be rooted in reality, and the other is that the water image should be connected with the spiritual world.

Master Xing seems to be more and more like Capricorn, devoting himself to film creation, even if the road to creation is lonely. Grandpa is a cancer, taking care of his family, body and acting skills. They are all more sure of what they want.

The interaction between the two souls, learning from each other, has almost been learned, and continues the next new journey. This encounter and separation may prompt us to understand the unique meaning.

He walked with him for a while, taught him the cost of growing up, and told him that his armor was used to resist the darkness, not to isolate the sun. Even at the next intersection, Capricorn will leave.

I will accompany you to finish this journey. Although it is only a section, love can exist in your heart for a long time.

Cancer, Capricorn. In retrospect, it was a day when * * * started life together. But those glorious days, where to say the past, are all over. Master Xing and Uncle Da will still miss each other.

As soon as the news that Ng Man Tat had liver cancer came out, Stephen Chow called and asked, "How's uncle? Please let me know if you need it. I miss him very much. "

In Ace to Ace, Dashu still said, "I'm not dead yet. He hasn't retired yet. There must be opportunities for cooperation. "

The final cooperation became their regret, and it also became the regret of an era.

Recalling the interview, Grandpa smiled and said, "We probably cheated two or three generations. The actor is really a liar, deceiving the feelings in your head and cheating your heart. " Why do some people like to watch their own comedies over and over again? He said: "It's not just fun on the surface, you still have something to watch."

Generation after generation has passed, and after 90 or 00, we are also being cheated by the classics, learning to face surprises and regrets again and again, and losing them again and again.

And perhaps, in this encounter and loss, we have gained a more complete self.