Which constellation do you like best?

Some people say that Capricorn is simply the scariest constellation in the world. They say their terror is not because of the black belly, but because of the "cold violence" that people don't know how to deal with. Cold violence is manifested in neglect, avoidance, indifference, alienation and indifference, which seems to cause no direct harm to people, but psychologically, cold violence is a kind of mental abuse. So is Capricorn's indifference intentional, or is it our in our nature?

Capricorn, please reply to me

Netizen a-

Boyfriend is Capricorn. . Cold violence will be used suddenly when it is embarrassing. See you as air in an instant. You were arguing, and suddenly he put on headphones, ignored you, didn't talk or look at you.

At this time my fire came up! ! ! !

What should I do in this situation! ! ! I never took the initiative to find him. Well, let's see how it works.

P.S. This Capricorn is actually very kind to me, and the care in daily life is perfect. And very single-minded We have been together for many years. What I can't stand is his bad habits. What does JMS usually do when it is in conflict with her boyfriend? Is there a similar situation? Also, if there are boys who are willing to talk about their thoughts at this time from the perspective of boys, I am also very welcome ~

Netizen b-

Capricorn was silent for three weeks.

There is only one "consideration" in the middle, which is silence.

Cold violence, cold violence

I sent him messages every morning and evening for the first two weeks.

The result is like sinking into the sea.

NND

I stopped sending it in the third week.

Just change it.

What I don't understand is

If you don't want to continue, you should say something

How can it be so cold and violent?

Don't fart

The dull Capricorn

Netizen c-

I am a fish girl, and I felt the same way at first. I've known him for more than two months, and I'm a little tired, but I still insist on sending him messages every day, and he will reply. Sometimes I just say, you don't care about me, you don't care, just say it early, don't delay my time and say goodbye. Anyway, I won't break up voluntarily, and I won't contact you immediately unless you mention it. Capricorn men are unbearable. 12 constellation should not have such a strange star. How much harm has marriage done? It deserves to be called an evil seat.

Capricorn's voice-just hate fighting.

Netizen d-

Like me, I am also a Capricorn. According to my personal experience, I am a person who hates quarreling, especially quarreling with my relatives is a kind of torture for me (probably because the scene of quarreling with my parents from an early age left a shadow on me). So I basically don't quarrel with GF. I'd rather keep silent and tell her what I just thought.

Quarrel is not what many people call "seasoning in love". In fact, every quarrel will leave a memory in the hearts of two people. If I really love her, I won't be angry with her. Don't want to make her sad, because cherish.

Netizen e-

As a Capricorn, I hate fighting. Take your Capricorn way when you are embarrassed.

If we have to quarrel, it must be the time and the last straw.

Say all the shortcomings of the other party, say what you usually endure, and then leave without looking back.

Everyone deals with quarrels in different ways.

If I can, I'd rather be alone than speak hurtful words.

You Capricorn man has always been good to you, and he can do it. I don't know what you're upset about.

When Capricorn's masculinity fades, he will come to you.

At this time, you can reason with him again and calm down to solve the problem.

Think that quarreling can't solve the problem.

Netizen f-

Fight or win Capricorn. Please "convince people by reasoning".

During the quarrel, Capricorn suddenly became cold and violent because she thought what you said was "completely unreasonable".

In addition, please don't "scold" repeatedly, which is meaningless.

Capricorn needs "teaching", and it is best to have "case proof", otherwise they will "not understand" and will not "correct".

It's totally meaningless to "move with emotion".

Love is not in the mouth, but in the heart.

Netizen g-

If Capricorn doesn't like it, it may be a little cold. Boyfriend is also a Capricorn. We just met. I am a Pisces, which is a little clingy, but Capricorn doesn't like it. I couldn't stand it, so I broke up, ignored him and deleted my phone number and QQ number. Out of sight, out of mind, but after a week, his text message came, and now we are together again. You choose, I am dizzy, and you don't say anything. How do I know you have me in your heart? We don't meet every day, and I can't see my clairvoyance in your heart.

We are really not good at communication.

Netizen h-

I am a Capricorn, and the so-called indifference is actually that I can't communicate with people. I envy those who can get along with people quickly. It's hard, okay?

Summary:

Although so many reasons are listed, it does not mean that Capricorn's cold violence can be forgiven and condoned. In fact, people who witnessed it said that they would rather have a good quarrel with Capricorn, hoping that they would speak out their grievances and dissatisfaction. It is also a kind of torture for both sides to hold back in their hearts. Capricorn, a natural sign of interpersonal barriers, people have come to get along with you with great tolerance and understanding. Only when you respond more enthusiastically can we have more confidence to love you!

Tell me, who did you have the longest cold war with? What is the constellation?

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